My ex boyfriend stole my dog. How do I get her back?
ok, so here goes.. ill try and make it as short as possible:

My exboyfriend, and I broke up about a year and a half ago. While we were together, we bought a dog from the humane society for me. (He had a dog too and i wanted one i could call mine) He paid for her up front (in his name) and I paid him back in cash (no record). I had no clue what that horrible decision would lead to. So, a year and a half ago we broke up and i moved out (we were living together in his home).. i took my dog, Kaili, with me and she has been with me ever since… i have been taking very good care of her… im not sure if you have a dog, but my dog to me is like a real daughter, a best friend, a sister. She means everything to me. I even have a perscription from my psycologist for her so that my apartment complex would let me keep her. .. along with a pet deposit and everything.. so what i am saying is that there is proof that Kaili has been my dog for the past year and a half. ….

A few months ago, __ and i started hanging out again as friends. I would let him take Kaili on his own when i worked doubles so that Kaili had the other dog to play with and __ just lost his job, and she makes him happy. On February 15th, I took a trip to the keys where brad was, and didnt hang out with him, so he got his feelings hurt. Ever since, I have been dealing with his psycotic behavior. He started harassing and threatening all kinds of things (including taking my dog away from me) in text messages and emails. He has been doing the same to about 5 of my friends, my sister, my mom, my dad and my dad’s girlfriend. He even wrote a long letter pretending to be one of my friends to my dad’s girlfriend and it made her throw up. I have emails of him pretending to be me writing them. Each of my friends and family members have received over 50 text messages each. And thats not where it gets bad. I was told I should have filed a restraining order right away, and i didnt, and i still haven’t. I figured his behavior would die down and that by me ignoring him, that he would stop. But, it just got worse. About a week ago, I was working a double at work so on my break i took Kaili to my moms to watch her. after i got out of work, i picked kaili up from my moms house and brought her home to my apartment.. as i was walking to my front door (which is in the back of the apartment building) ___ came out of nowhere, running fast at me, wripped the dog’s leash from my hand and kept running with my dog! I had no clue what to do so i called the police. Basically they told me that this was a "civil thing" and that a dog is "personal property" and if the dog is in ___’s name, that he can do what he did. I explained to them that i felt assaulted and scared, that ___ literally could have been waiting hours for me in the dark b/c i get out of work at all different hours so he couldnt have known an exact time.. they told me the most they could do is escort me to his apartment or a place i know where he is and they can try to reason with him but they cant just take the dog back. I kept asking them "how is this not a crime?" "how did he not just assault me?" and they basically told me to take it to court or let him have the dog. They also told me that they couldnt do anything to me if i stole the dog right back.

SO… here i am now. i just got all the paperwork from my vets and i can come up with all the proof she has been MY dog.. but im guessing i need to go to court… i can use any advice on what to do next… there are two issues here, my dog and my safety.. do i go file a restraining order now? and then take him to court later? what do i do?? i am so lost and i feel so hopeless… I am not in the wrong in this situation but i feel like nobody cares to take on this matter. again, she is my daughter, i need her back. Please help me with whatever you can… maybe you know a good lawyer i can use??
any information can help. I would also like to stress the fact that i don’t have a lot of money.. i am not a dependent on anyone (including my parents) i am a single waitress with my own apartment so im not the richest person.

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My boyfriend and I had a talk yesterday. He was asking me all types of questions.Since weve been going out he always said that he wanted to be a virgin till marriage. told him numerous of times I wanted him. But then he told me "You know we are christians" I cant not yet. When he said this i got in my mind he think im hte one and he wants to marry me. Now yesterday he’s asking me questions bout making out and where and did i want him to take my virginity. I said yea but were both christians.Since yesterday he hasnt replied back to none of my calls nor text messages..(We was texting yesterday having the talk and i waited 2 hours 4 his reply he never texted back nor picked up his phone after i texted that)….I want to have intercourse with him but the problem is he’s not worth my soul going to hell.And i love him sooooooo much that i dont want him going to hell either for having pre-martial intercourse.And if you really love someone,well inspite of how they might feel if you really really love them youll wait and save them from a firery furnace.

P.S

He hasnt text back y???? and plus y isnt he pickin up my phone calls?? did he get his phone tooken or sumthin??? did his battery go dead??? what should i do?

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My wife recently found out that I was having an emotional affair with another woman via my blackberry and we are thinking of divorce after 14 years of seemingly a normal up/down marriage.

When she confronted me with this I initially lied but confessed 5 mins later after a wave guilt

Poor decision making on my part as I met the younger woman through my job. We went to lunch three times and shared "how doing" and "whats going with you?" type of text messages over a 3/4 month period. The lunches were 1 group lunch and two lunches by ourselves.

My wife asked why.. and I gave her a very honest response of the different type of attention that I received from this other woman was something new and unexpected. I just liked the attention from this pretty woman and purposely hid this from my wife as I knew it was somewhat wrong.

I was never physical with this other woman but it doesn’t seem to matter to my wife much.. I feel like a total scumbag..

My wife questions my true intentions and doubts that we were not physical..I would doubt the same. .. I’ve lost her trust and friendship an want to try get it back..

Thoughts or ideas would be appreciated from today’s biggest Loser.

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a – checking your emails ?
b – decide what events to go to and which not to ?
c – telling flirty women to back off ?
d – making a huge public statement about your union with her ?
e – checking your text messages ?

And also, in addition to the above, if your girlfriend doesn’t get along with your ex with whom you have a child and get along well with is it really bad ?

If your mom doesn’t really like her either, how bad is that ? (in addition to all the rest)

Lets say she is the greatest girl you ever "scored", could you sustain a long term relationship with her even with all this going on ?

What ? I’m seirous !!!
What if it doesn’t really feel like control, it’s just "not a big deal"

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Hello, thanks for taking your time to read this. I’ll try to narrow it down as much as I can..

To be brief, we’ve been dating for almost two years. He broke up with my because I wanted more space and mentioned that I wanted to go casual (I know, dumb, you can’t go from serious to casual in a day) but we both didn’t drop it and we ended up "parting ways". I KNEW he was going to come back to me, so I let it be. So my girlfriends introduced me to guys, partied, etc, and I feel like I’m finding myself again. Being single isn’t so bad. I didn’t miss him, and people were worried (how I dealt with is so quickly), but happy that I’m moving on without heartache. To be honest, I’m not that strong.. i just tried to keep myself occupied and tried not to vent it out on people. It went fine for about a week. But lately he’s been contacting me, perhaps because I’m sick. The other day he gave me medicine and offered to go eat out, but I declined. I knew that we would both get touchy-touchy and I knew at the end of the day I’d regret doing it (It would feel like I was leading him on). However, the following day he contacts me telling me to come over, watch a movie, and eat with him.. But I broke it down to him that he can’t just pretend nothing happened even though we’ve only broken up for two weeks..It was truly heartbreaking how upset he sounded, but tried not to show it. The last thing he said to me was: "I’m sorry. It was a mistake."

Long story short, I find it hard to be alone because I miss him. But when I’m out during the weekends, I don’t miss him at all (And I’m guilty of this, because we’ve been going out for so long). I find it hard to get used to not talking to someone everyday at night, or receiving text messages..

He is a great, sensitive nice guy.. That’s all I can say. He’s never ever done anything to hurt me in the past, that why I can’t get over him as quickly as I should (even though he broke up with me). He’s my first true love and we shared the best moments of our life together..

So my question is, should I get back with him even if I don’t know what I want? It’s killing me inside knowing one foot is out the door, and the other one isn’t. I’m somewhere in between.. and I can’t make up my mind. My friends don’t really have any advice for me because they’ve never been in my position before.

Thanks a bunch…
- Confused

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My wife and I have been seperated for about 2 1/2 months now. I left because we lived with her mother and it was a constant battle and her mother was the head of the household and her not me. Anyway after I left (only about 36 hours later) I came back only to be told she wants to be apart and she is living with her mom and my kids and I am in my own apartment. I have left notes, sent flowers, sent text messages, left little gifts all to try to say sorry and it is not her and I still love her but I get nothing back, not even a thank you for the stuff I left for her. I still love her with all my heart but the hanging on kills me.

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In November of 2008, I met the best thing that ever happened to me. We met online and fell for each other quickly. We had a great relationship with a few bumps in the road. I was more than your average boyfriend. I cooked her dinner and sometimes we would cook together, bought her dinner, bought her roses on occasion just to say I loved her, helped her financially if needed, and did all of the little things that mattered. She has had a troubled past when it comes to guys. Because of that issue she was very insecure. I always plead and swore that I wasn’t going to leave or cheat on her. About 5 months into our relationship she met a new guy from her work. She had a lot of guy friends that I didn’t mind her seeing at all, but this guy was different. After a week of knowing her he offered to pay hundreds of dollars worth of car maintenance for her car. He offered to pay for a new tattoo, took her our for breakfast all of the time. I knew what he was trying to do, and I demanded that it stop. We argued for a long time over what was going on and I was given the jealous and insecure label. She ended up cheating on me nad leaving me for him around our six month mark. I was devastated. She told me she wanted me in her life still, but I denied the offer. She would still send me text messages but I would ignore them because I was bitter. I gave her a diamond necklace for Christmas, and a watch for valentines day that she ended up giving back to me when she left. I also returned the promise ring that I was going to present to her on our six month anniversary. I wanted to prove to her that I would stay honest, commited, and true to her until we were ready to be engaged in the future. Her relationship with the new guy didn’t last long at all. They only "saw" each other for a few weeks. Months went by and we didn’t really speak to each other. About 3 months ago I decided I needed to get over her and move on. I deleted her off of my facebook to begin the process of healing. About a week ago I received a message from her on facebook asking why I deleted her off. I thought, "Why should I respond?" So I ignored her. She responded again and was upset that I didn’t respond. She told me that she still wanted me in her life and wanted to be friends. She told me that the guy she was dating at the time was cheating on her, and told me she was sorry for hurting me. She told me she understood if I didn’t want to talk to her. I responded back and told her how I felt about what she did, and told her I would think about being friends. She responded back and told me she worried about me a lot and thought it would be nice if we went out to lunch sometime. A few days went by and I accepted her offer for friendship. She was fine with it, and told me she only wanted to be friends because she had just broke up with her cheating boyfriend and wasn’t ready for a relationship. I told her I understood, and I wasn’t ready for one either. I decided to be a nice guy and I told her that if she needed someone to talk to for comfort I would. She sent me a text and thanked me for my thought, but there was nothing anyone could do. She had to get over it herself. She told me she wanted to have lunch and I told her that would be fine and to let me know when. She was okay with it, and wanted to start a conversation. I had to cut it short because I was going to bed, but I told her I would talk later.
Does my ex realize what she had lost, and slowly wants to come back to me? I do love her still, and I would give her a shot if she proves that she has changed. Ladies..what do you think..does she want me back? If she doesn’t, why would she want to talk to me again after her breakup? I thought I had women figured out, but I was dead wrong.

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Is it being rude if I ignore them…its not that I don’t want to talk to him but I just feel like by responding he always has the comfort of knowing that I am right there. I thought maybe if I did not respond-it may make them think that I am moving on that he will lose me. Sometimes people don’t realize what they have until its gone. Yes I know that he is an ex for a reason but the reason we broke up is because he couldn’t commit to me. We were together for 2 years and are on good terms now…its been over a year since we broke up and I still love him. Please give me advice regarding the text question… Thanks

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my ex and i haven’t spoken for about 2 months..because he texted me some mean messages so i filed harassment charges agianst him and told him to PAY for the text messages..so he called me last night and i was asleep.so i called him in the morning ..but when i did it seemed like he wnated to get off the phone and he said he had something he wanted to do do and that i should call him back if i wanted to..could it be he’s still mad cuz i told filed the charges and broke his bank account or is he just being a jerk.?
im curious..well i guess i still kinda like him

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Are these signs an ex wants to get back together?

• Starts calling just to talk, and talks for 20 mins or more, before it was only a minute or two
• Called just to say that she saw something she knows i like at the store while shopping, then a day later calls to say that she bought it for me
• Says she talks to me more then her friends lately
• Says she doesnt hold anything against anyone anymore
• Is finding ways to see me
• Last time we talked said that maybe we could get together and do something
• She has also started saying have a good night before we hang up.
• She is also sending replys back to my text messages, something she hadnt done right after we broke up.
• She also told me that she is coming to visit me one night this week

A little background: we were engaged when we broke up, we have been apart for six months, she ended it. Normally she puts up a wall and dont let an ex back in, i know this because i knew her before we were together

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My husband’s ex-wife is still wanting to be apart of his life she sends him text messages with things like " I still want to be with you, I love you, you are my one and only". What would you do?
He tells me I have nothing to worry about but i think i do.
They have a child together

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Okay so I’ll try to make this quick.

She and I went out for 1.5 years, and after the first 2 months she told me she loved me.

With previous girlfriends, when they dropped the "L" bomb and I didn’t feel it toward them, I broke up with them within a month or less.

This was different though, I told her I didn’t know if I was ready to say it, but that I still really wanted to be with her.

So she continued to tell me she loved me throughout the next year plus.

Jumping forward… After this most recent spring break (2 or so weeks after) we were headed to the store to pick some stuff up.

I had been really debating for the past few days before that about telling her (FINALLY) that I love her. I thought to myself that I might as well make fully sure before I go through with this (because I had never ever said it to anyone else before).

So, being somewhat sneaky and untrusting, when she went in to the store I checked her old text messages on her phone. The text message at the very bottom had a little Lock on it, meaning it was saved… It said "Te Amo"… and it was from one of her best friends in Mexico. For those of you that don’t know…(she is Mexican, was born in Mexico, but lives up here now, speaks fluent Spanish, and went to spring break in Mexico to visit her dad)…. Anyway, Te Amo is VERY serious and it is essentially like professing your undying love to someone. Like the next step is a SERIOUS relationship.

So, I quickly put the phone down after seeing it, and when we got back to her apartment, I brought it up and asked her what it was. I said that I couldn’t trust her, that she was cheating on me, and all this other crap. She assured me that she wasn’t, and was BAWLING, like eyeballs about to pop out of her head she was so distraught because she thought I was going to break up with her.

She told me that the reason she kept the text message was to A: pretend it was from me, and B: it was nice knowing that someone could actually love her.

I didn’t buy it at the time, but I believe that now I do. So after the whole argument and explanation she gave, I told her that if we were to stay together, she’d have to go through a lot of pain at my hand because I was essentially going to treat her like shit.

She agreed and said whatever it took for me to regain her trust.

Well, about a month down the road, I sent her a text before she got out of class (we’re both in college) and it said something like, "I don’t know if I can ever trust you again." … I sent the text message because I was thinking about the "Te Amo" text and I was just frustrated.

She came over later that day and we sat down and talked, and essentially she wanted to break up with me because of how I had been treating her.

We broke up, and a day or two after we broke up, with ALOT of thinking, I realized that I loved her and I needed to tell her. It took me 2 hours of sitting in her bed and making small talk to finally bring it up and tell her. She said "I love you too" back to me or whatever, and then she said that we should give this relationship a second chance, but it’s going to take work, etc…

Well, now we’re broken up and she has fallen out of love with me, she still loves me, she told me… But I can tell she doesn’t feel the same burning love that she felt before, and she admitted that.

So I want to know… How can I prove myself to her and have her fall in love with me again? I really want to make her happy and I want to be with her, she is my life and I want so much to just prove myself to her.

Oh, and she’s down in Mexico right now for 2 weeks visiting family/friends, so I can’t really do anything immediately (kind of out of contact due to distance, cell phone charges etc) so any advice would be great!!

Thanks so much for reading this… I know I said it’d be short… But I have WAY too many emotions going on right now to keep things short.
Oh and sorry I forgot to add.. this is the order of things…

We broke up, I told her that I loved her… and thats it, we’ve never gotten back together, its still kind of like a "trial" period i guess.

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So about 2 weeks ago I posted a question asking if anyone else thought it was wierd that the previous owners of my dog wanted to "visit" him. Well suprise! They want the dog back.

It’s been a little over a month that we’ve had him and he’s doing so well! He loves us and our other dog and we love him. Him and Ziggy (our other dog) are inseperable.

So anyway I never called them back saying they could come see him. A week later I get a text saying basically that the kids missed the dog and they wanted him back. We nicely replied that we couldn’t do that. They’re reply wasn’t so nice, it basicaly said "No we want our dog back, we’re trying to be understanding with you but we want him back". We replied simply that we were sorry.

Then today I was home alone and the husband showed up! I was home alone and didn’t answer the door. I’m a very petite girl and knew that he wasn’t going to be happy so didn’t risk it and pretended no one was home. He slipped a note under the door saying they were talking to a laywer and would take legal action if they had to and that they would keep coming back until they got the dog back! I called my parents and they came over. Shortly after that the wife and her sister showed up and got nasty with my dad saying they were coming to pick up the dog and he wouldn’t let them. By this point we had called the police because it seemed like they were staking out my house.
We think they showed up again but the cop pulled up and then they were gone. The cop got the story, looked at the dog to make sure that he was ok and then called them telling them they co
For some reason it posted this question twice and cut this one off…..
Well I did save the text messages from them, one says they gave the dog to me. The all show their refusal of our denying they get the dog back. We didn’t pay anything for him and didn’t sign any paperwork they just came and dropped him off, but the police officer that came over was convinced they were in the wrong and even called us back to talk about it.
My bf sent them a text saying that if they didn’t listen to the warning the officer gave them we would press charges against them. They called me agian saying that they didn’t know that each other had gone over there and didn’t know why we thought they were harrassing us but they were just trying to get thier dog back and told us to enjoy him. I hope thats the end of it.
And the dog is about a year and a half and they had him since he was 6 months old. I don’t care that they had him all that time he seems very happy and adjusted with us.

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Ok, there’s this guy that i dated for a month or so, and it was long distance, but i knew him in real life and saw hiim every month or so.
I broke up with him, and he was so upset. He kept calling me and everything, for the next 2 months. I then saw him 2 months later, and i fell for him hard. He had a gf, but he said he would break up with her for me because he loved me. We would text everyday all day, and then he told me he couldn’t be with me. He led me on. Things quickly got resolved, and he broke up with his gf and started texting me, and he wanted to hook up. But he would still say he loved me. We hooked up and it was actually romantic, with kissing and all. But he said we needed more time before we got back together.
One day, he totally stopped talking to me. He got his phone taken away, and we didn’t talk for a month.
When he got his phone back, he told me to lose his number because we needed time apart, although he called and texted me later that week.
We then got in a huge argument, which was my fault, for about 3 weeks. He wouldn’t accept my apology, then one day he randomly did. He began asking to hook up again, and it wasn’t romantic anymore.
This weekend, i drove to his house and we hooked up. He texted me yesterday asking if i got home ok, but then just stopped replying. He hasnt responded since yesterday afternoon, even when i ask if hes mad. Sometimes, our phone’s don’t deliver text messages from each other, so i don’t know if he’s getting them.
I’m still so in love with him, but he’s not so much with me. He usually goes in on and off phases with me..but i want him to come back to me permanetly. What should i do?=(

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I dated my ex-girlfriend for a year. I met her parents several times. She was/is the perfect woman in my eyes. The only problem in our relationship was that she had a problem letting me be a part of her life. She would go days at a time without calling me. I didn’t expect her to call me everyday or even every other day. I never said anything when she went days without calling me. The Friday before Thanksgiving my ex-girlfriend sent me a text at 6 pm asking me if I wanted to go to the movies at 10 pm with her sister and brother-in-law if they decided to go. I replied yes, but I never heard from her one way or the other. I didn’t hear from her again until Monday night when she replied to a text message I sent her asking if we could talk. She seemed like she wasn’t in a talking mood. I assumed she was tired from work and I knew she had to get up early so I cut the call short. She didn’t call me back the rest of the Thanksgiving week. It’s Sunday night and I’m feeling ignored or even strung along. I overreacted because I felt hurt and sent her a text message saying I think she is a special person but I feel it would be best if I found someone closer to my own age and that I didn’t think she was at a place in her life where she was ready to be in a serious relationship. I should mention that I’m 32 and she’s 24. The next day I get a reply text stating she wished things could have worked out. I could tell I really hurt her. I immediately realized I made a big mistake by impulsively sending a hurtful break up text instead of calling her and discussing how I really felt about being ignored. I’ve been sending her text messages for a week telling her I love her and I was wrong and begging for a chance to make things right. She want reply to my texts or call me. I really love her and would do anything to get her back. My ex-girlfriend was homeschooled by her parents and still lives with them. She isn’t as independent as most 24 year old women. This could’ve been the reason she had a hard time letting me be a part of her life.

Does anybody have any suggestions on how I can get her back??? Serious responses only. I would really like to hear a woman’s perspective.

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My wife and I have been together for 5 years, we have a kid. We’ve seen ups and downs. Recently, she cheated on me. I don’t want to lose her or my child. I love the way my life is. Obviously she doesn’t. We’ve worked through most of it but the pain still comes. I often think about checking her phone for obscure numbers and wanna spy on text messages. This isn’t me. How do I fix myself?

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i know its wrong but i don’t care. i want to either send something to his place of work that will embarrass him or send anonymous text messages. he cheated and lied and i know find out what he really thinks of me. any ideas of a website.

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So my ex girlfriend dumped me a couple of weeks ago because she will be graduating college in the spring and she may be going to work in Texas (we both currently attend college in Mississippi, and i am graduating a semester after her). We had been going out for close to 9 months, and we were and still are in love, and we had even talked about getting married in the future. Her reasoning for the break up was that it would be easier to break up now rather than waiting until spring. We had previously discussed the possibility of her going to work out of state and decided we would deal with it when the time came closer, and we even discussed me moving to Texas after i graduated, and we made an agreement that we would find a way to work things out. About a week ago she came over to talk and told me she was still in love with me and cried hysterically for close to 2 hours, and ive gotten a few text messages very late at night from her telling me she misses me, but she has also told me she does not want to get back together. I am trying to give her some space and am hoping she will realize she misses me, and i haven’t had any kind of contact with her for about 5 days, but its very hard for me not to try to not call her. I am considering calling her sometime next week to grab a cup of coffee, is this a good idea? I do not plan on bringing up getting back together i just think it would be good for us to go out because she may realize after seeing me she made a mistake. I am wondering if i am taking the right approach here? And if we grab some coffee what should be discussed? Should it just be a friendly thing, or should i bring up getting back together again? And if we don’t talk about getting back together that day when should i bring it up again? This is someone that is very special to me and i would do anything to get her back. I now this is a big question but any kind of help would be greatly appreciated, thank you.

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We dated for 6 months. He wont reply to any of my text messages or phone calls. All he has to say is bad things about me. I need him back. Help! What should i do to win him back?

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my wife went to florida earlier this year for her friends marriage. I as at home working and taking care of our son. While there she met a guy and became close to him. I found out about thier emotional affair a couple of days after she came back.. she swears up and down that nothing sexual happened between them and none of the im’s or emails suggest anything else. She talked to this guy for about 3 weeks on the phone and on the internet. I asked her to cut it off with him and she did. Since the beginning of July I have seen no phone calls, text messages or anything on the internet bewteen them.. but i just don’t feel comfortable trusting her. She says she has no contact with him and does not want to talk to him anymore.. she says she knows she was wrong and loves me and our son to much to do anything stupid like that again.. how do i trust the wife i love again

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After almost 2 months without seeing my 11-year old son, I decided to petition the court for visitation. I accompanied my son on his 5th grade senior trip on June 23, 2009 and spoke to him on June 25, 2009 for the last time. I have not seen or spoken to my son since the last week in June 2009. All my text messages and phone calls in a desperate attempt to reach my son have been prevented or blocked by my ex-wife for reasons unknown to me. So, I went to family court and got my papers to serve her for visitation. Why not? I work 32 hours a week at .50 an hour plus the WEEKLY child support deducted is 9. I could not allow the abuse anymore. Is she out to destroy me? Will she get upset if I take her to court for visitation? What revenge can I possibly look for?

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My husband found out I had cheated on him. He found some text messages on my cell phone and I confessed to the cheating. We lived apart for a couple of months and during that time we barely spoke. I heard he was spending a lot of time with a bartender that works at the local bar. I also found some text messages on his phone but he denys doing anything with her, and they are only friends and she is fun. Since then he has told me he wants me back, but he doesn’t want to change his lifestyle. He goes out 3-4 times a week and he comes home at all hours of the night. I think he still sees her and it bothers me. When I bring her up or bring up his going out he gets defensive and tells me that I’m a nag and I am smothering him. He told me that he wants me to relax and chill out and our marriage will work. I do smother him, because I want answers and he won’t talk to me. I have gotten advice to leave him alone and see where it goes. Is this the right choice and will he love me again?

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he broke up with me i broke up with him a couple times a long time ago though and he broke up with me cause he thought i was freaking out on him i was just mad cause he kinda told some personal stuff to one of my friends she kept asking him and he told her cause she was getting annoying and a long time ago he told another of my friend something personal that i told him not to and i think he promised to that one. and when we broke up for a week my not friend anymore said that he was flirting with her and stuff and she was flirting with him but he told me thats a lie and he never did (they have never met either all through text messages) and so anyways he still thinks that i freaked on him and i dont trust him when i do and i have told him and he said he wants space and i asked him if we can be freinds and he said ya and so i texted him sometimes and then i kinda asked a couple days if he has made his decision yet if he will give me another chance. and he seems to get annoyed real easily and started ignoring my texts. and all this fighting and stuff was over text messaging and in real life when im with him i have never gotten mad at him or yelled at him i just cant do it i wouldnt be able to on the phone either. what should i do to try and get him to give me another chance? he told my friend he likes being single to and he still thinks that i freaked on him i didnt freak i was just upset and kinda mad how do i get him to not think that? we were dating for almost 2 years to. he was my first bf and i was his first gf he actually had a gf before my for 1 week i guess .. HELP!

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