Most common questions:
Does he/she like me?
The simplest way to find out is to get communicative enough with the person so you can ask, "I like you, do you like me?" or "Do you want to go out sometime?" Don’t waste your time trying to read signs. You can waste the entirety of your teen or adult years because of fear of rejection. Everyone, Prince William and Angelina Jolie included, I guarantee you, have been rejected before. It is part of life, you will experience it too. But fear of rejection will make you miss all the joys of love, affection, lust, and sex. Overcome fear and find out!
Or – if he/she has shown no signs of interest, just move on now.
Should I leave him/her?
Most likely, if you have to ask, yes. Talk to the person, give it a schoolboy try to fix it, but if it won’t, and you two can’t be open to each other, then end it. Don’t drag things out.
This answers about 90% of questions in this section. I hope it is not too harsh, a lot of it is "move on." But moving on is key, remember how great you are, and anyone who treats you like that is missing out. Confidence! Cheers
We went out but he hasn’t called me in….what is happening?
Possibilities:
1. He is a player. He has other girls on his roster and doesn’t like you as much as you want him to.
2. He didn’t like you very much in the first place. Or something happened which made him like you less.
3. He met someone else/got together with an ex-girlfriend.
4. He died/is in the hospital/lost your phone number/is in a place with no phones. Unlikely, but possible.
5. He is actually that shy.
6. You slept with him too quickly. Unfortunate but real double standard.
BUT, there is only one way to find out. Call him. Don’t be afraid to seem needy or desperate. It is time for female kind as a whole to stop running through things over and over in their head and man up, and ask. If you can’t reach him for three days, he is a coward, but something happened. You move on. Don’t worry about it. You are hot stuff and he is missing out, not you. If he answers, you will get an answer, even if it is implicit.
My friends say I’m nice, funny, attractive, and intelligent, but I can’t find a boyfriend/girlfriend. What am I doing wrong?
The most likely is that you don’t socialize enough. Get out there. Play the field. Stop expecting your romances to start in a certain way or a certain place or with a certain type of person. Open up to possibilities.
Everyone likes hard to get. Not as in hard to get to go out with me, if you want to go out with someone, go. I mean in the sense that you maintain some mystery about yourself. Try playing games a little. Don’t be emotionally or physically slutty.
Have good manners, be the best person you can be, groom yourself, and go out expecting to meet someone. Don’t be shy. I go back to the "everyone gets rejected" mantra.
We’re close friends, but I am starting to like him/her. What should I do?
Make it known. If you are close, if he or she isn’t interested, this will be another hump you can get over in the friendship. If he/she is, then you have what you want!
I can’t get over him/her…what should I do?
Yes, you can. You need to go out with other people, have a wide selection so your focus isn’t so strong. Remove physical reminders of him/her, such as clothes, gifts, etc. Really know IT IS OVER. Don’t think it is over but…maybe? No. It’s over. Move on. You are better than that. There is no need to subject yourself to the pain of unrequited love.
What does a girl look for in a guy? What does a guy look for in a girl?
Everyone has their own proclivities as far as what they like in the opposite sex. For instance, I like dating men who don’t talk much, and when they do, they have something to say. That’s just me.
Overall, for girls: Attractive, nice, easygoing, dresses well, good manners, not a gold digger, not ultra needy, faithful, classy, funny, outgoing, considerate, passionate, good in bed, cheerful, no overuse of drugs.
Overall for boys: Attractive, kind, charming, funny, financially stable, dresses well, good manners, faithful, confident, outgoing, interesting, passionate, good in bed, no overuse of drugs.
Answer to why did you do this? For some reason, I got really addicted to answering people’s questions on this website, and noticed on the singles and dating section it is basically the same questions over and over. It started to annoy me so I just decided to give a blanket answer rather than type it out over and over again. And a basic urge to help people not go through the same sh*t I went through.
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