i’ve been with him for 5 years and now we broke up for 2 years but i still have a really strong feelings and love him reallly much. he has a girlfriend now that living wit him. he went to marine for 4 years but now hes done. at that time of 2 years when he in north carolina i was stilll with him until 2 years later we broke up.now everytime i try to call him he doesn’t pick up my calls, because i’ve been calling him a lot he let his girlfriend talk 2 me. then i told her i wana talk to him, she ask him if he wanna talk to me, he said later. they been dating for 4-5months now. when i heard she said that they living together, i felt so hurt, it’s like he stab a knife to my heart. I love him very much but he doesnt feel for me. i was waiting for him until he done with Marine. the reason he broke up with me is because I didnt believe in him that he didnt go strip club, cuz he said his friends went, so i think he probably did too. i just cant stop thinkin about him, no matter how hard i try
…and they break up…Do you think that you need to stop talking to them?
My sister in law was going out with my husband and I’s friend (who was our friend before they got together) for a few mths.only a few mths. They move in together and they broke up after a few weeks of living together..seriously less than a month. …yeah I know. They’ve been broken up for about 3 weeks now.
Anyway….our friend has a little girl a little younger than ours. And he invited us up to his house (she moved out since he paid for the whole place) so the girls could play,we could see his new puppy and so my husband and him could pay some new video game..lol. I took pictures of the girls playing and the puppy and posted them to my myspace. I figured our friend could save the pics of his little girl and his dog and have them too. My sister in law posts a myspace status saying "you never know who will stab you in the back,especially family" then her mood said " betrayed" I can only assume she means her brother and I have "betrayed’ her by visiting our friend.
Now we have tried to remain neutral on this thing. really. How can we tell out friend " No…we can’t hang out with you…because of a break up that has nothing to do with us"
She expects "loyalty" from us when she would always send my husband’s ex g/f messages and saying they were going to hang out and stuff. Did I get pissed? No. Because they were friends before I got on the scene…regardless of my feelings for my husband’s ex!!
Now this has only just happened…but I guarantee you it will snowball into something huge. My mother in law who already hates me will take her side and since that’s where my sister in law lives..we will not be able to go over there.
I said to myself "maybe I shouldn’t post these pictures"..but I thought she would mature enough to understand that my husband and I and our friend have a right to hang out with whoever we want and its not OUR fault things didn’t work out between them….
I’m not taking the pics down…that would show that I thought I did something wrong…and I don’t think I did.
thoughts on this situation?? advice?
No he didn’t abuse her. It was just a fight .
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Okay i got out of a relationship with this guy like last year. Now i have one class with him and he won’t leave me alone! He just doesn’t get the picture that i don’t like him anymore! he’ll be nice and mean to me. Like he’ll say "Oh i’m sorry. i was a big jerk." Then he’ll stab me in the back saying crap to other people saying like "Oh she’s a b*tch that needs to rot in h*ll." Me and my friends are sick of him! I have moved on but he hasn’t! Any advice to shut him up?!



