ME N MY EX BOYFRIEND GOT TOGETHER THE END OF FRESHMAN YEAR. WE BROKE UP END OF SOPHOMORE YEAR.. WE HOOKED BACK UP..HE WAS MY FIRST AND I WAS HIS FIRST. WERE TALKING AGAIN.BUT HE FOUND OUT THAT WHILE WE BROKE UP I WAS TALKING TO ANOTHER GUY AND WE MESSED AROUND.BUT WE DIDNT HAVE SEX..WE JUST KISSED BUT WE ALMOST HAD SEX BUT I DIDNT WANT TO .CUZ I WANTED MY EX BOYFRIEND TO BE MY FIRST AND ONLY.BUT I EX BOYFRIEND NOW DOESNT TRUST ME. I LOVE HIM WITH ALL MY HEART. HE MEANS EVERYTHING TO ME. AND WERE STILL TALKING NOW.BUT HOW DO I EARN HIS TRUST BACK.THATS THE ONLY THINGS THATS HOLDING US BACK FROM GETTING BACK WITH EACH OTHER.I NEED HELP..I NEED ADVICE
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okay so here’s the story I dated this girl for about fifteen months and I loved her and she loved me we were only seventeen, we planned to get married after we graduated and before I shipped of to the Army. we had the perfect relationship nothing between us felt comfortable talking to each other about anything and everything I never lied to her and if I did I told her the next day and apologizes and asked for her forgiveness even after she said it was okay. any way last summer when we finished our sophomore year about half way threw the summer I promised her I would stop drinking so hard and quit smoking and cut back on chew. well I don’t know how it started but my friends needed a case of beer and some cigarettes so I bought it for them the next day I went to pick her up I saw her walking down the street and parked next to her I said "hey you ready to go?" she walked in her house and came out almost crying and said "I can’t be with you any more and put my dog tags on my passenger seat I just drove back to my uncle’s [were I was living at the time] I kind of fell into a depression and constantly drank and smoked heavily just sitting on the couch I later found out my friend who I bought the beer and cigarettes for blocked his number and text-ed her saying he saw me buy a case and was at a party at my uncles were I got really smashed and was getting rowdy trying to fight people. when I found this out I called him told him to come over it was just me, him and best friend the first thing I asked was did you text my girl and tell her that he immediately said "yea I had too you just seemed to p*ssy whipped" as soon as he said I jumped up kicked down the coffee table and began punching him and and he fought back and we spilled out on the street my best friend and gran pop broke us up and he said "bros before hos" then it started all over again by the end we were both pretty bloody and banged up I never talked to him after that. I just felt a void and began seeing a girl who I met threw my uncles crack head girl friend after about two days of knowing her we began dating I would always drop her off in bad neighborhoods and give her money and drive her to her house about 20 miles away. it wasn’t a serious relationship i just wanted to fell loved. finally the night came when she was high and kept yelling at me so we walked to my house and i was so angry I got my revolver tucked it my waist and took my mom’s car keys she was constantly yelling and I was driving around trying to find gas money finally I had enough and was going home to tell my parents what happened when I drove by the were out front and yelled for me to stop I just had enough and drove down the road and parked and said I’ll be back I had to get away I walked to the old school and sat out front for about five hours and watched the sun rise and calmed down. I came home the back way threw the woods and my mom was upset and said my dad and herself drove around the whole night looking for me the messed up part she called the cops and reported her car missing long story short I got 1 week in a youth detention center and all I could think about was my ex and how it all went wrong I just kept to myself the whole time and got my head on straight and realized what was right and broke up with that ***** that caused me to get in lock up. it’s been about a year and I always think about this girl when I see mutual friends the first thing I ask is how is she doing. they say she asks about me all the time and they can tell she still cares about me. about a month ago I sent her a long letter because I felt if I called her I would cry and ask her to take me back asking how are you, are you still in school, told her I was how I drooped out in october and caught her up with me. she sent a me a letter back saying she doing fine how she knows how I’ve been, and she kind of hinted around that wished we were still together. her friends told me she hasn’t been with anybody since we broke up. It would mean the world to em if she took me back. I understand that if we get back together things won’t be how they were right away i just wan’t to know do you think in it’s possible she would take me back?
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okay so here’s the story I dated this girl for about fifteen months and I loved her and she loved me we were only seventeen, we planned to get married after we graduated and before I shipped of to the Army. we had the perfect relationship nothing between us felt comfortable talking to each other about anything and everything I never lied to her and if I did I told her the next day and apologizes and asked for her forgiveness even after she said it was okay. any way last summer when we finished our sophomore year about half way threw the summer I promised her I would stop drinking so hard and quit smoking and cut back on chew. well I don’t know how it started but my friends needed a case of beer and some cigarettes so I bought it for them the next day I went to pick her up I saw her walking down the street and parked next to her I said "hey you ready to go?" she walked in her house and came out almost crying and said "I can’t be with you any more and put my dog tags on my passenger seat I just drove back to my uncle’s [were I was living at the time] I kind of fell into a depression and constantly drank and smoked heavily just sitting on the couch I later found out my friend who I bought the beer and cigarettes for blocked his number and text-ed her saying he saw me buy a case and was at a party at my uncles were I got really smashed and was getting rowdy trying to fight people. when I found this out I called him told him to come over it was just me, him and best friend the first thing I asked was did you text my girl and tell her that he immediately said "yea I had too you just seemed to p*ssy whipped" as soon as he said I jumped up kicked down the coffee table and began punching him and and he fought back and we spilled out on the street my best friend and gran pop broke us up and he said "bros before hos" then it started all over again by the end we were both pretty bloody and banged up I never talked to him after that. I just felt a void and began seeing a girl who I met threw my uncles crack head girl friend after about two days of knowing her we began dating I would always drop her off in bad neighborhoods and give her money and drive her to her house about 20 miles away. it wasn’t a serious relationship i just wanted to fell loved. finally the night came when she was high and kept yelling at me so we walked to my house and i was so angry I got my revolver tucked it my waist and took my mom’s car keys she was constantly yelling and I was driving around trying to find gas money finally I had enough and was going home to tell my parents what happened when I drove by the were out front and yelled for me to stop I just had enough and drove down the road and parked and said I’ll be back I had to get away I walked to the old school and sat out front for about five hours and watched the sun rise and calmed down. I came home the back way threw the woods and my mom was upset and said my dad and herself drove around the whole night looking for me the messed up part she called the cops and reported her car missing long story short I got 1 week in a youth detention center and all I could think about was my ex and how it all went wrong I just kept to myself the whole time and got my head on straight and realized what was right and broke up with that ***** that caused me to get in lock up. it’s been about a year and I always think about this girl when I see mutual friends the first thing I ask is how is she doing. they say she asks about me all the time and they can tell she still cares about me. about a month ago I sent her a long letter because I felt if I called her I would cry and ask her to take me back asking how are you, are you still in school, told her I was how I drooped out in october and caught her up with me. she sent a me a letter back saying she doing fine how she knows how I’ve been, and she kind of hinted around that wished we were still together. her friends told me she hasn’t been with anybody since we broke up. It would mean the world to em if she took me back. I understand that if we get back together things won’t be how they were right away i just want to know do you think in it’s possible she would take me back?
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okay so here’s the story I dated this girl for about fifteen months and I loved her and she loved me we were only seventeen, we planned to get married after we graduated and before I shipped of to the Army. we had the perfect relationship nothing between us felt comfortable talking to each other about anything and everything I never lied to her and if I did I told her the next day and apologizes and asked for her forgiveness even after she said it was okay. any way last summer when we finished our sophomore year about half way threw the summer I promised her I would stop drinking so hard and quit smoking and cut back on chew. well I don’t know how it started but my friends needed a case of beer and some cigarettes so I bought it for them the next day I went to pick her up I saw her walking down the street and parked next to her I said "hey you ready to go?" she walked in her house and came out almost crying and said "I can’t be with you any more and put my dog tags on my passenger seat I just drove back to my uncle’s [were I was living at the time] I kind of fell into a depression and constantly drank and smoked heavily just sitting on the couch I later found out my friend who I bought the beer and cigarettes for blocked his number and text-ed her saying he saw me buy a case and was at a party at my uncles were I got really smashed and was getting rowdy trying to fight people. when I found this out I called him told him to come over it was just me, him and best friend the first thing I asked was did you text my girl and tell her that he immediately said "yea I had too you just seemed to p*ssy whipped" as soon as he said I jumped up kicked down the coffee table and began punching him and and he fought back and we spilled out on the street my best friend and gran pop broke us up and he said "bros before hos" then it started all over again by the end we were both pretty bloody and banged up I never talked to him after that. I just felt a void and began seeing a girl who I met threw my uncles crack head girl friend after about two days of knowing her we began dating I would always drop her off in bad neighborhoods and give her money and drive her to her house about 20 miles away. it wasn’t a serious relationship i just wanted to fell loved. finally the night came when she was high and kept yelling at me so we walked to my house and i was so angry I got my revolver tucked it my waist and took my mom’s car keys she was constantly yelling and I was driving around trying to find gas money finally I had enough and was going home to tell my parents what happened when I drove by the were out front and yelled for me to stop I just had enough and drove down the road and parked and said I’ll be back I had to get away I walked to the old school and sat out front for about five hours and watched the sun rise and calmed down. I came home the back way threw the woods and my mom was upset and said my dad and herself drove around the whole night looking for me the messed up part she called the cops and reported her car missing long story short I got 1 week in a youth detention center and all I could think about was my ex and how it all went wrong I just kept to myself the whole time and got my head on straight and realized what was right and broke up with that bitch that caused me to get in lock up. it’s been about a year and I always think about this girl when I see mutual friends the first thing I ask is how is she doing. they say she asks about me all the time and they can tell she still cares about me. about a month ago I sent her a long letter because I felt if I called her I would cry and ask her to take me back asking how are you, are you still in school, told her I was how I drooped out in october and caught her up with me. she sent a me a letter back saying she doing fine how she knows how I’ve been, and she kind of hinted around that wished we were still together. her friends told me she hasn’t been with anybody since we broke up. It would mean the world to em if she took me back. I understand that if we get back together things won’t be how they were right away i just wan’t to know do you think in it’s possible she would take me back?
I don’t drink anymore, I work odd and end jobs and give it all to my dad for bills, I have 8 months left untill the army and I’m getting a HS diploma threw the state.
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I’ve been dealing with a breakup from a girl I’ve been with for the past three years. We met at the end of senior year in high school. I went to school 10 hours away freshman year and we stuck through it. I felt stronger and stronger about her each day. I decided to come back home and go to school with her for sophomore year. Again, it was a fantastic year and I loved every minute I spent with her. We were best friends, inseparable and we connected on a very deep level. I knew I loved this girl but I felt like I needed to go back to my first school to get a significantly better degree. At the end of sophomore year I told her I wanted to go back. She began to pull away until I told her I was doing it for us and to better my future. That made her feel better but she still pulled back. I kind of changed too as a result. I felt weird about her actions and I knew she took my leaving as a slap in the face. I began to be more short with her and our relationship took a turn for the worst. I thought everything was fine until one day a couple weeks before I left that she came in my bedroom as I woke up and said she wanted to be single the next year. She said the way I had been acting, the distance, and everything made her want this. I went through many stages of falling apart, anger, upset, numb, happy, just every emotion. A few weeks ago I got to school and my feelings stabilized. I realized that this is a girl worth fighting for. I took a look at myself and the way I had acted to push her away. I think God forced me to make the decision to leave to better myself and now I feel like I can be the most amazing boyfriend to her. I’m now going back home because I don’t feel this is the place for me right now. This decision was not because of her, but it doesn’t hurt that the love of my life is there. She’s been kind of seeing somebody now. She says she likes him but still loves me. She asks me why I’d deserve a second chance after hurting her. She says maybe in a few years we can try again. I know I’ve changed and I know that our relationship is right. I know I can be everything this girl could ever want. I know her better than anyone in the world. We are still best friends. I’m afraid she’s already written me off because she is unsure and doesn’t want to be hurt again, even though she hasn’t told me this. I’m going back in a few days and I’ve gotten her to go to dinner with me this upcoming weekend. She says its strictly as friends. I want to show her I can be a great boyfriend but how can I do this as just a friend? How can I show her I’ve changed and will always make her happy? What about this other guy, I’ve been supportive but how do I approach it? If you’ve read this far then I really appreciate it and I look forward to hearing back. Thanks.
No need to be a dick Linah. Thanks to everyone else who’s taking me seriously
@ LM: correction, shes not with another guy just seeing him. she says she doesn’t want to be his girlfriend even though hes asked…makes me think even more shes confused as to what to do
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