A guy had been pursuing me heavily on a chat forum. He wanted to date me etc etc. I like him as a person, but was not sure online dating was a smart move since we didn’t live close by. To put him out of his misery, i went on cam and we saw each other. The next day he acts distant on instant messenger. Then when I avoid him in the chat forum he accuses me of being distant. Then he tells me he has many flirting friends and is swooning after a girl. So, I congratulate him and generally avoid him again in the forum. He then private messages me saying I am avoiding him again. I remind him politely, without giving away my feelings, that he likes someone else. He tells me she is not his gf. I’m at a loss. Anyways, I lost my faith in him. Not really into the player sort, So, I flirted with other people to make him know Im over him. He writes back that I should write him tomorrow. Is this guy an ass or having second thoughts about telling me he’s a flirt and wants a second chance?
Any thoughts?
I was seriously against online dating nonsense, but he seemed very honorable at first. Now i think he’s a waste of time. Am I wrong?
I’m divorced and so, I put this in the divorced section, because I don’t want replies from young people.
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About 3 days ago…we met up so I can get back the last of my things, since I was in the area. We barely spoke…he told me he was suprised I came. He looked really pissed off that he even had to see me. I really don’t get this when just two weeks ago he was saying that we should spend new years together. And I actually did want to as well and told him that.
After meeting, I sent him a text the next day since I couldn’t stop thinking about him…. I asked him to talk face to face. And he replied….we have to say no to each other..which means meeting would just be a waste of time and to take care of myself. I just got left wondering WTH!
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