My Sister-in-law called off the wedding 3 wks before the date. My whole family was supposed to be in the wedding. We had a lot of time, emotion & money invested in it. Anyway, I purchased a Mixer for 5 for her shower. She called off the wedding a week after the shower. THREE months later I asked for the gift back since my receipt was expiring. Her parents dropped off the gift. Over the next few parties, she gave my entire family the cold shoulder! I finally sent her an email to ask her if everything was ok? She said that I was being very insensitive to her situation & selfish for asking for the gift. She took a dig at my family & also said that I spread rumors about why the wedding was called off. I called her to see if we could straighten it all out & she did not respond. Finally sent her another email saying that I was sorry for asking for the gift back & that I was hurt by her accusations & comments about my family. Now she isn’t talking to us? Was I wrong?
Also, wanted to add that its 8 months after she called it off and she is dating someone new and STILL hasn’t returned the shower gifts to everyone. Besides my 5 mixer, I also pitched in 0 for a gift from the bridal party. Also what about our engagement party gifts as well??? Still haven’t been reimbursed for the 0 bridesmaid dress, my son’s tux (which I had to buy since he was so small) and my hub’s tux deposit. Besides the money, I don’t understand why she is ignoring my children (ages 5 & 2- one of which is her godson). She hasn’t come for his bday and now she isn’t coming for xmas as well. Besides wanting to know if I was in the wrong? What should I do to make this all go away?? I have already apologized for asking for the gift back… what more can I do??? I also asked her mother (my in-law) to talk to her and try to smooth it out – explain that its important for the kids. Still nothing.
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We have been together for 4 yrs., and have a 2 yr. old daughter. He said he just needed some space and that he still loved me and will always love me. I don’t know if I should move on or wait. I need some advice.
We have been toghether for 4 years, and have a 2yr. old daughter. He said he needed some space and that he still loves and will always love me. Now we live 3 hours away from each other and don’t know how we can work anything out so far away. I just want my family back. I need some advice.
He didn’t move away. I did. He moved in with my brother and sister in-law, and if he was messing around my sister would be the first one to tell me. He comes home from work the same time everynight. We were arguing alot before this happen. I just want to make things better. I just want advice on how I can get him back.
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My sister in law is fighting the government to get her husband back. He was deported back to Guatemala. They have a 5 month old baby together. She is supposed to go up to her interview next week where they will drill here with a dozen questions to find out if they are lying just to get his green card. The marriage is real and I need your help. We need to find a verse in the Bible (they are both Christian) stating that a husband and wife should not be separated after marriage and they should be living in the same home. Does anyone know of a verse that would help?
ok. She has an immigration lawyer, right now they are trying to get through the first phase and he is trying to come here, not her go there, but to get through phase 1 they have to prove the marriage is real and they are in love..and it’s not to scam the gov’t. That’s where the Bible verse comes in, seeing they do both believe what is written in there and live by that.
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…and they break up…Do you think that you need to stop talking to them?
My sister in law was going out with my husband and I’s friend (who was our friend before they got together) for a few mths.only a few mths. They move in together and they broke up after a few weeks of living together..seriously less than a month. …yeah I know. They’ve been broken up for about 3 weeks now.
Anyway….our friend has a little girl a little younger than ours. And he invited us up to his house (she moved out since he paid for the whole place) so the girls could play,we could see his new puppy and so my husband and him could pay some new video game..lol. I took pictures of the girls playing and the puppy and posted them to my myspace. I figured our friend could save the pics of his little girl and his dog and have them too. My sister in law posts a myspace status saying "you never know who will stab you in the back,especially family" then her mood said " betrayed" I can only assume she means her brother and I have "betrayed’ her by visiting our friend.
Now we have tried to remain neutral on this thing. really. How can we tell out friend " No…we can’t hang out with you…because of a break up that has nothing to do with us"
She expects "loyalty" from us when she would always send my husband’s ex g/f messages and saying they were going to hang out and stuff. Did I get pissed? No. Because they were friends before I got on the scene…regardless of my feelings for my husband’s ex!!
Now this has only just happened…but I guarantee you it will snowball into something huge. My mother in law who already hates me will take her side and since that’s where my sister in law lives..we will not be able to go over there.
I said to myself "maybe I shouldn’t post these pictures"..but I thought she would mature enough to understand that my husband and I and our friend have a right to hang out with whoever we want and its not OUR fault things didn’t work out between them….
I’m not taking the pics down…that would show that I thought I did something wrong…and I don’t think I did.
thoughts on this situation?? advice?
No he didn’t abuse her. It was just a fight .
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I finally got back together with my boyfriend after 3 month long break
he had let his ex wife and ex gf get in the way
they both are hysterical demanding women but older than him and rich and powerful
he got mad at me when i was upset over him being late or canceling dates because of reasons ot do with them.
he was very hurt when i asked for a break.
since then he did a lot to be my friends and we dated again (no sex)
i know that tomorrow he is moving into a hous ein the same town as his ex . he said its to be closer to his son (but he has his son 50-60 % of th etime already)
he sold the house that he currently lived in and gave 50% to his ex wife as ordered by the court.
he also added her onto facebook
no problem but then i noticed he blocked me from seeing or posting on his wall (i can still see links/status updates)
and on top of that deleted my photo comments about his son and also my older comments on his status.
i confronted him and he said its to avoid drama.
finally i noticed he is developing a webpage for his ex sister in law who is a popular interior designer.
he and i had a very nice normal conversation last friday night
i had one bad piece of news to tell him though.
one of my roommates who suddenly left my house had been getting tons of mail from IRS ….
finally an open piece of mail came to me weeks ago.
turns out she hasn’t paid a small maount of taxes in 1993 and 2003 and theyve been adding in penalties and looking for her ever since.
well oddly 1 week ago the irs also also contacted me. i didnt work in 2007 (taking care of dying parent and renovating m house)
and i was kind of freaked out.
so i tol dmy boyfriend about it.
he said to calm down and that it isnt abig deal and that heck he once had a lien on his house from IRS for 90000 ( !!!)
so we talked some more and he said for me to not stress and that he had just seen the new movie julie and julia with his son.
he said i should cook for him again soon sinc eim so good at it.
and thats IT !
i called him and texted him sunday and nothing
The last i ever heard from him was nearly 7 days ago.
is he fine ?
yes he has updated his twitter all week
he is on facebook and aim as i type this question.
he updated his facebook to say he is proud th emovies he is producing are getting a lot of attention.
and speaking of twitter i uploaded ne pics of myself yesterday to my facebook.
on his twitter he made fun of people who take photos of themselves and called them vain friendless loosers (losers- spelling isnt his strong suit)
he is suddenly bitter and hateful of me ?
should i just delete him off everything and never speak to him again ?
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