a while back i fell in love hardcore the kind of love where you can’t wait to see that person again but since then i have never felt like that again is it possible to feel this way again or is it a one time thing
i always told my husband i dont want people in our bedroom.. well against all i felt, we ended up with a married couple in our bed… the deal was,,, they are my friends and there will be no touching at all.. this is something i just needed to do to get him off my back… well… he touched her.. the hole time… i feel like i have been violated, and feel like i cant even look at him… he cant even handle me in bed, how could he possibly handle someone else in bed at the same time.. any help i would love.. i want to make this work with him, and how do i get him to see the real picture of something so serious that i do or dont want to happen,.. its like i have to prove everything, even if it means i get hurt in the end.. PLEASE HELP
IT WAS NOT like i said you cant touch.. these rules were made before anythign happened… they were just gonna be in the room at the same time.. and it was gonna just be a new one time thing.. it was when he moved me to be by her, that i had a problem… we were not supposed to be in touching range
She cheated for 3 months (not a 1 time thing) and she comes back crawling begging you. (you already file for divorce and custody of your kid) Would you be able to ever trust her again, would you forgive her? Would your mind be at peace when she’s not with you? I gave her everything and she didn’t pay a dime. (Mortgage, bills, loans etc) now she regrets leaving me. Would you be able to get on with your life together?
Me and my boyfriend had been together for 10 months when he left for missouri with my best friend to go through AIT for the national guards. When he left we were perfectly happy, and everything was fine. We both agreed we would stay together for the 3 months he would be gone, and both we ok with a short long distance. Two weeks into him being gone i open my e-mail to find a naked picture spread eagle over a bowling alley tiolet of my best friend sent to me from my boyfriends cell phone. i talked to him the next day about it because he only got his phone on certain nights depending on his physical trainings. i asked him instantly about the picture, and he had no idea what i was talking about. aparently when they have personal time they have to use the buddy system and decided because it was legal to drink on base, because they are both 18, to get drunk together, then meet up with others at the bowling alley. he says he doesnt remember sending me them, and i called everything off. he continues to call me and talks to my family as if nothing happened (none of my family know what he did), and tries to make me feel guilty for calling things off. he wants to go on a date when he gets back (Oct. 31st). ive told him repetedly that i want nothing to do with him, and he isnt listening at all. i was wondering if i should give him another chance, ignore him, or try to get him to back off by getting revenge and making him see how messed up what he did was?
i did talk to my friedn, and she started crying and apologizing to me about what happeend. i flat out asked her what happened and she said we had sex but its not like that between them, it was a one time thing, and it would never happen again.




