Ok we have been together for almost 6 yrs, and lately things havent been to great. I’ll admit that the main reason things arent well is because i basically got lazy with the relationship. I havent been doing the things to make her feel special. I really feel like crap because to me, shes the most special person in the world. She has been talking on the phone to another guy that she met through her best friend. He is 30, and we are both 21. She tells me that shes enjoys having conversations with him and that she feels i dont contribute enough when were talking. Im scared that he is going to wow her and make her even more into him. I know hes 30 and she says hes ready to settle down, which really scares me. I have always told her that shes the girl that i want to marry, and how much i love her. Is there anyway to get her to stop talking to him and to get her back into me? Our lease isnt up till the end of august, and ill do anything to win her back. Im so scared to lose her forever.
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I need advice on how to make my boyfriend, who recently broke up with me, want me back. We have not spoken for a week. We have been dating for 4 years and i do not want to lose such a special person from my life.
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I dated my ex-girlfriend for a year. I met her parents several times. She was/is the perfect woman in my eyes. The only problem in our relationship was that she had a problem letting me be a part of her life. She would go days at a time without calling me. I didn’t expect her to call me everyday or even every other day. I never said anything when she went days without calling me. The Friday before Thanksgiving my ex-girlfriend sent me a text at 6 pm asking me if I wanted to go to the movies at 10 pm with her sister and brother-in-law if they decided to go. I replied yes, but I never heard from her one way or the other. I didn’t hear from her again until Monday night when she replied to a text message I sent her asking if we could talk. She seemed like she wasn’t in a talking mood. I assumed she was tired from work and I knew she had to get up early so I cut the call short. She didn’t call me back the rest of the Thanksgiving week. It’s Sunday night and I’m feeling ignored or even strung along. I overreacted because I felt hurt and sent her a text message saying I think she is a special person but I feel it would be best if I found someone closer to my own age and that I didn’t think she was at a place in her life where she was ready to be in a serious relationship. I should mention that I’m 32 and she’s 24. The next day I get a reply text stating she wished things could have worked out. I could tell I really hurt her. I immediately realized I made a big mistake by impulsively sending a hurtful break up text instead of calling her and discussing how I really felt about being ignored. I’ve been sending her text messages for a week telling her I love her and I was wrong and begging for a chance to make things right. She want reply to my texts or call me. I really love her and would do anything to get her back. My ex-girlfriend was homeschooled by her parents and still lives with them. She isn’t as independent as most 24 year old women. This could’ve been the reason she had a hard time letting me be a part of her life.
Does anybody have any suggestions on how I can get her back??? Serious responses only. I would really like to hear a woman’s perspective.
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