Breakup pain slowing down?

me and my gf lost our virginity to each other. it took 2 years to accomplish that. we broke up 2 months after sex and now 5 months later she has a new bf and having sex with him after a month. this bothers me obviously because A) she was really like modest wen we went out and now shes going so fast B) i dont feel she respected the whole sex thing that much and now i kinda feel bad i lost it to her and C) shes gets a new love before me. now i feel like im in competition or something. i dont understand why shes changed so much and y i perceive her as having so little respect. some advice to soothe my mind plz. thank you



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So i had a boyfriend…but we broke up on december 18th and im heart broken. him and i dated for a year and from my eyes.. we were the perfect couple….well at least to me. we would have sleepovers at my house and hang out all the time.. and if we werent together we were texting or on the phone or something. basically we were completely in love. i lost my virginity to him- which now i regret..so much and it hurts a lot. i treated him like he was part of my family and did everythign i could to make him happy. in our relationship we of course had our problems though..about 5 months into our relationship he cheated on me when he was drunk….and then denied it to me.. when i knew it was true because the girl told me herself..so we went on a break for a while.. about 3 weeks later(still on our break) i hung out with his best friend and he kissed me..of course my boyfriend found out and got back at me and kissed some girl while he was drunk (which i found out when we were breaking up) :( . so 5 months into our relationship we had this whole circle of jealously and revenge and it was bad. after all those things happened we became really close. like we acted like a married couple and everything was so great. then on december 18th he was over at my house and he told me that "he wasnt happy anymore..he said that he still loves me a lot but the love he had for me before wasnt as strong. basically he said he was sick of me. i was in tears and so sad.. it was the worst feeling ever hearing that. i was/am completely in love with him :( . he was telling me how he was a horrible boyfriend our whole relationship and that he cheated on me and that he would lie to me all the time of what he was doing" before he left he said "we’ll wait till our one year anniversay (which was a week late) and see if his feelings change for me" and i said okay and he left. after he left .. i was sitting in my room and it just didnt feel right so i caleld him and just ended it then… its almost been a month later and he still texts me almost everyday (sometimes i respond) he wants to be good friends with me because he "still loves me a lot .. he just isnt a good boyfriend" <— he said. but idk what to do! like i really wanna always respond and talk to him because i miss him so much :( like all our old times and everything. he was my life and now its like nothing is right. any ideas of what to do? should i try getting over him.. idk help :(



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My ex boyfriend and I decided to be friends after our break-up, our break-up was an unresolved fight (his fault.) Know a couple months later, he admits that he didnt have patience when we were dating (no I dont know what he means by "paitence")! He always talks to me about whatever is on his mind, we are both are really open with eachother and trust eachother very much. We talk on the phone for hours! I feel that he is the closest to me out of all of the guys I know. I believe that he sees me the closest friend of the girls he knows. I just am curious on wether he still likes me & I dont know why I still like him! He tells me he is really is glad were just friends. And I really love what we have developed, Im afraid if we start dating again we will ruin it. Another thing is he constantly brings up sex in conversation. He knows Im a virgin, but he is not, which I know. This doesnt stop him from talking about it tho. AND He says when I loose my virginity he wants to know about it!


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Okay, so I’ve been dating this guy for a year and 7 months. It started out AMAZING but lately, the spark has been dying for me. Than I started texting one of my old guy friends and we’ve been talking for about 2 weeks NON STOP. Even when we TEXT I get butterflys. He calls me "baby" and "babe" and he says he loves me but I don’t know in what kind of way. I do all those things to him too BTW. Anyways, I LOVE my boyfriend to death, but like I said, he’s just boring now. What should I do?
I do love my boyfriend HONESTLY. I lost my virginity to him.
and btw, i never dated the guy i’m texting.


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So, ive been with my boyfriend for about 2 years.
about a year ago we both cheated on each other.
and I didnt tell him all the details and he thinks all i do is lie.
we got over the cheating thing because we both really like each other.
he found out more details about something that happened over a year ago and he dumped me because he cant trust me. (we have never had sex with other people, and we both lost our virginity’s to each other) He wont even take me back.
he just says he has no trust for me.
how can i get him back? he said that everything i say, ive said before, (about changing) i told him im serious this time and he doesnt believe it.
help please


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