how long does it take for a girl that broke up with her bf of 3 yrs take to get over him?
see, i got with this girl right after they broke up, we did our thing for about a month or two, then she started telling me that she didnt feel ready for another BF or commitment. they broke up because of him smoking weed and turned out to be a big trust issue for her. she told me many times how much she loved me, and how perfect i was because i was everything that her ex was not. I KNOW that i made a mistake asking out a girl who had barely broken up, but its just one of those times that you just have to take that risk, you know. and i know that in a way i was just a rebound or a cuddle buddy while she was broken up with the other guy, but i know she DID felt something for me, it was a shocker that in our relationship went completely upside down in about a day or two. i loved this girl so much. its just hard for me to just let her go, even though it has been about 4 months since we been apart. so im asking, about how long will it take her to finally decide to be together again and pick up where we left off? or if she would want to at all? i have moved on, but she remains in the back of my head everyday, and i still hope that what we had doesnt just die out like this.
