I admitted to my husband, I slept with someone else and messed up last week after our five month marriage went sour. I told him I still loved him and wanted to save our marriage. He threw me out but then the next day relented and let me move back in on probation. I now have to report everything I do for the next month and sleep on old mattress in the back pantry as a punishment during that time. So I really am suffering, since its old and damp in there but I am willingly to do anything to save my marriage because I love my husband.
I have come to terms I cant fix things with my husband overnight, but whats bad our family is turned against me. His 17 year old brother who lives with us, no longer will talk to me and this morning said he doesn’t respect me at all anymore (it was his friend, who is 16, I slipped and cheated with). Before this ugly mess, me and my brother in law got along really well and were close friends. My mother in law thinks my husband should divorce me and leave me with nothing, and his cousin thinks I am a tramp.
The worst part is my stepdaughter. Shes 6 and she loved me like a mother (her own mother died two years back). My mother in law and brother in law are all feeding her crap that I am no good and she told me at dinner tonight I am icky for kissing another man. So really my family life is crumbling too pieces and I want everything back to normal. I am not ready to throw in the towel and be a 20 year old divorcee’. I am willingly to fight for my family and I need some good kind advice on what to do. Where do I start? How do I work things out?
DO NOT suggest therapy. I don’t believe therapy works and I believe its all a scam to make money off peoples problems. Advice is what I need.
And again no one needs to tell me I am too young to get married. I will report anyone who does and down thumb your answer.
