Well I came home from work early caught two girls in my house doing my dishes with my man. I have no idea who they are. I was really calm but I told him to pack his stuff and leave. We both still love each other but he keeps saying its for the best. it is like he is trying to prove he can make it on his own or trying to find himself who know. Anyways I want him back I love him to death and miss him that was just really jacked up of him.
ok well i dated this girl she was the first girl ive dated who is the first girl ive ever loved or opened up to and i cant get over her we didnt talk for 2 weeks started talking again still those two weeks i was missing her terribly and ive tryed moving on but ill like another girl then all the sudden stop and rewant my ex again or ill try to find simliar things in the two girls and if she doesnt match my ex i lose her so i just want to know if i date another girl whats the chances ill love again and if i do whats the chances ill love that girl like i did my first love and will i ever forget my first love? i know id be with my first love forever if that were possible but to me it doesnt seem realistic that i can move on and get over her and then get a new girl who ill enjoy as much and even love at all i didnt know what love was til my ex so help please!
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i’m trying to get sole custody of my 7 year old daughter b/c she came home on 12-3-09 and told me he had slapped her in the back of the head (where she had 3 staples closing a cut she received the week before from a fall) b/c she didn’t stick with the lie he’d made up for her to miss school. he was supposed to drive her to school that morning but for whatever reason, decided that I should pick her up on my way home from work (he does this all the time) so he told me she hit her head on a car door frame and couldn’t go to school. when I asked my daughter about this, she told me that never happened and when her dad heard her say this, he disconnected our phone call. when I picked my daughter up from his house a few minutes later, she told me after he hung up-he yelled at her "why did you lie to your mom?" then hit her on the back of the head where her staples are then asked her "does your head hurt now?" I called CPS and filed a report but b/c I’m the ex-wife, they assumed I was doing this just b/c I was pissed at him and closed the case. I filed a complaint against the caseworker in because she NEVER called me to discuss anything and this was even after several phone calls were made to her office and me speaking to her superviser twice. after this incident, my ex showed up at our daughter’s school on a day that I TOLD him she was staying hom sick. he showed up to start a fight w/me when I dropped off my other two girls (NOT HIS KIDS). when I got to the school, I saw him on the front porch so I refused to get out of the car b/c things would just escalate so I sent my two girls into the school-my ex ended up harrassing my 10 year old daughter by trying to block her path twice and chasing her down a hallway until a staff member stopped him and made him leave.
I got an order of protection that lasted a month but the court overturned it b/c I couldn’t prove the abuse against our daughter and they wouldn’t interview her.
we had a hearing on friday to change custody where I requested the court interview our daughter b/c without the interview, a fair ruling could not be made. my ex got angry in open court,refusing our daughter’s interview but the judge saw this and decided to order the interview anyways. he then allowed my ex to keep our daughter for 2 days before the interview and told my ex he would be the one taking her to it!! this is all b/c he is listed as the custodial parent in our decree (a mistake on my part-he’s never truly been a custodial parent-I do everything for her medically and educationally).
I am worried my ex won’t show up for this interview today b/c it could incrimenate him. what happens if he doesn’t show up with her and she misses her interview?!! we don’t have another court date until 3-11-10
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I was emotionally depressed which led to me being verbally abusive to my ex, and not providing financially like i should have. We have two girls, have been split up for a year and divorced for 6 months. I have been going to therapy for 9 months now for depression. I now feel so much happier than ive ever been, but i get upset knowing how happy my wife would be if we were still together. We talk on a constant basis, she has fallen out of love with me to some degree, though she has agreed to date, but she has made clear that she does not want anything serious right now also wants me to know she will treat me as if im anyother man. Here is the big But, she says she doesnt know if she will ever be able to trust that things will be different and that i can overcome my issues. She has admitted that in the past few months i have seemed a lot happier and more of the person she fell in love with, but she still doesnt know if she could ever trust again. So my question is… is it possible??????
Forgot to tell we were married for 7years together for 8.



