How do you get back the sexual energy you had when you were younger. I am 30, my wife is 25. We have one beautiful 7 yr old daughter, and another on the way.
When we were younger, only like five years ago we could make exciting passionate love all nite long, like 9 times a week sometimes, but the past couple years, it hasn’t been the same as when we were like 24 and 19. She says I’ve gottne boring, and need to spice our love life up again.
She thinks i am not attracted to her anymore, which I am. she is a very beautiful petite ll woman, any man would love.
I planned for a weekend away to a cabin just the two of us.
Also, she knows I love it when she wears her lil nity’s, or one of my t-hsirts which barely cover her smooth tthighs, which she did when she was younger. she doesn’t do that anymore though.
jld522, I wasn’t talking about just taking care of me, and yes I do get it.
I was perfectly fine with our love life. She is the one who wants alot more of it, and wants more passionate love making. I am trying to lo ask advice, tips on how to make it better for her.
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There is no way to tell how to do a yoni Massage step by step. So what I’m going to do is describe how I would do the ceremony for my wife. It is not that we men don’t want to satisfy you ladies, we just don’t know how to do foreplay for an hour or two. I hope this will give some enlightenment in that area.
Start by getting cleaned up, shower, shave, just like you were going out for the evening; but don’t get dressed. Since my wife and I like to do this at least once a month we have robes just for this occasion. My robe is light cotton, knee length and powder blue; my wife’s is white lace and floor length.
Now it is time to make things ready for your Goddess; this must be your mindset for the next two to three hours. Everything you are doing is in worship of “your” Goddess. Run her a bath with scented oils. Place candles around the tub and play soft music. Bring your Goddess to the bath. Slowly undress her and help her in the tub. Take her clothes and close the door leaving her to relax. (Now you are using aromatherapy with the scented oils and music therapy to help her relax.)
While she is relaxing it is time for you to set up the sacred space. You can use the bed but make it special with candles and incense. I use a blowup bed with a fake fur covering it in the living room just to make it different. You need to cleanse the space. Using the incense, walk around the space pushing all negative energy out of the space. You can do a chant or whatever you feel is necessary.
Now it is time to retrieve you Goddess. Bringing her robe softly knock on the door so as not to startle her. Help her out of the tub and dry her off. Put her robe on her and lead her to the sacred space. Have her lie face down as you pull her robe off.
There are any number of oils you can use for the massage. Straddle her back and start with your hands between her shoulder blades. Work up and out, massaging her neck and shoulders. Talk softly as you tell her how you are pushing the negative energy from the outside world out through her finger tips. Massage down each arm and each finger. Follow your hands with soft kisses and little licks. You want to remove the tension and build up the sensuality at the same time. So this is a relaxing massage and a sensual massage at the same time.
Between licks and kisses keep softly talking to her. Have her feel the negative energy leave her body. Now work your way down her back, her hips and her butt. Move to the side and work her legs; always pushing the negative energy out her toes. Massage each of her toes, now do the other leg. Have her turn over and start again between her breast and work your way down just as you did on her back. Now comes the Yoni massage.
Get between her legs and pull her knees up. Bow with your hands in a praying fashion. Now ask permission to enter the Yoni. Never enter the yoni without permission. I’ve never heard of a goddess saying no so it is really a formality, but a very important one. This shows respect and worship of your Goddess.
When she says yes slowly insert your middle finger in the yoni and cup her mound with your palm. Just hold her that way as you put your other hand on her heart. Tell her to feel the energy flow from her yoni up your arm, across your heart, down your arm into her heart and back to her yoni. As she starts to feel the flow of energy bend your middle finger back in a come here manor.
The walls of the yoni are very smooth except right in front. There is a section the feels like corduroy. It is still slick but fells rippled. It is only about an inch square but is the most sensitive place on a woman’s body. Just massaging it lightly will send most women into orbit. It is directly behind the clitoris and stimulation both at the same time is the bind blowing part. You can adjust the pressure, the stroke and the direction of the stroke. Each one gives a totally different pleasure to the woman.
The goal is to keep her riding the wave as long as you can. There won’t be any mistaking when she goes over the edge. Let her come down slowly. She should let you know what to do next. She may want penetration, not necessarily intercourse but just a bonding. She may want to just drift off to sleep or maybe cuddle and sleep together.
