You wake up one day and you are madly in love. You’re cuddling on the couch, doing things together, feeding each other chocolate covered strawberries, talking about your future together.
And that’s when the run away freight train runs through your life. You get the “It’s-Not-You, It’s-Me” talk. Now you’re confused, hurt and trying to figure out “Where Did That Come From?”
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Breaking up and moving on after a breakup may be one of the hardest things that ever happens to you. Your ego and heart can get beat up real bad. If you could just see the break up coming, you might be able to handle it better.
We have all heard that hindsight is 20/20. Don’t wait for hindsight, it may be to late by then. There are Warning Signs Your Relationship May Be In Trouble. Talk to each other don’t just think the problem will go away.
Top Five Warning Signs Your Relationship May Be In Trouble
1. Starting fights.
You don’t have to be in 100 percent agreement with your partner all the time. Disagreement, discussion and communication can actually be good for your relationship. If you find that your partner has become quarrelsome over small-meaningless things like your clothes or choice of restaurant, that more than likely is a warning sign that he/she may be looking for an excuse to get out of the relationship.
2. Forgetting How To Use The Phone.
Your phone would ring every day with your sweetheart calling just to say, “I love you” or wanting to make plans. Now he/she doesn’t even call when he/she is running three hours late. It may be apparent to some, but going from speed dial to a out of use number is a pretty good indicator that your relationship may be in the toilet.
3. Changing their appearance.
A big change in appearance may be a sign that your partner is looking elsewhere. Whether they’ve completely redone their hair style, lost 40 pounds or gone from a plain brunette to a Barbie Doll blond, major changes should be remembered. Of course, there’s nothing wrong with trying to look nice for you if that is what it is.
4. Criticizing.
If your sweetheart isn’t into you anymore, don’t be surprised if he/she becomes intolerant of everything, from the way you drive the car to the way you brush your hair. Constant disapproval and bickering is a warning sign that you’re about to go your separate ways.
5. Losing sexual interest.
A healthy sex life is good for a relationship. If your partner is becoming more sexually reserved, you need to find out what the issue is. It’s natural to have less sex as you settle into each other and are comfortable together, but weeks or months between sexual contact cause problems.
Now that you recognize these warning signs, don’t fear. If your partner has some of these traits, it doesn’t always mean the relationship is over. It’s usually a combination of signs and not just one of them that predicts a breakup.
If you’re concerned that your partner is wanting to get out, the most important thing you can do is sit down and discuss the problem in an honest and open manner. It’s called communication. Talk to each other don’t just think the problem will go away.
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Whatever your doubts and concerns, there’s one thing that make make or end the relationship: your desire to work on the relationship together. If you’re not both pledged to improving your relationship together, there’s not much hope that it will work out or last.
If you have already drifted apart, and the relationship breakup is a fact, you should know that there ARE ways of getting back together after a break up.
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