Bonus question: If yes, do you have any non-violent/lethal suggestions? Preferably legal, non-violent/lethal suggestions.
Rachel – No, no pet bunny. She does have a bird though… >:)

And I will message you, but not tonight. My laptop is on the verge of battery death, and I can’t go grab the charger or turn my desktop on without waking my parents up. Tomorrow.
Thank you, everyone. Especially you, (((Rachel)))



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I broke up with him because I just felt like he didn’t want to be bothered. I wasn’t sure if I should have but idk. When I brought this up to him (when I was only on the verge of breaking up with him) he said he didnt mean to act that way and i know he had priorities that should always come before a girl. I honestly can understand where he is coming from because I would never put a boy first on my list unless he was dying or we were "in love" or something but at least I gave him some of my time.
After I broke up with him my friend called him and asked him all types of stuff about our break up. (I know it wasnt very mature of me to have her do that but I knew he would tell her.) So anyways this is how the converstaion went:
My friend: What happened with you and?
Him: She dumped me. (He said it quick and kind of with attitude)
My friend: Why?
-Idk. I didnt even bother to ask. I was tired.
-Oh do you think yall are gonna get back together this summer?
-Idk. Maybe. No. I dont have enough time for gf. I have (listed all of his activities and then was like…) Im plannin on messin around anyways.(Okay idk if he was saying this because he was angry or what but it tore me up!)
-What about when school starts again?
-yea. maybe. idk. How do u know I wont go into the year with a gf already?! (He was rude about it. 4real!)
(then she pops the question)
-Do you still like her?
(Okay i coulda swore he said no. But she claims he said yeah. I doubt it. and that was the end of the conversation)
First I was convinced that I didnt need him but after sitting back and taking a look back at everything that happened (no im not saying that i need him) I realize how childish I was. Plus I didnt even know him that well. Okay I know thats not the best way to start a relationship but we met in school like everyone else I’ve ever dated. I just didnt know him that well to expect so much out of him (like deep conversations about life, affection, and a whole lotta stuff that i wasnt gonna get right off the bat). But thats the thing for some strange, unknown reason I still like him. He told me the things he was going through at home and pretty much with his life and honestly I wanted to cry for him. It was so sad. And sometimes I sit and think maybe he was just going through alot and wasnt really worried about a gf..maybe it was just his hormones or something kickin in. Or maybe he just didnt trust me enough to open up to me, which is also understandable. I dont plan on goin back out with him or anything but i dont want him dating anyone…esp someone i know. Is that weird? Maybe it’s just because I feel like the guys that have tried to tlk to me are not of my interest u know? they dont fit me. But yeah could you please tell me somethin.


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sooo me and my ex have been broken up for about 2 1/2 months now, but i can honestly say she was my first love, and ive had plenty of girlfriends. Shes smart, beautiful, she goes to church, she doesnt drink or smoke, shes a virgin still, just like me:) her ex bf became available not long after and they are on the verge of dating again. The reason they are broke up in the first place is because he left her because she wouldnt have sex with him, so he broke up with her for a girl that would(although during the relationship, she told me that this boy was her first love). Now he wants to come back now that she is single, and shes basically letting him back. the weird thing is, this kid recently got expelled from school for dealing, and he does drugs and drinks and hes just not the right girl for her. her parents dont even like him, and didnt allow them to see each other the first time they dated, and i dont see this fact changing after the expulsion lol.

Me and my ex dont talk to much, i try to keep my space from her. Ive been talking to her recently on AIM tho, and she talks about how shes stressed about the fact that this kid is expelled and since her parents dont like him, she cant really see him at all, and when i asked why shes putting herself through this, even after what he did, and she said that "no matter what he did to me, he was my first love and he deserves a second chance". I guess i can see why shes saying that, considering she hurt me really badly and id take her back. I just dont know how to go about this and i guess i need some advise. Im seeing this other girl, and shes really great, but i dont feel the same way as i did for my ex, and i no i want my ex back, and i feel like id have a good chance if this boy wasnt in the picture, but he is and i dont know what to do. Some additional info here, im 18 and shes 16(17 in december), we were really into each other and a great couple, but in the summer when it became hard to see each other because of work, it went downhill. i really do want her back and if not, i hope she gets whats best for her.After all, she was my first love:(

-what should i say when we talk about this on IM?
-should i call her?
-if i see her, how should i act?
-is there any way i can get her back?
-Should i even bother lol?

any advice is greatly appreciated, please be as detailed as possible :)


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In a ten year relationship the spark has begun to die and is on the verge of ending. Love is still felt between the two but the passion is waning. Just wondering if anyone has any ideas that could help to reignite that spark and help to renew the love that is already there. Something to help to put her name back on his mind and vice versa.


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My boyfriend had the biggest fight of our relationship 3 days ago. We’re still together but there is so much distance between us. I feel like we are on the verge of breaking up but we both love each other so much. We both said stuff to each other that neither of us meant and now it haunts the both of us. How can we recover? Thank you…


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