He has been on disbility for over a year and has now just went to unemployment. He used to have values and work hard now he’s just a bum and doesnt want to do anyhting but sit at home and not help with anything while im at work. He does watch our daughter and he is a wonderful dad. I just can’t take his new outlook on life. He would be happy to be "Mr. Stay at home Mom" now, when before he loved being the provider. I want him to get motivated and go back to work. He is more than well and able now but just slacks off because he figures since he makes just as much sitting on his a$$ why work. It’s taking a toll on our relationship, arguing over everything it seems like. He’s living in a dream world. I dunno, he’s definately turning into someone i don’t know anymore. Please help! Any advice would be wonderful!
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I recently broke up with female who has a negative attitude towards life and it wasn’t a healthy relationship for me to stay in. She has two children and lives in a house the she and her soon to be “ex” husband bought a year ago. Also, she quit her job even though I told her not to, and is now struggeling with $$ because unemployment rejected her claim for benefits (she quites). Her only income is a part time job. Her soon to be “ex” husband” does not want to pay for the bills they have together, and only pays child support when he wants to. I have my own place. However, I did stay at her house from time to time. We started arguing a lot towards the end mainly because she’s never happy and that mindset was on a daily basis. She and her own children admitted this to me that she has always been like that. My biggest problem was more so her financial situation. A few weeks ago an argument started because she believed I never helped her out with any of the bills. My view was that the bills where created by her and the (ex) husband and should be handled by themselves or even consider suing him for that. But she claimed, because I stayed at her house I should of payed the light, water, and so on. True, I do stay there, however, I have my own place (bills), and if it came down to it, I could of simply just visit her if that was the case. Besides, I offered for her to spend QT at my place but towards the end she insisted of me staying at her house. A few months back she called me cheap because I eased on my spending habits when we were going out to eat/dance/Ect. I always calculated on how much things cost… In any event, the last few months we have been on/off because she was so negative about everything. Even though I took her to places such as parks, different restaurants, movies, ect. We really had good/great times together, but the minute we got home or we left the place, I felt her negative energy taking over the relationship. It got to the point that she truly believed that my ex put a spell on her and decided to see some witch () who claimed that the reason our relationship didn’t workout was because my ex who put a spell on us… (rolling my eyes) so the witch gave her some water mixed with green/smelly stuff. One night when we took a shower she quickly threw some of that green/smelly stuff on me. My body and the entire freaking bathroom stunk (lol). This past Tuesday she broke it off with me because of a silly argument that she couldn’t get ahold of me on the cellphone. Now, here is the problem. I have been trying to let go (break up) with her for the last couple of weeks, maybe more… and every time I think I am able to let go… I get sucked back into her. It’s like something is holding me back from moving forwards in life and end up back right with her. I really thought that it was for good…. but for two days straight I received blocked calls but nobody said anything. This was going on up until yesterday evening she told me in a very angry tone that she cleaned her house and noticed a few movies missing (which she gave to me) and for me to mail them back to her, and wished me good luck going back with my ex… as I stated this to her to make sure she would back off once and for all. She attempted to call me back a few more times blocked but I refused to pick up. I haven’t received anymore calls since than. Even though I only believe in one higher being (GOD), I begin to think that this nut basket actually put some crazy vodoo/witch craft on me…. what is your take on this…….?? Thanks!
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I recently broke up with female who has a negative attitude towards life and it wasn’t a healthy relationship for me to stay in. She has two children and lives in a house the she and her soon to be “ex” husband bought a year ago. Also, she quit her job even though I told her not to, and is now struggeling with $$ because unemployment rejected her claim for benefits (she quites). Her only income is a part time job. Her soon to be “ex” husband” does not want to pay for the bills they have together, and only pays child support when he wants to. I have my own place. However, I did stay at her house from time to time. We started arguing a lot towards the end mainly because she’s never happy and that mindset was on a daily basis. She and her own children admitted this to me that she has always been like that. My biggest problem was more so her financial situation. A few weeks ago an argument started because she believed I never helped her out with any of the bills. My view was that the bills where created by her and the (ex) husband and should be handled by themselves or even consider suing him for that. But she claimed, because I stayed at her house I should of payed the light, water, and so on. True, I do stay there, however, I have my own place (bills), and if it came down to it, I could of simply just visit her if that was the case. Besides, I offered for her to spend QT at my place but towards the end she insisted of me staying at her house. A few months back she called me cheap because I eased on my spending habits when we were going out to eat/dance/Ect. I always calculated on how much things cost… In any event, the last few months we have been on/off because she was so negative about everything. Even though I took her to places such as parks, different restaurants, movies, ect. We really had good/great times together, but the minute we got home or we left the place, I felt her negative energy taking over the relationship. It got to the point that she truly believed that my ex put a spell on her and decided to see some witch () who claimed that the reason our relationship didn’t workout was because my ex who put a spell on us… (rolling my eyes) so the witch gave her some water mixed with green/smelly stuff. One night when we took a shower she quickly threw some of that green/smelly stuff on me. My body and the entire freaking bathroom stunk (lol). This past Tuesday she broke it off with me because of a silly argument that she couldn’t get ahold of me on the cellphone. Now, here is the problem. I have been trying to let go (break up) with her for the last couple of weeks, maybe more… and every time I think I am able to let go… I get sucked back into her. It’s like something is holding me back from moving forwards in life and end up back right with her. I really thought that it was for good…. but for two days straight I received blocked calls but nobody said anything. This was going on up until yesterday evening she told me in a very angry tone that she cleaned her house and noticed a few movies missing (which she gave to me) and for me to mail them back to her, and wished me good luck going back with my ex… as I stated this to her to make sure she would back off once and for all. She attempted to call me back a few more times blocked but I refused to pick up. I haven’t received anymore calls since than. Even though I only believe in one higher being (GOD), I begin to think that this nut basket actually put some crazy vodoo/witch craft on me…. what is your take on this…….?? Thanks!
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