We dated about three months then he broke up with me, then he hit rock bottom and has since "sobered up". It’s been about three months since we broke up. It hasn’t been that long since he quit drinking altogether. Then, he called me recently and wants to be with me. I still have strong feelings for him. I don’t want to get hurt again but I really care a lot for him. We are both in our mid-30’s. He said he quit drinking and is going to go to AA. Should I proceed with caution or wait till he’s been sober for a while?
I got yelled at for no reason. I didn’t know his name when he passed in the corridor. We normally wait three months until they forget that they yelled at us and then we sneak in during the middle of the night and dump icewater on them and run like hell…it’s funny to watch them wake up suddenly only to fall flat on the hard floor!! I really hate this guy…I am thinking of dumping fish guts on him. Good idea???!!!!
My boyfriend and I broke up on Thursday. We’d been dating and living together nearly two years. Within three months of meeting, he proposed, but I knew he was making a hasty decision and said that we should get to know one another better.
Almost two years later, I am prepared for a more serious commitment, but he isn’t. I wanted to marry him, but he couldn’t say with certainty that he wanted to be in any committed relationship anymore (including our present situation), so I left him. I feel that it will only hurt me more if I wait for him to be ready to commit. I feel like I deserve a man ready for commitment.
We live in a one-bedroom apartment. It’s nearly impossible for me to get over him (or cry, or scream) when he’s in the same apartment. How can I miss him if he isn’t gone?
It’s killing me, but I’m trying to separate myself from him entirely. We’re not speaking unless necessary, but I’m terrified of coping when he finally does find his own place, leaving me in an empty house. I’m also hurting knowing that he’ll probably nail the first girl he can as soon as he’s gone.
Most of all, though, I feel like a failure for not being good enough to make him want to settle down. How could he change his mind, and be so calm about it, when just weeks ago he was crying at the prospect of losing me?
Has anyone gone through this? Can anyone help me move on? And does the "distance yourself & he’ll come to his senses" thing fail-proof? He seems completely fine about the whole thing.
My boyfriend recently broke up with me. We had been in love for over three years. He says that he just doesn’t feel the same way about me. While yes, we have been "in love" for three years, we’ve only been dating for a little under three months. We had a rough start, we had to keep our relationship a secret for about a month. Then, when we were finally out in the open, his parents started going through a nasty divorce. We never really had a chance. I am still really truely in love with him. We used to talk about getting married && all that. He promised me he’d love me forever. I still think that deep down, he does still love me. I just don’t know how to make him realize that. He is switching schools at the end of this semester. I know that I’m young, and I have my whole life ahead of me, but I know, that my life just won’t be the same with out him, so I don’t have much time to win him over. What can I possibly do to win him over soon?? ANY suggestions would be appreciated.
On top of everything else, he won’t talk about it! He said that most of his relationships have ended around the four month mark && it seems to me ((and everyone else)) that he’s just running away from his problems and that any time a small issue comes up in the relationship, he ends it. I just don’t know what to do.
Ok so I’m going to his house for his birthday this friday…with some of our friends….should I try to talk to him or make a move or what?!?!
Here is the story:
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A woman, 23, successful, very good job, decent looking, sweet, smart, well rounded, relatively well-off has never dated before (her problems: a little aggressive, shy, distant).
One day she meets a great guy. There is a spark, they go out for three months.
Her shyness and distance alienated the guy, he was patient for the three months but could not take it anymore. He breaks up.
She regrets her attitude and she tries to get back, but he wants out.
A month has passed by and she still likes him a lot. She wants to give it another chance. She knows that she has so much to offer, and that he would have liked her so much had he shown him the real her, and been herself around him. She just wishes there was a way for him to realize it was just her shyness that lead to her distance, and that in reality, she’s a very different kind hearted person.
Here is the question:
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What should she do? If you were that guy, what would make you get back to her? How about just restoring friendship? If so, how to get back this friendship?
My husband cheated on me. I want him back.
My husband just came back from being away in training for two months. I found out (and this is a for sure yes) that he cheated on me with someone who was in his class several times.
He knows I’m suspicious but I haven’t told him I have the proof and I don’t plan on telling him. I want my marriage and I love him. I have forgiven him in my heart and mind, that’s not the problem. My problem is we are still living in the same household and will be for another three months until I can get on my feet (financially) for the sake of our children.
He won’t sleep in the same bed with me or give me any sign of affection (says his mind’s set). He told me no matter how hard he tried I was never happy and he gets angry thinking of all our fights and the low blows I would give him and vice-versa. I told him I was over it, apologized, & that our marriage is mendable.
What do I do to win his love back? Please help. (and the whore is states away back with her husband, so i dont worry about her).
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We went out for three months and then she started seeing me as a friend. Now she won’t talk to me because I annoyed her with texts and such. Its now a month and a half Later and shes probably with someone right now. i texted her later saying happy thanksgiving and she replied with "thank you, you too." How do I get her back? Ive been avoiding her but It doesnt seem to be working…Girls help…guys if you got back your exs after they broke up with you…help
Ok Soo.. Im In 8th Grade And Three Months Ago My Boyfriend Asked Me Out.. And He Broke Up With Me Because It Wasn’t Working Out.. And I Really Like Him And I Want Him Back And The Valentines Dance Is Coming Up And I Want To Go With Him.. How Do I Get Him Back Before The Valentines Dance? He Said That He Likes Me A Little Bit..
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My boyfriend got a divorce from his wife almost a year and a half ago. He and I have been dating for about three months now and his ex-wife recently started contacting me saying she is concerned about me being around her daughter and would like to know more about me. I told her I was happy to tell her about myself and gave her some basic information about where I grew up, what I do for a living, and what I enjoy doing in my free time. I was careful not to give her too much information, because she is mentally ill and can act in emotionally unstable ways at times. She responded somewhat strangely in that she compared herself to me in almost every aspect–she also likes to read and write, she also likes to sing, she also wanted to be a teacher, etc. From what my boyfriend has said of her, he knows only a little of this to be true. It appears that she’s trying to be friendly, but also that she is very insecure about having lost him and worries I may be perceived as "better" than her. I feel a sort of tension in that she’s trying to be my friend and get to know me, but that she also misses my boyfriend. I don’t want to be impolite, set her off, or cause un-do harm to their daughter in the midst of this. Does anyone have any tips on how I should interact with her?
me and my ex broke up three months ago. during that time i was trying to get back with him but he fell in love with an engage girl. so of course he was ignoring me and treating me like crap. the other girl already got married and now he was to hang around with me. He is acting all sweet and kind towards me and started to hug me and kiss me. we act like we got back together but i just learned to accept him as a friend. He keeps asking me to stay the night over. recently he bought me an owl from build a bear and put an i love you heart inside the stuff animal. of course i was surprise but now im confused. he is still in love with the other girl but im also wondering if he likes me again. we both decided to have a baby together and i want a baby with him i always saw him as the father of my children. is it possible that he likes me again or is my head playing mind games again. NEED HELP PLEASE!
It all started not this past Saturday, but the one before. My ex-bf who I havent talked to in three months when we broke up. Then, saturday I accidently texted him and he replied then asked if i wanted to go hang out with them. then we had sex. Then, two nights ago we had sex again. I really miss him and I want to get back together with him. What should I do?
We haven’t texted since the last time we had sex. I just texted him to tell him I took Plan B and he never replied. He didnt reply to his best guy friend yesterday either though.
Also, the first time Saturday, we only texted each other after that to ask about stuff we left at the person’s house we had sex at. And those convos were only three messages.
I want to text him again, but I dont want to be annoying
What should I do? I really want to get back together?
He lost his virginity to me, and i to him this summer. He hasnt had sex with anyone else but me, even after we broke up.
My boyfriend of a year and a half told me three months ago that he isn’t in love with me. He still comes over every weekend, we talk on the phone everyday, he cuts my grass, does chores around my house, takes me out to eat BUT only as friends. He doesn’t lead me on, he doesn’t make any moves on me. I still lead my life as usual and am thinking of dating again soon. He says he is attracted to me, loves me, would do anything for me, is more comfortable with me than anyone ever before. I feel as if he is the love of my life, but I have totally backed off and go along with the friend thing. Do you think he could still come back to me one day?
It all started not this past Saturday, but the one before. My ex-bf who I havent talked to in three months when we broke up and I had sex. Then, two nights ago we had sex again. I really miss him and I want to get back together with him. What should I do?
We haven’t texted since the last time we had sex. I just texted him to tell him I took Plan B and he never replied. He didnt reply to his best guy friend yesterday either though.
Also, the first time Saturday, we only texted each other after that to ask about stuff we left at the person’s house we had sex at. And those convos were only three messages.
I want to text him again, but I dont want to be annoying
What should I do? I really want to get back together?
I was finally getting over him, but then we had sex two nights ago all of a sudden. It was really random, because we hadn’t talked in almost three months and avoided each other big time. We were pretty fucked up though. But anyways, now I am craving his touch and I just really miss him. 
I was finally getting over him, but then we had sex two nights ago all of a sudden. It was really random, because we hadn’t talked in almost three months and avoided each other big time. We were pretty fucked up though. But anyways, now I am craving his touch and I just really miss him.
My ex and I broke up a little over 3 months ago in September. We were together for 1 yr and 3 months. We have been through a lot in that time though. We technically traveled the world together as she studied in France while I studied in Spain. Our split was mainly because there was a lot of pressure from our relationship because it progressed faster than we had planned and felt like we were very involved in each others lives. I guess you can say to a point where the appreciation and excitement of one another was losing its spark. Also the distance wasn’t helping when we were away from each other during our school semesters. Anyways when we broke up she studied one more semester abroad in Italy and I was here in the U.S. I stopped contact with her during the three months because I didn’t want to push her away by possibly making her feel any guilt from the separation and which I also thought was the best move for me regardless. During the 3 months I have not thought about her that much really and have been going out and enjoying the single life as you may say. Been able to move on from this instead of moping and feeling depressed from it, which I know I should of been doing anyways. So I have been fine and I know she had been fine especially being away from home.
Now she had come back home a couple weeks ago and I have seen her for the first time. I was very very happy to just see her and I had missed her very much. We got together a couple times just to catch up a little bit. One of the last times we had spoke, we kind of just spoke about how our relationship was before and how things may have been the cause of our separation. However I had asked the question of her possibly dating me again sometime in the future and she said maybe but that she wasn’t sure and that she has been happy being single. But our conversation got cut off after that cause we both had places to be at. A few days later I was invited by one of her best friends to her best friends Birthday Party. I had attended with a couple of my friends that they knew and we hung out with them and had a good time for the most part. For me it was the first time I had really felt the feeling again of really missing being her Man/ boyfriend and it was starting to kill me. I didn’t really interact with her too much that night but my friends had more than me. At the end of the night when I said goodbye I told her that she looked great and that it was nice seeing her. And she then informed me that she was wearing the dress that I had bought her before. Then we had a big hug and then an unexpected almost near kiss goodbye. Really wanted too but didn’t think it was right to. But my friends were all saying that they saw something that night. Maybe little indications of interests still there.
The next day I tried seeing if she wanted to hang out later that night. First she wasn’t able to do anything cause she had things to finish up and wasn’t sure if she felt like going out. Then I had mentioned that she should let me take her out once. After that she had said that our conversation that we had before the other day had gotten cutoff and that maybe we should get together and talk about it. So I said sure and then she asked to meet her at like a starbucks. Then before I was on my way she had mentioned that she didn’t want to leave the house and if I wanted to just go over her house instead. So I did. We spoke about what was going on between us and I guess you can say that she has been happy being single and isn’t quite looking to be in a relationship, however we had agreed to "Date" each other though. She admitted that being back home, that it is weird not hanging out with me when she is home or getting back from work and what not. Now she said she was afraid to go through with just dating because she thought that I wouldn’t be able to just date. However I felt like there was more to it than just being worried about me. But I’m unsure. So I guess you can say that we are technically dating now. We have hung out only a couple times now but when we do it feels just like how it used to be before when we were together. And I feel she tries to hold herself back at times but then she can’t at times as well and just goes with it. However we still now kiss each other at times and it seems cool for the most part. But for me I’m starting to feel the feelings that I once had for this girl. I loved her very much and I still do love her. Now I feel stuck in my head and what to think. I want to be back with her but at the same time I have no clue on how she feels because its like mixed signs.
My friends have told me that I am in a good spot and that I shouldn’t be worrying because they feel that she might be having similar feelings as well but she may be afraid from it as well. I just don’t know what to do and how I might be able to go about to possibly getting her back. I need some help, advice, something. If some of y’all can help me that would be great. It’s just tha
It all started when I lent my friend a book. After reading some of it, she decided she didn’t like it and told me she’d bring it back the next day. It’s been three months now, and I still don’t have it back.
Recently we got into a fight and I have now decided, after seeing how immature she actually is, that I don’t want to be her friend anymore. My question is, how do I get my book (and pen!) back? I have one of her favorite books and I’d like to use that for leverage, but how can I eloquently go about doing this without looking like a b*tch?
i really love this boy and we were together for 8 months and we recently broke up well about three months ago and im still not over him, is there a way i can find a love spell to get him back to me. i cant talk to him because he hates me </3
he hates me bcuz his cousin is putting stuff in his head. and i just want a spell to make him really , realize how much i love him ….
Ok so just to give you a little background on my fiance and me. I an a 24-year-old single child and he is a 25-year-old twin from a large family. We began dating nearly three years ago and engaged in February of this year before he went overseas (hes in the Marine Corps). We were so in love, like no other love I have ever experienced before. He would do anything for me and I would him. Up until this summer.
I have lived in the same boring town my entire life with my parents since the university I chose was only 20 minutes away. I have always had higher expectations of getting out but never had the courage to do so. Well this past summer I went on an internship and was given the opportunity to get out of this close-minded town.
While on internship I met some really awesome friends and was able to experience being myself and having the freedom of being out of my parents house in a little conservative town. All of this excitement went to my head and I don’t make anytime to speak to him while he was in Iraq as I started to freak out about feeling like I was just "finding myself" so how could I be ready to be married in three months. I started freaking out. "Im an only child, how will I share my space with him….while we have been together for three years we haven’t had my opportunity to spend together seeing as we were only together over the holidays and when he would leave for and come back from iraq every year. (That’s right…he deployed 7 months out of every year). Have this long distance relationship was difficult but we make it work. But I freaked out. And I told him when he got back from Iraq in three months we we rent going to get married as we had planned because I didn’t want to spend married life apart for another year while I finished school and he possibly deployed again. I thought it would be a good idea to wait until we were able to spend more than two weeks at a time together to get married.
He took this as my feelings for him had changed which they didn’t at that time. But as I was unable to talk to him as much as he would have liked, and this in turn made him fear the worst and he began questioning me telling me he wanted the old me back. At the time that I was letting the freedom go to my head and prioritized that over him. The resentment went on like this all summer, he was an emotional wreck and so was I. We were communicating poorly and didn’t understand each others needs. (my experiencing freedom and finding myself. and him needed to speak to me just to keep sane and have a connection to the outside of war zones.)
When he came home from Iraq I resented HIM SO MUCH! I did and I admit it. I felt like he was jealous I was finally making other friends besides him. I felt like he was being selfish for wanting to take that away from me. I know now of course that that was not the case. Now I just hate myself for not realizing that my boy needed me and I was the one being selfish the entire time.
Now that he is back and i realized what a b***h I had been. He has been unsure if he can trust me, if I will treat him that way again and I completely understand why it is he feels this way. It makes me cry everytime I think about how awful I was. I know how lucky i am that he can find it in his heart to still love me. But I want him to trust me, I want him to know how much he means to me, I want him to know that I still want to get married. But when I try and talk about thses things he clams up and doesnt want to talk about it. I dont know what to do or say. What should I do? Btw, he is supposed to be moving to florida early next year and the plan was for me to move with him. he tells me he still loves me more any anything and he wants me to move with him as planned as long as I don’t "freak out" again. How do I get him comfortable with opening up and putting this wall down.
If you would like to comment on how "mean" or "childish" I acted you can save yourself the time. I obviously understand the way I acted is completely unacceptable and feel horrible about it. I do not need your comments to realizes this fact! Thanks 
And yes I want to be with him for the way he made me feel for the way we were before I torn his heart out. Not because I feel like I owe it to him or that he is my meal ticket out of the hellish town I live in. I will be receiving my degree in two weeks and will be able to move anywhere and get a job as a nurse. But I WANT to be with him. I love him, even though you wouldn’t believe it by the way i acted this summer. And no, I didn’t cheat on him, nor would I ever!
Ok, my wife and i have been together since 4-11-2007. We dated for three months before moving in with each other. Our relationship was great. We had sex three to four times a day. She got pregnant in August but later miscarried in September. We were both overwhelmed by grief that we decided to try again. By, November 26th she was pregnant again. We got married June 27, 2008 at a local court house. She gave birth on August 14, 2008 to our daughter Daisy.The last time we got together was November 12, 2008 and, unfortunately, her scaring made it very uncomfortable and no she associates sex with that pain. We did have a minor get together on Valentines Day, but that was only oral given by me, no receiving. Ever since then I have been put on the back burner so to speak. She has zero interest in me now and has recently told me that she loves me but is not in love with me. She says I act to childish and sees me as her child more than her husband or lover. I need help with this one. I love my wife dearly and don’t want to lose her any help would be greatly appreciated. Thanks.
I have tried to set up times for us to be together. She’s in the mode where she doesn’t want to be away from our baby any more than she has to. I am 23 and she is 27.
Three months ago, my wife and I got married. We were doing just fine. Until she started stripping. I wasn’t ok with it, but she started doing it with a friend. I was never ok with it, but I accepted it because I love my wife more than anything in this world. And it was her decision. But a little over two weeks ago, she had a break down after telling her dad what she was doing. She started blaming me for her stripping because of where I work. I dont make enough money where I work to comfortably support us. Which is why she started stripping. Before we got married, I had promised her I’d get a new job. But I kept putting it off. I had every intention of getting a new job, but I just put it off. And that happened a couple of times. This time, she left. She is staying at a friends house and has been ever since. Ive changed the way I do things. I use to be lazy, but Ive changed that. Im taking resposibility and doing things that I should have done a long time ago. I sold my truck, so 300$ a month goes back into our pockets. Ive been constantly been looking for a job. Got a couple different options coming up. one possibly with the school system. She wont come home because she is afraid I’ll quit searching for a job. And she doesnt trust me when I tell her that I promise to do everything I say im going to do. But after what Ive done, can you blame her? Saturday, she talked to me and said, she wanted an Anullment. But a couple hours later, she tells me that she is going to hold off on the anullement because she loves me. And I know she does. She said dont call or txt her. She’ll call me. She called me after 3 days. Today. She said she was calling to hear my voice and to see how the job search was going. ive been looking for a Fulltime job that pays more than minimum wage for over 2 weeks now. Its hard to find somthing like that. And believe me, ive been looking as hard as I can. I have a few connections and maybe able to get a job with the School System here as a Custodial/Maintanence engineer. I guess you could say, Janitor. Im in college but they are all online classes. Thank god. But i cant convince her to come home and let me show her how much ive changed. And im afraid that if I cant get this job fast, she’ll get tired and leave for good. I love my wife. I know ive made some mistakes in the past. But I am human. And i want to make up for all that. But How can I show her if she isnt home and I cant call her? Any suggestions?
My ex boyfriend broke up with me about three months ago. It was really hard. Now that we’re back at college, and I’ve actually seen him, it’s even harder. I want to get back with him. We broke up because we’re different and it just wasn’t going anywhere. I’ve seen him once and we actually had a pretty good conversation for about ten minutes and mentioned getting together (he also told me his new room number and said to come over anytime).
Advice? I’ve afraid of appearing desperate. Is it already too late (3 months)?
My ex is currently owes over three months in back child support. He just stopped paying and has had every excuse in the book. He is getting ready to go back in the army after ten years out. Will the army let him re-enlist and leave if they know he owes this money? I am currently awaiting documentation back from the court in regards to this matter, and was planning on taking it to an attorney. But now I am afraid he will be able to get out of town before I can do this. Do I need to make the army aware of this? Will it matter to them? It is a violation of a court order.
She has a order of protection on me, but I think she still cares. We were together for 2yrs. She said She was the best thing that ever happen to me. I was never abusive and threaten to her. Three months has gone by, I can’t email her ,text her or call, or go around her. Is ther anyhting I can do if I want her back?
