Heartbroken transsexual wonders if love will ever exist again…?
A few years after the start of my transition (MTF), I fell in love with a girl (a genetic born female)… HARD. (For those of you that don’t “get it”, that makes us both lesbian) We spent 2 1/2 years living together, but unresolved problems have caught up with us.
She now says she has fallen ‘out of love’ and doesn’t believe there is a future in store for ‘us’… and has moved out. Why do I feel like there will NEVER be another female out there who will fall in love with me? When a relationship ends with average, ‘non-transgender’, ‘straight’ people, it can hurt a lot.
When it ends for a transsexual, it seems like there will NEVER be another. At 43, I’m already bracing myself for dying lonely and unhappy.
Thanks, Lexie. Rest assured i did NOT give that thumb down. Not ready for anything yet.
As long as I can’t find a way to smile, I’m not very marketable or much fun to be around (less than i was already.
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