ok so me and my ex bf dated for six months and he was the sweetest,funniest guy ive ever met and hes kinda nerdy but i love that about him…we had some fights in the last few months but i thought we were okay..but then he sent me a text saying we cant go out anymore because he cant be in a relationship where he doesnt act like himself ..i still dont get what he means by that bcuz i loved his normal self and never asked him to change or nething and ppl told me that mayb he wanted more freedom or watever but he really did have plenty of that …then the day we came back from the weekend hes already flirting with another girl but she is a huge **** .and totally not his type and hes just going to get hurt but he says he likes her and everything but found out shes a big flirt but he wont give up on her …its been about 3 weeks since we broke up and ive started getting over him a little bit .i tried liking other guys but the guy i did like asked out sumone a week ago soo tht made me feel worse ..me and my ex are trying to be friends and it is really working but my feelings for him are more than friends and i want soo much to get back together with him and im not some desperate ex gf who just wants to get back with him ..i just still have a ton of feelings for him ..i tell everyone im over him and i guess i thought i would make myself believe it too but i cant ..everytime i see him in the hallway i wish i was there right next to him but then it really doesnt help bcuz hes always talking to girls now which never happened before he dated me..which confuses me alot bcuz he never was a flirt he was shy and sweet …im sorry about how long this is but im soo stressed and confused ..i act like im happy and carefree around my friends but at night idk im just kinda sad and depressed..(plus my dog died a week ago which has sumthing to deal with that) please can sumone tell me how to get him to start liking me again and dont say u cant make sumone like you..i just want tips on how to do it and please dont say to try the exbackguides because i dont want to buy that thing …PLEASE help me im tired of feeling like this
I’ve been with the love of my life saverrah for 11 months. But i’ve had feelings for since i was 13 nd now i’m 17. I know i’m young but i want to spend the rest of my life with her. We know each other so well. Get each other on so many things and have such an unbreakable bond. Situations and more situations happening led to her breaking up with me. I did something wrong but it was only to suprise her nd prove my love 2 her. I tlked to her today and she said she doesn’t love me nemore. Which how can someone fall out of love so quickly. She’s at her colleger orientation. So idk i wud love for us to start over our relationship but take things slowly and do things right. But she mite not want tht. Or i could start over completely and we can be friends and work towards being with her again. I think tht is wat she wud want. I dnt want to not have her in my life i’ll have to be friends with her and bury the true love tht resides in me until i can release it again till the day i can love her again. All i’m asking people is help wat should i do you will all probably say be her friend but when i become friends with her wat step should i take on to getting her back. PLease my b-day passed it wud be greatly appreciated to get many answers thank you.
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I’ve been with this girl for over 2 years now. We were in a relationship for about 8 months (on and off, she had broken up 4 times cuz she stopped liking me) and then totally broke up…she strted liking me again recently, about 4 months ago and we got really close. I had liked her all this time, even when she didnt like me. Though, we’re not in a relationship anymore cuz her religion doesnt allow her to. We dont have any physical relationship at all, not even holding hands, she says she feels guilty(we used to hug but no more than tht in our first month and after tht she told me off completely)
I am fine with everything and i love her from all my heart, and i always tell her tht and make her feel special. She told me about 4 months ago she likes me again and i told her i like her as a friend at tht time cuz i didnt want to be hurt again, but she showed me she has changed and so i gave in and told her i like her too. Eventhough we werent in a relationship, we were committed to each other (as in we talked and got mad if the other did something wrong)
Since summer has strted, i’vent seen her. I used to go to her work to see her but she told me she’s not comfortable seeing me during summer, she says "i dont know why, im just gay like tht, it was like this last summer too right? its not like i dont talk to u, its just like im not dying to see u" …so she told me to not go see her anymore.
I dont mind her talking to guys, but the problem is MOST of her friends r guys, and almost ALL of them like her the way i like her (not as MUCH as i love her of course). And she talks on the phone, texts, and talks on msn with them, even when they flirt with her. THe only good thing is she tells me almost everything they say or do. One of them is her coworker and he openly flirts with her and says he wishes she was his wife and says stuff like "i love u beautiful" etc.
The problem is, almost every guy she talks to strts liking her, and then she still reponds the way so tht the guy doesnt stop liking her, like she doesnt want to lose her fan following -_- this just really pisses me off but i cant complain cuz i’ve talked to her about it in the past and she just said "u complain way too much for yr age"
She never says i like u anymore or makes me feel special, and she just sounds soo uninterested when she talks to me on msn or on phone sometimes.
We’re noth 17, she’s turning 18 this month. I am mature enough to let it go if she doesnt like me anymore, it’ll be hard but i’ll have to do it. Plzzz tell me if im over reacting, and plzz dont tell me to talk to her about it and ask her if she likes me cuz whenever i do, she just gets mad at me for being too serious and getting her stressed.
Plzzz plzzzz help me out with this one!!!



