My fiance has been wanting to marry me for over a year now. He proposed to me and I accepted. In our relationship often times he has a short temper and whenever he gets upset he starts to call me names and he gets really upset and starts talking about how I dont appreciate him enough. about a month ago after a fight we had he broke up with me. I really miss him and I miss taking care of him. but at the same time I feel like this happened for the best because he seems like he would get mad really fast. When he is happy he s great but when he is mad It gets really bad between us.
I dont know what to feel or do.
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Ok so, my girlfriend of a year broke up with me about two weeks ago. Just a week before our year anniversary. She claimed that i never gave her space to breathe and that for the past month or so we were arguing about everything. I have no problem admitting that i was extremely clingy and always trying to hover over her via texts, calling, asking to hang out, ect. She told me she needed space and i didnt know how to handle it. I begged and cried and pleaded for her to let me have another chance but claimed that she just couldnt do it right now. The next week was my birthday, i asked her to hang out with me just because it would make me feel better about everything (big mistake, i think) I went out and bought her 2 life sized teddy bears, 2 dozen roses, a card, and like 10 balloons shaped like hearts. She agreed to come over and i presented her with everything. She was happy and started to cry and i thought i was doing great. Then, she began to tell me that she had told me to be less clingy in the past and that i had gone back to being the clingy person i am for the last year we’ve been together and it wasnt going to take a week for her to notice that i changed. I cried and we hugged and talked for about 30 minutes and then she left. I have started going back to therapy to try and work on becoming less clingy, and work on my short temper and just have been doing everything i possibly can to show her that i have and can change. Its been a week and a half since my birthday and i havent talked to her since. I feel like the best way to show her that im changing is by giving her that space that she asked for. a few days ago i got a text from her asking what happened at school that day but it was a very short lived conversation. I felt like that was her way of trying to talk to me again or coming up with an excuse to talk to me.
I haven fallen deeply in love with this girl and we were together for just about a year. She said that after new years she would see how she was doing and that maybe we could try things out again. She goes away for christmas and new years to visit her family and will be gone for a week and a half. Do you think she’ll realize how much she loved me and wants to still be with me? I need to know how else to get her back because i love this girl so much and i would do anything to have her back. Please help me 
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