Nine months ago my ex girlfriend and I broke up because she cheated and left me for another guy. We were together almost six months. I was more than your average boyfriend. I always bought her flowers, cooked her dinner, cleaned her apartment, helped her financially when needed, took her out to dinner, and did all of the little things that mattered. I was crazy about her. She broke my heart. She ended up leaving the other guy because I think she felt guilty. It”s been almost a year since our breakup. She recently started dating a new guy and things already aren’t going over well. A few months ago I deleted her off of my facebook, just so I could get on with my life and get over her. She messaged me a few days ago and asked why I deleted her. I was still bitter and didn’t respond. She messaged me today and was upset over the fact that I didn’t respond. She told me she was sorry for what she had done. She told me she was going through it with her new boyfriend. She told me she still wanted me to be in her life, and wanted to be friends. She also stated that she worried about me a lot. I responded back and told her how I felt. I told her I loved her but she broke my heart and I wasn’t sure if I wanted her in my life. I asked her what she really wanted. She told me to keep her posted on things. She never answered my question. So I asked her again. She told me that she would give me time to think and to let her know when I was "ready". Still.. not really giving me a straight answer. She just broke up with her ex. Deep down, I still do love her. I would give her a second chance, but on strict standards. Does she want to be friends, or does she realize what she really lost and wants me back? If she just wants to be friends, why would she message me now when she’s having relationship problems? I really need some advice.. I do love her and I would give her a second chance.. but I don’t want to get hurt. Does she want me back?
