He is friends with his ex, she lives down the street & they don’t have kids together.
I was using his laptop when an email alert popped up from a forum he’s always on for cars. It said you’ve received a reply to "girlfriend pics". I hate myself in photos & wanted to see which one he posted. To my total shock it was NOT me but pics of his ex naked.
When someone responded saying she was hot, he posted back that her boobs are fake, she’s botoxed, her hair is dyed & her teeth are capped but she’s good enough to keep around.
I called him on it & he said it was just a guy thing with the car dudes because she had HUGE boobs & that’s what they go for. He says the pics were taken after breakup & for artistic purposes for him to copy a famous painting.
I don’t think about it AT ALL daily but for some reason every time we get in an argument I bring it up. I must not be over it.
NO she is not better looking than me. I’ve met her. She got the boobs removed, she has had 3 kids & is not in shape. He said he wouldn’t have posted pics of ME because he respects me too much & he was just joking with the guys online.
No DAREDEVIL I have never asked this question before. Good to know someone else has had the same F’d up experience though.
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p.s the story is more complicated than this i just need help on moving on.. thanks
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The first day I was better I was with my boyfriend and I were talking and all of the sudden this rush of unfamiliarity and doubt rushed over me… I dont know why. Ever since then I have been obsessed with "what ifs" what if I dont love him anymore, what if we arent right for each other anymore, what if I dont even like him, what if I never loved him? And so on… I just obsess about it and then eventually convince myself that I dont care about him… and then it just goes away for a while. I see everything clearly and nothing feels forced, he doesnt annoy me much, and I just feel natural and like myself. I dont know what is going on. I just feel numb! I feel like I am sabotaging myself!!!
Oh, by the way, I am 18, and this is my first real relationship. I am on zoloft.
PLEASE HELP ME
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