ever since i found out about St. Rita, i have not been able to shake her from my mind. I lost my faith in God many years ago, I haven’t been religious in very long. i am 23 yrs old now. I have spent the past 4 years in a ring of bad relationships with two men. I never left them because i had endless patience and hope in them. I have forgiven one of their cheating, turned the other cheek, one of their drug addiction, However, they treated me awfully and blamed the failure of the relationships on me. they also led me to do bad things, including an abortion in my last relationship. I haven’t been able to forgive myself for it, even though i got rid of it because the father didn’t want it.
I have prayed through difficult times, often the rosary. But when I have felt extremely hopeless i ask St Rita to help me. recently in the past month, my ex bf refused to speak to me, refuses to talk to me, refused to forgive me, although i have forgiven him. told me awful things, even tho i continually told him not to …that i loved him…that he was hurting me…he continued his abuse. today….he finally spoke with me on the phone, and was extremely evil to me.
i was in so much despair, and i fell upon st rita once more. this is the second time ive asked her to help me. i asked for a prayer on a forum for st rita. not even an hour later, my ex bf had written me back an email…telling me he appreciated the last email i sent him asking him for forgiveness….he said he hoped he could forgive me someday…but that time wouldnt be soon. he said he wished me the best in my school, life and love and family.
i believe it was a miracle because he hadnt been respectful to me since we’d been together.
do you think so?
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Allrite, here is some advice that may help. Discalimer: Things can be different with every person…..read this story to see how i did it then ill give tips.
Me and my ex were in love and dated 6 months, we drifted apart and she started liking this guy she dated 2 times in the past. She started dating him. He was still the jerk he always was even tho he said he changed and she thought he did. He still plays people cuz hes a heartless jerk. But he cheated on her after like a week and a half. Well after that happened we started talking more and slowly working things out. Well she barely had a connection with me or was attached to me and still kinda liked this Dante kid cuz shes more physically attracted to him than anything. Well she is dome with his crap she tries to stay away from him and shes back with me, we are closer than ever. We are pretending like we didnt break up for a month cuz we dont wanna start over and stuff….But things are pretty good with us. There has been a little drama and its been a little hard at a couple times cuz of Dante and stuff…..this Dante kid has been trying to get her to like him again and hes been a dick to her tho on and off….shes sick of him and basically he is causing drama by talking crap about me and trying to fite me, and she dont wanna see us fite. So she felt in the middle cuz of him….but I told him to back off and stop, shes no longer worried about it. She said she wants to be with me and ework things out with me and that this summer will be way better cuz we wont have to put up with the high school bs and im graduating and shell be in school still, itll make it easier cuz we wont be stuck in the same school with dumb drama. But she loves me again and its going really good and i love her….we learned things we need to change from the past to make it better.
TIPS:Don’t give up, Don’t be too pushy give them some space….in the mean time fix things about yerself like work out lose weight get a job get a car dress better (i did things like this and i feel way better and i lost 20 lbs. She used to feel like I was too needy but Im not anymore I learned to have a little independece), dont depend on her or NEED her, love her, be there for her, even if she doesn’t like you that much just be there for her especially when other people aren’t then shell realize you really care, work on things that maybe bothered her before, let things be on her terms until shes ready to commit, she needs space and she is the only person who can truly control that space so give it to her. Don’t take things too fast when u get back together, have discussion on what things to change and just how u both feel about yer relationship and how you will handle different situations. One last tip, if you violate her space or things start to go wrong then back off and give her time to think (if you dont think about it and try not to care so much and to not worry and most likely things will turn out.)
It took alot of work to get my ex back, but that jerk is out of the picture, she loves me and wants to be with me and trusts me completely….even when things were really bad, they. If you wanna get someone back then dont give up, follow yer heart and u can listen to advice but go truly with what your heart wants you to.
I HOPE THIS HELPS!!!
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Ive been asking alot of questions on here about the "relationship" between me and my "boyfriend" like how hes been using me for sex and dosent care for me or respect me and your answers to my questions have really helped me so i decided I was going to talk to him about it on sun. morning
But i went to the town picnic on sat. night and i saw him there and he saw me there but it seem like he didnt want to talk to me and was mad at me or something, then he kept on watching me and "keeping track" of what i was doing like he thought i was there to cheat on him or somethin, then he kept on following me around at a distiance with his group of friends and then when ever he came real close to me and he knew i was looking at him he would put his arm around one of the girls him and his friends were walking around with, i looked straight at him and he look straight at me then he put his arm around her again to make sure i saw.
so then i called him and the girl anwsered and she told me he had moved on, to take my mydol, and grow up, i was firious but i knew i shouldnt be mad at her (even tho she had no reason to talk to me like that) so then i just left the picnic the next day he called me and said he was sorry and was in a really bad mood cause something happened that day (he wouldnt say what) he said he was sorry but i told him i couldnt talk then and i would call him back cause i didnt know what to say but he hurt me really bad that night and it killed me to see his arm around that other girl,
the wierd thing is he never gave me any indication to why he was mad that night because he was perpously tring to make me mad and jelouse and i want to know why what can i do
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My ex boyfriend and I decided to be friends after our break-up, our break-up was an unresolved fight (his fault.) Know a couple months later, he admits that he didnt have patience when we were dating (no I dont know what he means by "paitence")! He always talks to me about whatever is on his mind, we are both are really open with eachother and trust eachother very much. We talk on the phone for hours! I feel that he is the closest to me out of all of the guys I know. I believe that he sees me the closest friend of the girls he knows. I just am curious on wether he still likes me & I dont know why I still like him! He tells me he is really is glad were just friends. And I really love what we have developed, Im afraid if we start dating again we will ruin it. Another thing is he constantly brings up sex in conversation. He knows Im a virgin, but he is not, which I know. This doesnt stop him from talking about it tho. AND He says when I loose my virginity he wants to know about it!
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