I am struggling with a broken relationship. I tend to get overly involved, and invest heavily in a relationship.
Now I continually think about the past, about my wounds, about everything that happened between us, especially the bitter things.
This is giving me grey hair and beard, and worry lines on my face. I don’t want all that. I want to come out of it as quickly as I can. I have been told to forget it, but it isn’t easy. I am of an overly worrying nature, and the throughts haunt me every single second of my day.
I’m out of job, and so have a lot of time to sit back and worry.
Please advice me on some extraordinary methods to forget someone and get out of this situation.
THIS IS A MAD LONG STORY – SORRY BROS
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My ex girlfriend and i broke up a few months ago. we were going out for over a year. And i really do care about her, and i still love her even though i have tryed everything. During the seperation, i tryed ignoring/blocking all communications withher.
It surprisingly worked, until 3 weeks ago. For some reason, I just started missing her all over again. Everytime I see her, I feel sick. I just want her and I miss that feeling of being happy with her. Not to sound gay, but she was my complete everything. I did everything for her, just to see her smile. Anywho, because I don’t have her I started smoking.
And, the only reason why I do it because it copes with my depression. I am just not me anymore. When I was with her, I never thought for a single second of trying it. Now without her, I am just a different person. I don’t care at all about life anymore, without her. I know I sound desperate or pathetic, but its just whats going on right now. She was the only thing that made me happy. I am also barely passing school, my grades are mad low because of this shit. Again, its because I do not care at all what so ever. When ever I walk around in the halls, shes always looking at me for some reason.
Also, when I am with my friends, she usually steps in and starts talking about her new boyfriend with her friends. Like on the spot, if I come in to talk to my homies, she’ll immediately start talking about Jimmy(Her New Boyfriend). And I am sick of it! I cant stand it, I hate that kid so much and I just want to bash his face in. He claims hes going to fight me, which he wont. He doesn’t even look at me when I stare at him and he wont fight me because my ex keeps telling him not to.
I don’t get it at all! I want to completely ANNIHILATE him, but I’d just be happy if I stole my ex from him. Also, if I am walking in the halls and if she sees him, she’ll be completely all over him like in a second. Its crazy, at my dance I was slow dancing with this one chick. And I saw her with her boyfriend, and she looked at me. Then immediately started making out with him. Like WTF.
just love her so much, and I do miss her. I want her back, but I don’t know what steps to do. I tried standing at the end of her street where her house is [I was high] waiting for her to come and talk to me. I want to tell her how I feel, but I don’t know if I should. Instead, she started crying and said she’ll call the cops. I want to fight Jimmy, Jimmy doesn’t but he says he does. And she doesn’t want us to fight. A week ago, I walked over to him and her and started talking to Jimmy.
I apologized for our fighting [ as a joke ] and reached my hand out. Instead he tried acting all tough telling me to apologise to my ex for going to her house. I immediately said no I will not, and he started yelling telling me that I will. So I said no I fucking wont and I walked off. And as the big man he is, he screamed at the end of the hall that Im walking away as usual and said F you to me. So I said it back and called him a pu$$y.
This sucks, I want to fight him but I want her back. He’s 2 years older than me and my ex by the way. She always looks at me and tries to talk to me. But I don’t know what to do. She kept asking me today what was it I wanted to tell her. But I just replied with a “oh nothing.” My friends say that she is probably just trying to make me jealous and will ask me out soon, but I just don’t know and I waited for too long. I want her back now, so I can be happy and so I can change completely for her.
The reason why we broke up was because we were both insanely jealous from each other talking to different sexes. I just didn’t want to lose her, and I guess she didn’t either. She kept thinking I would cheat on her, yet I would never do that.
Can anyone tell me how to get her back, and end this whole stress nightmare once and for all.
