Basically i still love my ex and our relationship ended 5 months ago but i cant seem to get over him no matterwht i try. the thing is he has said that he doesnt no what he wants but he quite likes one of my best friends. the thing is my friends ex likes me but i dont wanna go out with him knowing i still ike my ex. its reli confusing i just want to see if there are anyways to try and win him back. write back plese nosilly ones like ehs not worth it coz that wont work coz he means it to me. please help :S
ok i dont think some of you get the question. basically it is confusing becoz i like my ex and he likes my m8 BUT he has saidto me he is confussed and doesnt no if he likes her and last night he ask my friend if i still liked him . but i didnt know what to say coz last time i sed yes he pushed me away but i dunno if he misses me , and btw shut the f**k up about my spelling do u think i can reli be botherd to spell check a question? u have eyes im sure u can txt so im sure u can read this perfectly fine and if u cant then i suggest u dont bother writing a answer back, thanx to people who have ACTUALLY answerd the question. open to more answers
Ok so a couple weeks ago i broke up w/ my ex bc i caught her talk to her ex boyfriend multiple time and not just "hey how are you’ but things like i love you, i miss you, one time she even told him that she was single. and she talk to other guys just bc she likes the attention, she admitted that. i just grew so tired of it, it was so wrong and unfair. she says its all bc her first bf messed her head up so bad so now she craves attention from guys bc he never gave her any. But after a couple of time of pouring my heart out and tellin her how much that she hurt me by sayin those things to her ex bf, she continued to do it so i had to break it off.
when i first broke it off i knew that would be only way for her to realize things and that i hoped she would change and we could work it out. of course i was down and missed her like crazy. but after a little while i felt better and like i was ready to just move on. Now the last few days shes been callin alot and we hung out a couple time (no kissing or anything though,just talked and chilled) and she says how upset shes been and she doesnt wanna loose me and that she’ll change her ways.
I just dont know what to do she seems so sincere but still. im really stuck. sometimes i think just go and move on she wont change. then i think maybe she will change and im pushing away something good. like i said we start communicating more again and even hung out. I went over her house the last two nights, but i left and went home. i normally slept there everynight. she gets upset bc of course things are wierd and i wont even kiss her and stuff. i want to so bad but i know that not a good idea.
she says she knows she has some issues and is scheduel to go see a pychiatrist (prob wrong spelling). since breakin it off was the last option, just dunno if i should give it one last chance to see it worked to change her
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Now My ex wants me back, I don’t know what to do?
Ok so a couple weeks ago I broke up w/ my ex bc i caught her talk to her ex boyfriend multiple time and not just “hey how are you’ but things like I love you, I miss you, one time she even told him that she was single.
And she talk to other guys just bc she likes the attention, she admitted that.
I just grew so tired of it, it was so wrong and unfair. She says its all because her first boyfriend messed her head up so bad so now she craves attention from guys because he never gave her any.
But after a couple of time of pouring my heart out and tellin her how much that she hurt me by sayin those things to her ex boyfriend, she continued to do it so I had to break it off.
When I first broke it off I knew that would be only way for her to realize things and that I hoped she would change and we could work it out. Of course I was down and missed her like crazy, but after a little while I felt better and like I was ready to just move on.
Now the last few days shes been callin alot and we hung out a couple time (no kissing or anything though,just talked and chilled) and she says how upset shes been and she doesnt wanna loose me and that she’ll change her ways.
I just dont know what to do she seems so sincere but still. I’m really stuck, sometimes I think just go and move on she wont change, then I think maybe she will change and im pushing away something good.
Like I said we start communicating more again and even hung out. I went over her house the last two nights, but I left and went home. I normally slept there everynight. She gets upset because things are wierd and I wont even kiss her and stuff.
I want to so bad but I know that not a good idea.
She says she knows she has some issues and is scheduel to go see a pychiatrist (prob wrong spelling).
Since breakin it off was the last option, just don’t know if I should give it one last chance to see it worked to change her.
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Married 8years.Everything was great in our marriage untill about 4 yrs ago when i cheated on her. Stayed together.(she says the only reason she stayed with me was because of our then 6 month old baby).I quit my job, sold my new vehicle, and did all of the things required to change my life.There isn’t a day that goes by that I don’t feel guilty for what i did.I’m different now..everything I do is to preserve our family(cook, clean,active with our child). Also I do romantic things, flowers,etc..I’ve been starting a new business for the last year and money has been tight. She is bitter because we used up a small saving account to survive the last year. We are not in debt except for some money we borrowed from her mother and my father. My business is really taking off and I ‘ve told her she can quit her job and take the job she really wants! Now that things are getting better she tells me she doesn’t love me anymore and wants a divorce.We tried seperation and counseling???? Is there hope?
I really am a good man … I made a horribly mistake 4 years ago and I will do anything to preserve our family!! I would appreciated anyones constructive advise!
sorry about the spelling!
I guess one thing I need to add is that during and after counseling she said she loved me and wanted to work on marriage… then a few weeks later she stopped working on our marriage…when I asked her why …she just said I don’t love you anymore. I’m little concern she might have some degree of depression…due to the fact that her mood changes quickly…and she never seems to be able to look at most situations in a positive manner!! I do love her dearly and would do anything to make her and my daughter happy!



