My Heart IS BREAKING…I dont want to break up, but how do I fix him controling our sex life?
I have an issue with my boyfriend that he gets sex when he wants it, but when I start trying to have sex with him…
He changes what we are doing. He will do anything to stop it.
This has been a problem since the begining of our relationship,but I dont know how to handle it.I did of course speak to him about how that made me feel.
I told him that I thought our relationship should be equal and that I have sexual needs that he is treating like they dont matter.
He usually responds to me,”sex isn’t the most important thing in our relationship,right?” Then what do i say?When we do have sex, the sex is great!
I hate to say it, but every time he has ever tried,I have never been able to say no.
I just love him,and long for that connection we do have during sex. I dont want to be one of those sad girls that will just take what she can get when she can get it,but sadly I really have been.
I want to feel like a sexy woman that can turn her man on!
This has broken my selfesteem a lot!
What should I do?
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I have just met my husbands son (aged 25) for the first time, as he lives abroad and is visiting us on holiday.
While we were out with a group of friends he started talking to his son about his ex-wife (son’s mother) saying he hoped the son realises why he divorced the mother, and said part of it was that she only wanted sex every few months and then it had to be quick, and that he hoped she has changed and that she finds someone else (they have been divorced 4 years) – we have been married two years. The son told him it’s his life and that he shouldnt look back. (wise advise) Hubby said you need to look back to understand what went wrong. It made me feel strange he was talking like this to his son with me within earshot. I heard everything, but pretended I didnt. I am now uncomfortable that he is regretting leaving his ex and trying to get news about her from the son, seeing if she has changed, if she’s seeing anyone, etc….. What do you think – how should I handle this?
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