Me and my ex were together for 4 1/2 years and we recently broke up because we just grew apart and a few other things that happened. I still want to be a part of my stepdaughter’s life because i’ve been there for her since the day she was born. I raised her as my own and i’m the only dad she’s ever known. Her real dad is in and out of jail and wants nothing to do with either one of them. well after we broke up she moved back into her moms and won’t let me visit or call my stepdaughter at all. I’m usually outgoing and happy all the time but ever since she left all i can think about is my lil girl. How could i convince her that i can still help out and be a part of her life? sorry this is so long i tried to explain my situation the best i could . i posted this earlier in parenting but didn’t get alot of answers
I am recently married and love my husband. We both came to the marrige with children and are now expecting one of our own. My daughter was six months old and her bio father never wanted anything to do with her. His four year old hardly spent time with him and her mother, she was always at the babysitters or her grandparents’. Her mother wants to get back with my husband and is working this through the child. The four year old has never been taught manners and is mean to my daughter. How can i deal with this situation. I love his daughter and want to see her and her dad together but she doesn’t like me or my daughter. WHAT CAN I DO??
My step daughter was about to strart first grade at a Catholic School and I knew she would need new school stuff. I made sure no one was home, parked on the street and walked a huge bag of shoes, socks, undies, approved shorts, uniform shirts, ect. ect…The neighbor saw me and told the ex-girlfriend (step-daughters mother) that I brought the items over. She then filed charges of stalking against me then my attorney forgot to show up to court, not me I was there but my attorney forgot, the judge refused to let me speak and the restraining order was issued. Now I have an outlandish attorney bill and a restraining order. How can this be? What do I do to fix this?
On 8/10/06 my wife left me after i vented some frustration regarding my 7 year old step daughter. I used foul language and yelled, my step daughter was not home during this venting. My wife has sinced moved out and filed for an anullment, she has also cut off all communication with me. My wife who i love dearly has a "PAST", since her 7 year old daughter was born she’s had seven significant relationships. 1 the babies dead, 2 a fiance who left her, 3 an old high school boyfriend who cheated on her, and 4 me. I knew this going in but was fully committed to the both of them and loved them with all my heart. I have sent her e-mails expressing my love and asking for her forgiveness. I have even gone to her moms house where she is leaving and said i am sorry and all she said was "you got her involved". I gave the child all the love and attention in the world, more than her own father. I just had trouble with repeating myself go clean your room your mom wants it clean. i love them both.
