im a libra gal…i like ths scorpio guy,yes been close to him b4 few mths back…few mths back,we got not so good argument,actually its about im telling him tht i might in love to him 
well at tht time actually i just want cheer him up when he’s upset but at the time he got news tht his ex wanna married…he told to his close friends also tht our friendship(me n him) over already,he said the condition totally changed at tht time…
i feel so lost of him at tht time…frm sept to nov i keep remember abt him,im on purpose stop any comm with him,i know also tht the condition already different n not to so nice last time…in his bday,i gave him a special present who made him contacting me back afterward…
i was giving the present through his friend,i dont hv face to faced him at tht time…i was shocking when he said thx to me afterward…
after tht,not so long frm tht time….my dad got stroke…i didnt ask him to visit my dad in hospital but yet he still come even his house really far frm my house area…everytime i remember tht,it bcomes a strength for me to faced on my family problem now…
i got so touching coz he still care on me….yes he said it care as a friend,but i feel so great when i remember tht he still care me…
even not so intense like last time,but now we still communicate again…
now i bcome more careful on the way i behaved…i dun get any miscomm again with him,coz im scared to lost him again for 2nd time…he still want spend time with me again even yes he keep little bit distance….he told me when he got fever,i try to be care n he say thanks…
dear friends in ths forum
y he still giving me 2nd chance to communicate back with him even he really know tht i love him so much…last time when he knew it,i thought he also will forget abt me at all but now he still nice n care also 2 me…now i feel scared with my own feeling…even i meet other guys,but my mind still full of him…
oh god,i still hoping to be with him actually…lol,y God giving me 2nd chance like ths now?? 
actually im asking ths question coz i think if scorpio decide something….it will be fixed….thts y i feel bit wonder y he still gv me 2nd chance…
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I just told me self-destructive finance of 2 years that "I will not take your drama into 2009" and ended the relationship right after christmas. I am slowly recovering like the average person, but I when I think about the behaviors I tolerated it makes me so angry that I feel like I’m having a stroke!!!
I often found myself crawled up in my bed with high anxiety because he was always on the path of self destruction and always failing things and calling me to poor out his failures on.
I saw him through Irag and the torment that came with knowing something could happened to him, as well as him calling and telling me of casualties, even crying sometimes. When he got home he saw everybody exept me for 2 months and rationalized it as him trying to stay away from me so that he does not kill/hurt me in anyway due to post-traumatic stress….
He relocated and moved in with another female soldier while I was away in grad school and never told me until I wanted to come down and visit after my semester was over. They both got on the phone and told me they were not together, although he confessed to sleeping with her. When I walked away from that situation, he along with his mother begged to give him another chance. I took him back when asked me to marry him, then called the wedding off 1 month before and said that he had financial problems, after I already paid for everything
He would call me all the time after that to say that he was broke and that he was planning on killing himself and that I was the only one he kept him going without suicidal thoughts.
He never knew how to spend the money he made. Most recently, I got a call at work from him saying: "this is it, I’m going to end it!!…the navy just found out that I had been lying on my application and now they are taking me to jail…go on with ya life" 2 weeks later, he called me and said that they decided to drop the charges and that he loves me sooo much.
I have been a strong woman, but this one has broken me down…how can I recover?
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I just told me self-destructive finance of 2 years that "I will not take your drama into 2009" and ended the relationship right after christmas. I am slowly recovering like the average person, but I when I think about the behaviors I tolerated it makes me so angry that I feel like I’m having a stroke!!!
I often found myself crawled up in my bed with high anxiety because he was always on the path of self destruction and always failing things and calling me to poor out his failures on.
I saw him through Irag and the torment that came with knowing something could happened to him, as well as him calling and telling me of casualties, even crying sometimes. When he got home he saw everybody exept me for 2 months and rationalized it as him trying to stay away from me so that he does not hurt me in anyway due to post-traumatic stress….
He relocated and moved in with another female soldier while I was away in grad school and never told me until I wanted to come down and visit after my semester was over. They both got on the phone and told me they were not together, although he confessed to sleeping with her and she was pregnant with a married man’s child. When I walked away from that situation, he along with his mother begged to give him another chance. I took him back when asked me to marry him, then called the wedding off 1 month before and said that he had financial problems, after I already paid for everything
He would call me all the time after that to say that he was broke and that he was planning on killing himself and that I was the only one he kept him going without suicidal thoughts.
He never knew how to spend the money he made. Most recently, I got a call at work from him saying: "this is it, I’m going to end it!!…the navy just found out that I had been lying on my application and now they are taking me to jail…go on with ya life" 2 weeks later, he called me and said that they decided to drop the charges and that he loves me sooo much.
I have been a strong woman, but this one has broken me down…how can I recover?
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