Hello, I ave been in love for more than six months with my boyfriend. Last week, I posted a really stupid question on Facebook which really pissed him off . He called me and said that he is done with me. I am worried because I don’t know what to tell him because even if I apologize, he still doesn’t want anything to do with me. what should I do?


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Okay exercise nuts… I need some advice. Probably heard it all before, but I need some help. I want to exercise so badly, but I find it boring as hell. I just do. From taking a walk to goign to the gym, I can’t stand it. Now, i’m not a couch potatoe… matter of fact, I’m "always" doing somehting, but what can someone recommend to get into the habit? Perhaps this seems so easy, but it isn’t for me. I suppoes the first step is making a commitment, and sticking to it even when "it’s not interesting" to do it… but is there a magic pill out there? (ha). just some advice from exercise buffs or those that are "just getting into it" themselves would be great to share "what is working or what did work" with you. Stupid question, I guess…
Everyone has great advice, and to the person who can’t understand why I find it boring, and you are the total opposite, well you are my hero cuz this is what I WISH I could be like. :)

Actually, I love the low impact ideas… I get what you are saying about finding somehting I like to do…. of course, I like to drink wine, but I don’t think that counts (ha)… and the bike thing is something I’ve been thinking about. What’s so crazy is that I won a 00 bike two years ago in a sales contest, and I "returned" it to the store for the 00 cash (I was getting married and needed the cash!)… i now regret it b/c it was a smokin’ bike. Of course, that cash was cool too! Great ideas folks, and all of you are my hero! I’m actually a good size for 39 years old (size 8), but I use to be a size 6 – I am not fat, but i’m just so freakign tired all of the time so it is a lack of sleep, not eating right, and being somewhat sedentary. Thanks you work-out nuts! Carry on… carry on


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I know this sounds like a stupid question but I used to be in incredible shape… not that I am in bad shape now but not how I used to be. Since I graduated high school last year and started college I have definitely noticed a change. I used to Cheer and Dance in H.S. and I played softball, now my only athletic opportunities are studying. My boyfriend is in incredible shape and I know it should not matter what he thinks (which he thinks I look great) but I just want to be back to my old self by his B-Day (June 16). Here are my stats… Currently i’m 128 lbs. and I am 5’6", in HS I was around 115lbs. I think the Depo Shot has helped contribute to the weight but I know it is because of a lack of exercise and good nutrition. I have the drive and the gym membership but I want the quickest way possible w.out hurting myself. I just want to tone myself (lose weight/gain muscle) I dont think it will be that hard… Any Suggestions??

-Jana (like Hana)


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Honestly I know this is a stupid question but I live in a dead end town and there are no women here around my age(21) atleast any somewhat gorgeous women anyway. I haven’t got laid in forever and I’m trying to find a somewhat attractive women. What is the best way for me to do that. It isn’t like i’m not attractive. I WILL NOT pay a prostitute so I’m not going down that road.


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We were ok, if not totally doting in recent years, spent quality time and went away on holidays short trips. My company struggled and my income dropped. I was too proud to involve her, later scared to. about my debts…you pay one to the detriment of another, he who shouts louder usually got sorted 1st. Result being in recent years, about 6, she has had to pay for everything, which she did willingly, but the drip drip conversations with our divorced and separated friends moaning about their Exes and asking if i did this why did she do that, combined with my own failings to deal effectively with my debts and her finding out about them in stages. and my failure to actually say the words "I LOVE YOU" finally came to a head last Christmas. We have tried to sort things out. We went to some sort of councilling at the Church, I cried, then asked why I was crying as she was the one that was hurt….seemed a stupid question to me. I ll leave it there, but as you would expect, there are a lot of other points to raise. What I would like answered is How do I encourage her to love me again. Particularly as within 3 weeks of my sleeping in a local Bedsit she was seeing another guy moved all my clothes out of our wardrobes his clothes haninging in their place and sharing by bed with her, also parking his black Sports car in my garage.


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