I got my ex-girlfriend back after she dumped me two years ago. I finally wrote her a very long love letter confessing my feelings for her. She called me up and we started talking, making plans to meet,etc and she was giving me another chance..until I blew it again!She dumped me again!! She is furious with me and never wants to talk to me again. She thinks im crazy and bi-polar. Its a mess. Here is what happen. This other girl who is my friend helped me write the love letter..well she was helping me on what to say to her during the week I was swooning her back into my life…well one night my ex and I had a talk .She told me she was intimate with this guy then,another guy. I got so mad i wrote an email to my friend saying my ex was a whore and tramp. I wanted revenge.I accidently sent the email to my ex! She read it and freaked! She dumped me again! I feel devastated. Two years of trying to get her back and my jealousies got the best of me. I am swooning her again. Any suggestions?


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After having my daughter me and my husband argued as we couldn’t adjust as he wanted to live the life he had before becoming a dad and our sex life was non existant. he is 42 and i’m 26 so there’s an age gap and he has a complex about it. Three years later and I had enough and I slept with an ex work colleague a few times which i’m now utterly ashamed off. I moved in with him but things didn’t work out and we broke up. i lived on my own for a year but started dating my husband again and we got back together. i told him that i was a tramp for doing what i did and that i was in a bad place then and wouldnt ever cheat again. we have been getting on fine and took my daughter to miami for a vacation. While on the beach in my bikini some guy wolf whistled and asked me if i needed any lotion rubbed on my body. i said no thanks but my hubby accused me of flirting with him. he cant get over it and he told me that he always imagines my old work colleague rolling around with me naked and it makes him sick. because he is a lot older he has a real complex and i love him and have made a real effort in bed. he banned me from wearing bikinis on vacation. how do i get him to get over this ? i want to be with him and want another baby with him. just because i have been naked with another guy on a moment of madness shouldn’t change anything ?

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I admitted to my husband, I slept with someone else and messed up last week after our five month marriage went sour. I told him I still loved him and wanted to save our marriage. He threw me out but then the next day relented and let me move back in on probation. I now have to report everything I do for the next month and sleep on old mattress in the back pantry as a punishment during that time. So I really am suffering, since its old and damp in there but I am willingly to do anything to save my marriage because I love my husband.

I have come to terms I cant fix things with my husband overnight, but whats bad our family is turned against me. His 17 year old brother who lives with us, no longer will talk to me and this morning said he doesn’t respect me at all anymore (it was his friend, who is 16, I slipped and cheated with). Before this ugly mess, me and my brother in law got along really well and were close friends. My mother in law thinks my husband should divorce me and leave me with nothing, and his cousin thinks I am a tramp.

The worst part is my stepdaughter. Shes 6 and she loved me like a mother (her own mother died two years back). My mother in law and brother in law are all feeding her crap that I am no good and she told me at dinner tonight I am icky for kissing another man. So really my family life is crumbling too pieces and I want everything back to normal. I am not ready to throw in the towel and be a 20 year old divorcee’. I am willingly to fight for my family and I need some good kind advice on what to do. Where do I start? How do I work things out?

DO NOT suggest therapy. I don’t believe therapy works and I believe its all a scam to make money off peoples problems. Advice is what I need.

And again no one needs to tell me I am too young to get married. I will report anyone who does and down thumb your answer.


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My husband’s ex called him out of the blue 6 months ago- she’s going through a nasty divorce. They have been divorced 20 years!!! We have been married 5.
They have one grown daughter, I have one teenage son who lives with us.
My husband divorced her because she cheated on him many times, and when he finally found out she threw him out of his own house-told police he was abusive (lie) and got a restraining order so she wouldn’t have to leave the home.
We had a happy marriage or so I thought. I loved him, was good wife, kept nice house and romance whenever he wanted because I love it too!

Long story short, found out he is leaving me to go back to her! They have been in touch by emails and texts. The house we live in was mine before marriage. I have been unemployed but looking for 2 years. I have no money of my own. I am devastated. When he leaves I will lose everything and have to file bankruptcy-I have spoken to lawyer. I have no choice. No money to pay anything.
At age 48 I will be living with my son at my parent’s house until I get work. I slaved for years to keep that house as a single mom. Now gone.

What would posess a man to go back to someone who did that to him? The first text I saw she said she would never hurt him again-thanks for the second chance! He never even told me he was unhappy in marriage! I ask and get no answers, no explanations. Nice guy. I told him if he was unhappy he should have come to me first to at least try!

The only thing I can logically think of is that she makes good money and he is tired of scrimping without my pay.
He always hated his father because he walked out when he was a baby and he is doing the same to me. In all honesty, why would he want that tramp that dumped him? She left him for a married man!

He will come to her rescue but leave me with nothing? Anyone ever been through this? I am a good, loving woman. I will not take him back-I have dignity, but part of me wants him to realize someday what a selfish jerk he was to do that to me. My son is crushed.


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I know it’s not that good, but who cares.
Doesn’t have to be perfect.
I just want some ideas to add (about clowns)
Y!A YOU MOST LIKELY WONT READ THIS BUT.. WHATEVER.

Clowns are comical performers. They are artists who pretend to be foolish and entertain their audience. Known for their outrageous costumes and makeup, clowns are normally criticized by their appearance. Clowns entertain folks by performing in odd or hilarious ways. Also, by doing many tricks, some even magic. Clowns can be seen at circuses, fairs, on the street, and on stages.

Types of clowns include European Whiteface, Straight Whiteface, Grotesque Whiteface, Auguste, Tramp/Hobo, and Character Clowns. The Whiteface clowns are oldest types of clowns in existence. They wore white make-up, and wore elegant costumes. They were also known for all of their physical stunts, like springing from one platform to another, or tumbling, etc. Auguste clowns became popular in around the 19th century. Their costumes consisted of colorful mismatched clothing, big red noses, and colorful wigs. These types of clowns use gags like the pie in the face, and using seltzer bottles. Also, these clowns tumble in their performance, and they tend, in their acts, be more physical. A tramp or a hobo clown wear dark make-up and usually impersonate fireman, policeman, and cowboys. These types of clowns were created by Otto Grielberg in the United States. Their performance includes miming, juggling, magic tricks, and acrobats.

Many people have an intense fear of clowns. This fear is called coulrophobia. This phobia is mostly common around children. Some reasons people mostly fear clowns is because of how the media portrays them- as evil. For example, the movie made in 1990 called ‘It,’ or when clowns, in their acts, perform violence, like hurting another clown, (of course it’s fake.)

How do you become a clown? You can become a clown by always being filled with joy, and maintaining you cool. You’ve got to know where you do your clowning acts, and the type of entertainment you want to show. You’ve also got to be enthusiastic, outgoing, and to not really care what people say about you. You’ve got to study the origins of clowns, and learn to apply make-up. You’ve got to learn the three main types of clowns, and learn each one’s performance, outfits, and personalities. You need to know the type of clown you are perspiring to be and the type of business you’d want to run. Clowns love being around people, they are humorous, but also professional. You need to know how much make-up is too much, and what kind of make-up you’ll be using. To learn to be a clown, you can go to clown school. You can read books about clowns. You can have a clown mentor, who will help you with developing your personality, or help choose which type of clown would suit you. They will develop new skits, jokes, etc. Clown mentors can also teach you about balloons, face painting, new skits, jokes, fun gags, and more. To start a clown business, you can start small and then rise gradually. Like, showing up at birthday parties or on the street, then

performing at fairs, or joining the circus. When you become a clown, you need to buy props. Possibly a Stage, balloons, cards, outfits, make-up, wigs, shoes, bikes, unicycles, juggling tools, and more. Becoming a clown is hard work.

Personalities of a clown can include, evil clowns, sad clowns, clumsy clowns, and tricksters. Evil clowns started in American pop culture. The Joker, from Batman was one of the first evil clowns in the media. Sad clowns usually paint a frown on their face, and a tear coming from their eyes. These clowns look depressed. Clumsy clowns might trip and fall, stumble around on purpose. They also might put themselves in painful situations. Tricksters are tricky clowns. They can pull pranks on you, perform magic tricks, and do crazy things.


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