Cheating Ex-Girlfriend…What Should I do??? Need Help Please!!!?

Hey guys,

Basically my ex-girlfriend whom I’ve dated for 2 years and known for 4 years broke up with me 9 months ago. 7 months ago she started to like my ex-friend to the point where he kissed her on the lips even though he had a girlfriend at the time. Fast forward to today. My ex-girlfriend and I’ve decided to become friends. I’m not really over the fact that she liked my ex-friend. I’m really more mad at my ex-friend than my ex-girlfriend because I hate people that flirt with other girls even when they have a girlfriend themselves (basically a player)

My ex-friend is seriously a snake in the grass who can never be trusted. My ex-girlfriend and I had been growing together from the last four weeks. I’ve done everything with her like bring her flowers at work just to let her know that I care for her and even let her cry on my shoulders when she’s having a rough day at school (We’re both in college)

Now 2 days ago, my ex-friend shows up in my ex-girlfriend’s dorm room and I lost my temper and almost punched him (I just grabbed his collar). I grabbed my stuff and just told my girlfriend to stay out of my life. I even told her that I wanted all my stuff back but she refused to give them back.

The other night, she told me that she didn’t want me out of her life and so I told her that she needed to pick because I didn’t want to put up with it anymore even though I still love her a lot. When I asked her why she invited him over after months of not doing anything with him she couldn’t answer why. She told me it was stupid and that she was confused with her feelings still. She wanted my ex-friend to be her friend that would occasionally call her and go to lunch together with.
I know my ex-friend is just trying to get into her pants because he definitely talked about to my ex-girlfriend how much he missed sex with his ex-girlfriend and was just basically saying how he messed up with my ex-girlfriend.

I just don’t know what to do in this scenario. Was I wrong to lose my temper? I’m confused why my ex-girlfriend would do something like this to me again. Why would she do it? I also know that my ex-friend also tried to sleep with one of his workers at work (who is in high school) and I have the necessary proof to prove that he was doing this (chat logs with my ex-girlfriend). Should I turn him in? I used to work at the same place as him so I’m credible with my ex-bosses. Please any help would be appreciated!

-Torn Student



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I’ve been dating this guy for 2 months, we have spent time together every day since our first date, we’ve met each others’ parents and friends, and we have been intimate. He is my first boyfriend and the first man I’ve ever been with. I’m starting to have strong feelings for him, and he says he cares a lot about me too. However, he just got out of a 2 year relationship just a couple months before he met me. He said he dated around a little and met some people before me, though I’m the first person after her that he has had sex with and been serious about, so technically I would be considered the first relationship after her.

The issue is that he brings her up frequently enough that I feel upset/bothered/worried/irritated by it. Hearing the story of their breakup is depressing to me, and I feel like now I know way too much about their relationship, I’d rather just know the basics. It was sort of a mutual falling out between them, she left town to go to school in another state, when she technically could have stayed with him, and generally she just changed as a person (had different life goals all of a sudden, stopped being affectionate towards him, i.e. forgetting his birthday after 2 years of being together, she got depressed or something). The real problem is that he will randomly bring her up (for example yesterday, I told him I liked his cell phone, which reminded him of how jealous she would get about his phone, which turned into a long discussion about her and their relationship) and when he brings her up, he gets visibly upset about it. The first time we talked about it (a couple weeks into dating we had a couple hours long conversation about her) he would get teary-eyed, lately he just gets angry about it. He has a slight temper and so gets wound up pretty easily I suppose, but the fact that he displays this irritation and anger about her behaviour and their past situation really negatively effects me. I worry that anything I say might bring her up and I hate hearing this anger from him. He knows this bothers me but yet he continues to do it. I’ve asked him continuously if he’s over her, he says he is, but because of their past he is now skeptical of women/relationships, which is understandable. He obviously knows I’m tired of hearing about her because I told him angrily one night, "I don’t want to talk about your ex girlfriend anymore!" So now when he talks about her, he starts by saying "I"m over it, I’m not in love with her anymore, but I still care about her and the whole thing worries me (that she seemed to become a completely different person in 3 weeks). Which is understandable, that is unnerving.

Is he just worried and skeptical about the future, because of his past experience with her and so he just wants to share this with me? Or his he really not over her, because he gets emotional talking about her? Should I call it quits before I get too far in or should I hang in there?


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how do I get my ex back, making up with my exI want my ex back now, is a common refrain and one that is fortunately easily remedied. Most of us have broken up at a time with our partners over something very stupid. Perhaps we have lost our temper and we got into a silly argument, and now regrets it. Fortunately, these types of breakups are easy to correct.

But maybe you have broken up over something more serious. Maybe one of you was unfaithful or lied to your partner? These are major problems to overcome, but they are not necessarily the end of the road. If both of you are happy to make an effort to reconcile, you can overcome almost any obstacle. You may need some professional help from a third party. This may take the form of relationship advice either as pairs or individually. There are some great books on this subject, which can be very useful to put things in perspective.

First you have to do is arrange a meeting in a public place. If you meet in private, you can let your emotions take over and either end up having a big argument or in bed loves. Of course the other option could be fun, but it will not necessarily solve get your ex back.

Meeting to discuss your relationship is a chance for both of you to air your grievances. This is not a blame game, and if you have the idea that you would make your ex partner to pay for their behavior then do yourself a favor and go away now. What you want is to realize that you two have some issues to work through, but you want the relationship to work and want to give it another go.

In any partnership with a person of the opposite sex takes work and commitment. We are very different in how we think about things and how we communicate. Sometimes we blow issues out of all proportion and either our pride and our mood prevent us from discussing our problems as adults, we behave like children.

If you want your ex back, you must convince them that you have something special and is worth fighting for. Be prepared for some reservations depending on the original justification for breaking up. Do not try to make them take you back by making them jealous or playing other types of games. Game belongs in the schoolyard. Make an effort to look your best. It helps if you use an outfit that you know your partner likes and finds attractive. Wear their favorite fragrance and cologne as well.

Keep the conversation civil and talking about the great times you shared and your dreams for the future. It may take a while and more than a meeting, but in time you can be together again and no longer say I want ex back now!


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this was the question i asked:

Well, i’ve liked this guy for almost 3 years. I have never talked to him though, but he kind of showed some interest. However, he moved schools.I want to know, did he ever like me? What did he think of me? Is there a chance i might see him again? If it helps, my birthdate is on December 27, 1992 at 6:08 PM and i’m from Los Angeles, CA and if you need his birthdate, it’s on April 22, 1992 and i don’t know where he was born but i do know that he lives in Downey now… please help. Thank you!

and this is the reading…and the first card she pulled out is EXACTLY like me…

Using the relationship spread, the first card that is drawn is identified as the Knight of Wands and it is in reverse. The position of the card is how you view yourself in the present situation at this given moment in time. The meaning of the card is as follows: You are a person that has an exuberant personality and you care very much about your outer appearance, and how others view you. You can take these qualities to the extreme, almost to the point of obsession. This card warns against keeping your temper in check even when things rightfully anger you. This card also signals the sudden departure of someone that is deeply meaningful to you.

The second card in the relationship spread is how you view the person of interest. The card drawn is the three of pentacles in reverse. While you appreciate this individual as a unique and wonderful being, you also do not appreciate the person’s lack of attention to smaller, important details. Sometimes this person seems a bit too flighty in terms of imagination and you sometimes wish that this person would be more grounded and reality rooted.

The third card drawn is the four of cups upright. This card expresses how you feel about the individual in question. The four of cups suggests that you are truly devoted and love this individual. You are presently, however, seriously dissatisfied with what is happening and what you believe lies ahead. You feel a certain apathy being directed toward you; as if you are on the verge of an unrequited romance or unreturned feelings.

The forth card is the Judgment card in reverse; this is the obstacles that stand between you and the individual; your disillusioned and this relationship has the serious potential of stagnating if left on its present path.

The fifth card is the Knight of Pentacles in reverse and suggests how the individual perceives you. The individual views the relationship as already idle and in the process of stagnation.

The sixth card is what the individual feels about you, which differs from how you are perceived. The individual feels great satisfaction when thinking of you and you are in the individual’s desires and hopes.

Final Outcome: the Page of Pentacles: this card is suggestive of potential new beginnings but large obstacles will need to be conquered first. The undertakings of a studious nature have taken center stage, and the relationship or potential thereof has been placed out of the forefront of considerations. The existing gap has the potential of widening.

Conclusions: yes, he cared for you and still does. However, distance and scholarly obligations threaten to diminish such feelings over time.
i ddin’t do the reading….someone else did on yahoo answers..


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