Me and my girlfriend split up about a month ago, it was a smooth break up, we both decided. The relationship wasnt as good as it used to be and we werent as happy as we were. + we both knew we wernt going to see each other for 7 weeks if we did split up, because we go to the same college.
But in these 4 weeks that we have been apart i have had a lot of time to think and she was one of the best things that has happened to me….and i would like to give a shot at getting back together with her.
I sent her a little present for easter, about a week after easter she txted me saying thank you for it and it made her smile….but she said she only got it that day, a week late. I think that was a bit of a white lie…..(I didnt txt back saying that)
Whats the best way of going about trying to get back to gether, just be friends for the time and try and get closer to her over time?
Should i txt her some time in the 4weeks before i see her again?
Or what?
My son is 18. He and his girlfriend have split up. I knew it was going to happen sooner or later but he didn’t see it coming. They have been sweet-hearts since age 12 (officially) but friends for 11 years. He doesn’t want to say too much to me (mom) but he is hurting and lost. What can I do to help him through this? Advice from parents, teens and young adults SINCERELY welcome! Please help me with this….I ache for him
me and my girl friend split up 3 weeks ago and i still keep thinking about her. And i walk past her everyday at school and i feel like talking to her,,.but. When we were going out and meeting eachother up, we kept on telling eacother that we love eachother and saying stuff like i dont want to loose you , your my world and she swore on her little brothers life that she will never finish me. I had only been dating her for a week untill she had another boyfriend. Then i fount out that she had been saying the same things to her other boyfriend. Then i fount out off her other ex-boyfriends that she has been saying the same things to them but the question is i want to know if she likes this other person or not , but when i spoke to her she says it was a big mistake but that is what she is saying to her other ex_boyfriends and she hasnt been talking to him much this week, i think she likes some one else but It’s very hard to get it out of my head and i know it sounds crazy…
But what do you people think if she likes him or not, or shall i just move on…thankss
thanks every1 she sounds like a player and im just going to move on, she might regret what she has done to her little brother and i couldnt believe it and thanks again…..
ps : i am only 15 for those who say im to young
For the past year I have been fighting for my ex to get her back. We have had a great three year long distance relationship. When she was out with her friends she sometimes got hurt and caused me to worry, and I called her when she was out with her friends just to make sure that she was okay. Becuase of that I was labeled controlling/posessive by her mother and her friends. It was during that time when we split up, as it was her mothers idea to see other people and get together later on. It was one of her best friends who convinced her to dump me and go out with him. I have given her one month and two weeks of ”space’ by her request. Her mood changes to her own friendly peronsality to down right nasty. After six months, the guy dumps her. I have treated her with respect, honesty and love, and yet she treats me like I have done something worse. She has told me things like ‘be strong, And it’ll work out between us in the end.” Now she says it wont work out.What can I do to get her back
My boyfriend and I had a great relationship, of course there were occasional arguments here and there, but nothing bad. We found out I was pregnant and everything was okay, then when I got to be about four months pregnant, he just left me. I don’t know if it’s because he was scared about becoming a father, or if my hormones drove him crazy.
But I still love him more than anything in the world, and I’d do anything to be back with him and raise our son together. It’s been almost three months since we split up, and we still talk to each other and stuff. And when we hang out, we act the same as we did when we were together (holding hands, kissing, etc…) I’m just so confused about everything, I’m having a baby in a couple months, and I just want us to be happy again and be a family.
Some of my friends say he’ll come around once the baby’s here, and others tell me to just move on…
Any advice?
My boyfriend and I had a great relationship, of course there were occasional arguments, but nothing bad. We found out I was pregnant and everything was okay, then when I got to be about four months pregnant, he just left me. I don’t know if it’s because he was scared about becoming a father, or if my hormones drove him crazy. But I still love him more than anything in the world, and I’d do anything to be back with him and raise our son together.
It’s been almost three months since we split up, and we still talk to each other and stuff. And when we hang out, we act the same as we did when we were together (holding hands, kissing, etc) Im just so confused about everything, I’m having a baby in a couple months, and I just want us to be happy again and be a family.
Some of my friends say he’ll come around once the baby’s here, and others tell me to just move on. Any advice?
PS. Im NOT some 14 y.o little middle school girl that made a mistake… I’m a responsible woman with a fulltime job…
P.S. Im NOT some 14 year old little middle- school girl that made a mistake… I’m a responsible woman with a great-paying fulltime job…
It’s not that I can’t take care of a baby on my own, I just want the best for my son, and I think it would be best for him to grow up in a family with a mother and father.
Wow, that turned out weird lol… I’m still kinda new on here.
I’m out of school lol…
I hate how people assume if you’re having a baby and you’re unmarried, you’re a child who made a mistake…
