Hi this is probably one of those questions i need to figure out myself but all the same if i could have any advice at all itd be good thanks 
Im 19 and my girlfriend is 18 and Iv been with her just over a year now, I love her and she loves me. But were both going to university in septemeber and so we wont see eachother unless. I want to be single for that part of my life. I dont plan on marrying my girlfriend and i guess its a different kind of love I have for her because while im in university I want to be able to just go out and be free without having to worry about commitments. if another girl dances with me i want it just to be fun and care free. Im not saying I want another girlfriend or would be looking for one because that would be completly against my point. I just want that part of my life to be my own.
I would never be unfaithful to my girlfriend and i always try to look after her because she is younger than me. But i admit when we spend to much time together or have arguments i do get bored and tiresom of our relationship. Apart from that its fine. We agreed before we went out with eachother that we would break up before university but now as things have gotten more serious she told me she wants to stay with me and started to cry when I reminded her of our agreement. To stop her crying I told her we could stay together if thats what she wanted… But its not I want. I dont want to upset her, it upsets me to see her upset so i just dont know how to do this..
if any 1 can help id be truly greatful thanks for your time
I do want to be with her now but not when we both go to university. Im not scared of talking to her about breaking up but if i were to tell her about it, I really hurt her feeling. She would be shattered and I feel to strongly for her to let her go through that. I suppose i should break up with her now to stop our bond becoming even stronger and harder to break when its time. Its just akward and hard
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