I have been talking to this girl for about 5 months. And we had alot in common. music and stuff. I asked her out and she didnt give me an answer rite away. So i said "Take your time ok" She said alrite. so i was waiting for a while and couldnt take it. So i went out and bought her roses. 70 dollar roses. And i made sure she was feeling me. Like I asked her the day before if I was cute and she said "yeah" and i asked if she could come up to me and say that she said "yeahhhh" so i had a really good feeling it would work out for me. i sent her the roses and she died. She loved them. She told me it was one of the cutest sweetest things any guy has ever done for her. I said well im just a charmer. She said shed call me after dinner. So i was on AIM talking with her. And i asked her for an answer. She said "NO". And I was devastated. I felt so bad. I wanted to kill myself i felt so bad. And then i said to her if ur with a guy tommorow I’ll kill him. Not really meaning it. And she wont speak
to me. Her reason was that she flirts to much and she said she was sorry. But now i feel so bad that i scared her so much. I have had quite a few threats from people. And i just want a good way to get her to talk with me again.
She also said she didnt want to hurt my feelings. And idk wut to do. Im still upset over the whole thing and feel like she was the only 1 who made me feel better when i was sad. And she was. I feel like no one else can do that for me. I am a very depressed person if u havent noticed. And i need some1 to answer me.
Hey ok i dont seriously mean that at all and i bought them cause i thought she liked me. But she just lead me on a wild goose chase for so long thats why i was so pissed off.
Any one who says im a creep is wrong. Im 15 and shy ok and i think it was bold what i did and guess wut i have to fite someone next wensday cause of wut i did.
thanx to everyone else who was actually positve
=] made me feel a little better with the logic


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What bothers me is he doesn’t tell me he loves me. He never was a mushy man, he is very very masculine and always has a shield up. But he would say it maybe a couple times a week.
Now a day I will tell him "I love you" and he either nods or says "outstanding". He does not hold hands, he does not touch or play. We do not have sex very much. I come on to him almost everyday but he says "to wait till later", but when he is ready it is 1am -5am, and I like to sleep from 11pm -6:30am. Most nights if I go to bed before him he won’t join me. He would rather sleep on the couch. he says our bed hurts his back. But he blames me that we "never" have sex. (never meaning 4-5 times a week).

But sometimes he does the sweetest things. He will cook these huge gormet meals for me when I get home from my jobs/school. He does this 4-5 times a week. When he gets drunk he tells me he loves me, and sometimes he would grab me into his arms and dance and sing Sinatra.

But for the most part he doesn’t even look at me.
He is in the Navy and when he comes home from a couple weeks out to sea he won’t even kiss me he will just say " What do you want for dinner"?
I don’t know if he loves me anymore and I don’t know how to make him love me again.
He told me to get a second job even though I am a full time student, so I did. He wants his house spotless, so I clean constantly. I don’t know what else to do to make him happy. When he is happy I am happy, and I have not been happy for a long time.

What do I do? Oh, and he doesn’t believe in going to a marriage therapist. He thinks psychology is mumbo-jumbo. Even when that is the field I am studying.
PLEASE HELP!


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