My ex and I broke up 2 months ago. Since then we talked for a bit, then she told me she wanted to stop communicating till she was ready. Almost two weeks ago she sent me and email, and we have been communicating, and seeing each other almost everyday, if only for a few minutes. She told me that she loves me, that she deeply cares about me, and she wishes we could start like we did at the beginning all over again. She also said that she isn’t sure what she wants, and last night she said she isn’t sure we could do that. She goes back and forth everyday on what she feels. She’s said several times that sometimes she feels like running away with me and getting married, and other times, she wants to just get away completely from me. I’ve told her how I felt, and that I’d like to start over again, and that I love her very much. when we first broke up, I was trying to get back with her, and she said that I was pressuring her, and it was pushing badly.

Now, I see my chance, but I’m worried about saying the wrong thing to her and pressuring her more to the point she will be gone. She is hanging out with a guy quite a bit, but she says he’s just a friend and that she was/is only interested in me.

What should I do?

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Well i have the sims deluxe edition on my laptop and its been fine , i have been able to play it with no problems. But today i bought the sims making magic and i could play it then i exited it. 10 mins later i click on it and it said that another versins of the sims has been found please uninstall so i did. Then i reinstalled the sims deluxe edition so it reinstalled so i started playig it…but it only gets up to adjusting emtional weight then it goes back to the desktop and said sims deluxe edtion has stopped working.

I tryed it several times and even restarted my laptop but its still the same…..i even uninstalled it and reinstalled it several times…wats wrog with it?

thanks
Scott (:

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I just had a conversation with my husband, and he confided that he would like me to lose some weight. And no, he’s not an awful shallow person – we were talking about areas in our lives we could each improve on, and we asked eachother to be honest.

And I’m not suprised at all. When we got together, I weighed about 200lb, and right now I weigh 255. We’ve been married about 8 months, and that weight gain was all within the last year. I’m 5′5. I honestly know I need to lose weight, and I have tried several times. My husband tells me all the time that I am beautiful, and sexy, and that I turn him on. He is very affectionate, and I never feel like he judges me for my body – he loves me for me, I have no doubts.

A few weeks ago, I weighed 260, and I was able to lose 5lb by eating healthier and going on hikes. But somehow my will power just disappeared. I still walk and play with my dog in the park, but the eating has gotten out of control again. Food has always ruled my life, and I have always been heavy. I use food for comfort, boredom, fustration, and hunger.

Please don’t tell me it’s just a matter of will power – I already know this. My problem is.. it’s easier said than done.

I love my husband, and we want to make our life together long, happy, and healthy. Please don’t put him down for being honest with me – I told him theres some things he needs to work on also. I am willing to do anything I can to make him happy, and to make myself happy. Just like a mom would steal food for her starving kids… a fat wife should be willing to lose a few for her handsome, sexy hubby.

He’s 5′11 and weighs about 195. Very muscley and …Rawr!

Our sex life isn’t hurting any, believe me – this isn’t about looks. He said he wants me to lose weight so I would be happier with myself. I do have issues with how I look, and I pull the "Im so fat!" card more than I should. So he has a point.

Anyhow… what are your success stories? Has any BBW in my situation found a method that worked for her?

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My boyfriend just broke up with me, we were best friends before and really loved each other but he just got so busy with after school activities… and he just stopped loving me… we had like really deep conversations while we were going out too… and i really want him back, he was really sweet… and handsome… and just overall perfect… how do i earn him back? how can i make him want me? answers pleeeaaasseee. and i’m not willing to stoop low as to dating his best friends or anything because his best friends is also my best friend… please help?
he still wants to be friends… but i don’t know if i can talk to him… and it was really sudden too… and all my friends think i can get him back but i really don’t know, i’ve been so miserable for the past few days that i haven’t even been able to eat anything… and i’ve been close to puking several times… like i’m literally sick to my stomach and the heart ache is unbearable… but he was still really happy after we broke up… like the day after i was holding back tears all day and he was just all happy. but he keeps looking at me… like he did when he was with his old girlfriend… back when he liked me… now he’ll peek over and see what i’m up too and if i look over and catch his glance, he turns his head really quickly and goes back to talking to his ‘other friends’ and i just invited him back into our old group… even though people are mad at him, i felt bad… because his best friend is also there… but idk how to deal or get over him…

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Me and my ex have been broken up since the 23rd of January.He hasnt spoke to me,called or contacted me.Its as if he has forgotten me completely.I had made a mistake begging for him back,and making myself feel less than i am.That only made me feel worse.You cant force someone to love you.Two days after the breakup i asked him if he still loved me,he said no he didnt,which really hurt,because how can u possibly forget someone soo quickly.I mean we spent 9 full months together doing everything.He was my best friend.He was my first true love,which i heard takes alot of time to get over.I had made some mistakes of my own.I have disrespected him several times,made him feel as if he had to choose between me and his family,distracted him from God.this all happened when i was selfish and too confident in the middle of the relationship.My sister had told me If he really loved you he would have pushed and never gave up on the relationship no matter what.She is now married to a man that she says puts up with everything she says and does,because he loves her.His reasons to why he broke up with me were You never changed,we werent going anywhere,and i feel that God wants me to be single,and focus on him.I respect that,but i mean seriously i do not deserve this hurt,and do not believe it.His ex-girlfriend before me he had visited her in Ohio before we were dating last last christmas.It was a long distance relationship,he had payed 200 dollars plus the christmas gifts.when he arrived she had broke up with him,and had flirted and talked to one of his best friends.He had missed her from what he told me,but that is absolutely ridicolous.5 months into that relationship by phone and email and he still spoke to her,and 9 months with me and no contact whatsoever.im confused.I mean yeah i gave him emotional hurt i didnt see,but i still holded on to him and kept going strong.i had lost my dog and i begged him when he could to pay half of my new one and i would pay half.All i could do was apologize and make him see that i did not want his money or materials soo i returned them back to him.all i wanted was his support and love.from s guys perspective,do u know if he will come back,and is hiding his feelings right now?or should i just move on and let it go?why do you think he discontinued talking to me?Is he thinking bad things about me that he didnt see and telling everyone?It hurts to feel like you are the bad person.

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I live in a court. It’s ran by an assocation. The b*tch (president) has never acted as a mediator. She is determined to choose sides. And there’s nothing the police can do since it’s private property. There are usually three 16 yr olds with multiple basketballs pounding on the asphalt in front of my house. I’ve seen them in my driveway, blocking it multiple times. They have hit both my vehicles several times. This usually persists for an entire afternoon every other day. This horrible noise can be heard throughout my entire house; it’s like a jackhammer. The teenager’s father thinks it’s great. He actually partakes in the festivities and does so with some of the older guys in the court. It’s really pissing me off. I’m being singled out. Should I just up and move? It seems like the only solution. Just because one asshole kid and his friends want to harass me, it’s going to cause all this upheavel. GAHHH!
LOL. I’ve talked to them already. It’s not like I’m going to live in Detroit anyway. So, I don’t have to worry about the crime part. Ha.

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Your girlfriend just broke up with you & you’re devastated. You’ve been drinking. A lot. You can get through the day without thinking about it too much, but at night, when you’re alone, it’s just too much to deal with. After kissing the bottle one too many times, you drunk-dial her (several times a week).

On one such occasion, while your ex is out of town, you run into a mutual friend of yours (her roommate who has already admitted to having a bit of a crush on you) at a bar. In your drunkenness, you decide to let her take you back to her place so you could sleep with her and then take the opportunity to snoop around your ex’s bedroom while she’s not looking.

You wake up the next morning with a vicious hangover. Your ex’s roomie is in the kitchen, wearing your shirt, and making breakfast. You panic and quickly decide that the whole thing was a mistake. Just when you ask for your shirt back, the door opens. It’s your ex.

What would you do/say? How do you think the ex would respond?

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My husband’s three years younger to me & average looking. I never found him attractive, witty or intelligent but somehow liked him as a person before we got married. I am quite attractive but a shy person. He would make me feel protected and loved. I guess that’s the reason I got married to him.

After a year of marriage we started having disputes and he would end up hitting me. I will not say he’s totally at fault as I can be very rude when I’m angry but I still feel no one should hit a woman. Things in the bedroom were also never so great. After 2 years of marriage I was attracted to another guy and was very disturbed as I felt there was something missing in my marriage. I never let anything happen between us as I can’t imagine myself cheating my husband. Again last year I had a huge crush on a guy I met just twice and I think he felt the same way. I decided never to meet that person again because of the attraction between us.

We have a child now and my husband is doing quite well in his career. I think I dont love my husband anymore and wonder if I ever did love him. Dont feel like going to a councellor. How can someone else make me fall in love with my husband. I dont see any way out? Pls help!
P.S : The other guy was attractive, witty, polite..but I do understand that I just met him twice & he must be at his best behaviour.. So, I have forgotten about this other guy.. I wish I could fall in love with my husband (for my child’s sake) inspite of the fact that he has hit me several times..but dont know how..i did get married to him because I liked him.. even though I did’nt find him attractive..

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Me and this guy were together 2 years ago. We had to end it because my parents had issues with him and I was unable to communicate with him anymore. (He kept begging me to stay, cried and everything) The last year was very tough, for both of us…and I finally initiated contact with him 8 months ago. He seemed really happy that I was "back"…3 months ago I asked the dreaded question of if he had any feelings left for me…he flat out rejected me…and said that he wasn’t as capable as he was 2 years ago…that he couldn’t promise to love me…that he "lost" himself…that since me, he hadn’t liked anyone…

So…3 months after, (now) me and him still talk, several times a week, usually an hour or more at a time…we’re so much closer…but one thing’s different…he’s being so damn selfish and whiny! He’s always feeling sorry for himself…if he messages me on msn for example he expects me to be there and give him all the attention but if I start the conversation, it doesnt matter if he doesnt reply for 5 minutes at a time…or if he’s "busy" although his status is online…He does pretty much whatever he wants…and I can understand that hes not the same guy that I fell in love with 2 years ago….how should I deal with this? Ignore him? Stay by his side and support him no matter what the outcome is? Forget him? lol…to be perfectly honest I don’t know what my question really is…

I guess I mean to ask…how do I bring back the spark we two had?

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My husband cheated on me. I want him back.

My husband just came back from being away in training for two months. I found out (and this is a for sure yes) that he cheated on me with someone who was in his class several times.

He knows I’m suspicious but I haven’t told him I have the proof and I don’t plan on telling him. I want my marriage and I love him. I have forgiven him in my heart and mind, that’s not the problem. My problem is we are still living in the same household and will be for another three months until I can get on my feet (financially) for the sake of our children.

He won’t sleep in the same bed with me or give me any sign of affection (says his mind’s set). He told me no matter how hard he tried I was never happy and he gets angry thinking of all our fights and the low blows I would give him and vice-versa. I told him I was over it, apologized, & that our marriage is mendable.

What do I do to win his love back? Please help. (and the whore is states away back with her husband, so i dont worry about her).

Help me

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How can you win back your ex?

My boyfriend and I broke up three weeks ago. We were together for two years and I don’t want to lose him forever. I’ve tried calling him several times but he doesn’t seem to want to talk to me. I’m really getting desperate cause I’m really still in love with him. Can anyone help me and tell me what I should do?

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A wonderful guy and I were going out for a little while, but then for some reason I just sort of freaked out and dumped him abruptly. Even I’m not sure why. Now every time I bump into him (which is several times a day, ugh) I feel so horrible for treating him like that, and I can’t believe I gave up on the great thing we had. I am definitely starting to have second thoughts.

The problem is, well, I have several problems. First, I’m not entirely sure whether I really want him back, or whether it’s just guilt hitting me like a ton of bricks. How do I tell?

Second, is it even within my rights to ask him to take me back? I feel like I don’t even deserve to ask anything of him after how nicely he’s treated me through all this and how much of a ***** I’ve been to him.

Third, if I do decide to ask him to give me another chance, how do I go about it? What on earth can I say??

I would love some advice from people who have been on either side of this situation before — Dumpers, how did you get your loved one back? Dumpees, can you give me perspective on how he might react?

Thanks a ton! ^_^

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My bf and I had a bad break up. He just stop talking to me bc he was mad at me. I tried calling several times and sent him numerous texts. I haven’t heard from him in two weeks. I want to write him a letter saying how much i miss him. I don’t want to loose him. What should i do leave him alone or write him a letter?

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Keeping in mind that this woman cheated on him several times prior to and after receiving his kidney and now refuses to let him see his 3 kids. Also it may be important to note that she received 2 kidneys prior to his that failed and would’ve been on a waiting list behind 6000+ for another. He seemed like a bad guy till I really read why he’s doing it but what do you think?

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I dated my ex-girlfriend for a year. I met her parents several times. She was/is the perfect woman in my eyes. The only problem in our relationship was that she had a problem letting me be a part of her life. She would go days at a time without calling me. I didn’t expect her to call me everyday or even every other day. I never said anything when she went days without calling me. The Friday before Thanksgiving my ex-girlfriend sent me a text at 6 pm asking me if I wanted to go to the movies at 10 pm with her sister and brother-in-law if they decided to go. I replied yes, but I never heard from her one way or the other. I didn’t hear from her again until Monday night when she replied to a text message I sent her asking if we could talk. She seemed like she wasn’t in a talking mood. I assumed she was tired from work and I knew she had to get up early so I cut the call short. She didn’t call me back the rest of the Thanksgiving week. It’s Sunday night and I’m feeling ignored or even strung along. I overreacted because I felt hurt and sent her a text message saying I think she is a special person but I feel it would be best if I found someone closer to my own age and that I didn’t think she was at a place in her life where she was ready to be in a serious relationship. I should mention that I’m 32 and she’s 24. The next day I get a reply text stating she wished things could have worked out. I could tell I really hurt her. I immediately realized I made a big mistake by impulsively sending a hurtful break up text instead of calling her and discussing how I really felt about being ignored. I’ve been sending her text messages for a week telling her I love her and I was wrong and begging for a chance to make things right. She want reply to my texts or call me. I really love her and would do anything to get her back. My ex-girlfriend was homeschooled by her parents and still lives with them. She isn’t as independent as most 24 year old women. This could’ve been the reason she had a hard time letting me be a part of her life.

Does anybody have any suggestions on how I can get her back??? Serious responses only. I would really like to hear a woman’s perspective.

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My husband has a huge problem of always making excuses and expecting to always be fogiven. Usually there small things but when it happens all the time its starting to make him unreliable. How many times should I forgive his mistakes? "He’s very faithful never cheated and never will" I have to ask him to do this several times before it gets done. He always forgets things. He’s horrible at deadlines "never meets deadlines or pays bills on time". I feel like his mother, and he always gets mad at me because he says i’m controlling. I’ve told him over and over, if he wants me to quit being controlling then he needs to take the intiative to get things done so I’m not always reminding him. My husband always makes bad decisions. Right before my husband and I started dating he had a drunken one night stand with a woman and got her pregnant. now he doesn’t even see the child, he again acts like if he forgets about it that it doesn’t exsist. my husband lives his life making excuses for everything big or small. how to i make my husband start owning up to his mistakes, take intiative to handle his problems, and to quit forgetting things. also how to i get my husband to understand why I always act like the leader in our marriage and why I’m controlling. i dont want to me the leader in my marriage, i would love for us to handle things 50/50, but it always ends up as me fufilling my 50, and him "forgetting about his 50".
I really want to fix this problem without divorce. I strongly don’t believe in divorce unless cheating is involved

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Long story but totally worth it!

My boyfriends ex girlfriend wants to get back together with him AGAIN!!!! They also have a child together but have been on again off again since he was born. They have recently been broken up for a year and a half and this time it was because she cheated on him. She has taken him to court several times for custody and a few other times for some non-sense that was throw out.

We have been together for almost a year now and she’s known that we’ve been seeing each other but just until recently (past couple months) he and I have made it become more serious and we both love each other (awww, isn’t love grand! hehe) and low and behold, a few weeks ago she called him and told him that she still loved him and wants him back and that she wants him to think about it. He told me that she called him and i value that he was honest and that makes me trust him.

I havn’t brought it up since he told me because I am secure in our relationship but she keeps texting him and what have you and I’m starting to get ******* irritated as hell!!!! Example: They talk on the phone about their child etc..etc.. and he talks to her in front of me and its no problem, but he’ll drop their son off to her and moments later he gets a text from her about how she loves him and how she knows he still loves her blah blah blah. Or she’ll call him at like 3am or text him! He is not in love with her nor does he have any type of love for her besides being the mother of his child. and they both know that every time they’ve "tried to work it out" it never worked….so whats the freakin deal here? Why can’t she move on like an adult its been how many attempts and how many years? She also called and asked all these personal questions about me and him, like if I get him off and if we have good sex etc…hello grow up??? I can’t even amagine asking questions like that to my ex ( i have a child too and I have moved on, and I did it with grace thank you very much) Geezzzz!

Should I stop ignoring it and tell him how I feel? And whats her deal? Is she just testing him or does she only love him and want him back when he’s in a great, loving, healthy, relationship and its not with her….I just want her to back off….but I understand they have a kid together etc…but uhhh errrr I just need some advise PAH-LEASE! Thanks! BTW I am 27 he is 28….and she’s 33.

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How do I get over my married lover?

I had an affair with a married man almost 3 yrs. ago that lasted about a year. I fell head over heels in love with him and I told him so.

He was the best thing that has ever happened to me. I told him many times that I loved him and he in return told me he loved me. I told him that I was leaving my husband for him and he told me that I could do whatever I wanted to do, but he was not leaving his wife, he loved her.

I want him back so freakin bad, and I have been trying everything to get him to realize that he loved me.

I even told his wife tht he talks to me and tht we were still seeing each other, but I guess tht didn’t work, because he is still with her. I just want all the stuff that he did with me back. He was so sweet and kind and everything that I wanted in a man.

He told me in Nov. 07 that he didn’t want to see me anymore, and that he didn’t want me to call him again, but I did, several times after my Dad died, I just wanted to see him and get one of his hugs. But, he told me that he didn’t want to see me.

I guess that he does love his wife, because whenever I see them togehter they seem to be very happy and loving.

he knows about the affair,(I told her) but she still is with him. I want him back so bad and will do anything to get him back. How can I make him realize just how much he means to me and how much I love him?

He will not answer any of my calls.

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I need help on how to save my marriage , I have cheated in my wife on the past , several times and now I always think something is going on that is not and it is pushing us apart. I don’t have proof of anything wrong she has done just what I think she has done and She has about had it with me because of it. I dont know what to do ?

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