Why do so many people here like the idea of a girl getting revenge on her ex-boyfriend more than the idea of a guy getting revenge on his ex-girlfriend?

And for those of you women who say the guy should just move on, if you yourself would happily take revenge on an ex-boyfriend if you had the chance, then why do you think the guy shouldn’t get to enjoy that same kind of revenge that you want to enjoy?

I’ve seen YA! questions here where both boys and girls post questions about getting revenge on their exes and I’ve noticed in the replies that more people seem to be in favor of the girl getting revenge on the ex-boyfriend, yet when it comes to the guy getting revenge on his ex-girlfriend, most of them say grow up and move on. Why are so many people here in so much favor of the girl getting revenge but not the other way around? Do these people consider women to generally be less emotionally stable than men and therefore think it’s justified?


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My ex and I broke up because I chose to. Bad mistake as I always say and I hurt him really badly. I asked for him to forgive me and he told me he can’t be with me now. He proposed before and I said no since im still at college and he was naked. He always said I’m his soulmate and he’ll always love me. He said he still love me but he is still mad and need time to think through it. He said hes not sure if he see me in his future and this hurt so much! I kept calling him and he said, ‘Do you want me back? If you do, stop calling me as much and let me miss you’. He said to my friend hes not sure and he need to think through it. He also said that to me his career is no.1 now. He used to say I’m his no.1…

I send him love poems each day telling him if I’ll be with him if anything happen. He NEVER reply now when I sms him so I asked him if these messages are making him angry and he said, ‘Of course not, I spent 1 year trying to make you feel like this (love him), of course im happy’.

He hasn’t replied back or spoke to me for a few days.. Do you think theres hope??? A friend said to me, ‘Hes prob just sweatin u’.
and also, how long did you wait for your ex to ever return or how long did it take for you to forgive your ex???


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Hiya

Right Well Its A Little Complicated. . .

My Ex Bf Broke Up With Me A Week And A Half Ago Because Of College And Apparently He Was Growing Apart From Me. I REALLY Loved/Love Him And He Knew That. He Ended It After 9 Months On MSN :( He Said He Couldn’t Bear Doing It To My Face. Now He’s Saying We Can’t Be Friends Because It Will Be Too Uncomfortable.

I’ve Tried To Get Him Back But He Doesnt Want Me. I Didnt Talk To Him And Vice Versa For A Couple Of Days But Two Days Ago He Popped Up On Msn And Started Saying He Was Horny Etc, He Needs Sex Even If Its Just One Night Etc, I Know I Shouldnt Of But I Said Similar Things Back To Him. I Was Happy For A Day After That Because I Really Love Him And Thought That He Might Want To See Me, Even If It Is Just For Sex :(

Anyway Last Night He Started Talking Again But Was Telling Me About This New Girl In College That He Really Really Likes And Is Really Fit And That They Have So Much In Common, He Said He Is Going To Try And Get With Her. Then He Went On About All The Fit College Girls And How Theres So Many Temptations :(

Im So Upset. I Love Him More Than Anything In The Whole World And I Really Need Him Back. I Can’t Believe How Quickly He Found Someone Else :(

Help Please, What Do I Do, Whats Your Opinion?

Thanks
Also Whilst Saying What He Would Do To A Girl He Randomly Said " Did You Know That My Friend And His Ex Fooled Around After They Split?" Out Of The Blue.

He’s Giving Me Mixed Signals


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My ex-wife and I are still having sex after getting divorced about 2 years ago. We were married about 7 years and did not have any kids; however, we share custody of our dog. We are still having sex about 1-3 times a month. The sex is amazing. Pretty much every time we get together to exchange him we end up tearing off each others cloths. It’s not unusual for her to show up at my place after a night on the town ready to have sex and vice versa. Is this normal?


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