I’m not Christian but I’m saving sex for marriage or at least for a serious relationship because I think it’s safer health wise. However, I think the main reason Christians save sex for marriage is because they think it’s a sin otherwise. So I started to wonder how many non Christians, like me, were saving sex for marriage for health reasons–ie to avoid STDs.
Saving sex until marriage, how/when should I let a guy I am with know that?
So I’m seventeen, and I’m saving sex for marriage, in case you couldn’t tell from my question.
This seems to be am issue with a lot of guys, so telling them is usually a problem.
My main question is, how/when in a relationship would you recommend telling the guy, especially considering the fact that I’m going to be going off to college soon?
Any help you can give me would be great.
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I’ve always been told that sex before marriage is a sin and so I want to wait. He doesn’t want to wait because we live in Tennessee and he says there’s no telling how long it might be before it’s even legal…if ever. So I am confused. What should we do? I love him and I plan to be with him forever.



