I’d rather not hear any til death do you part stuff…I already know that.
Here is the kicker – He doesn’t hit me, or cheat, drink too much or anything like that. I am just very unhappy and he is a total workaholic and I don’t feel like I am getting "my money’s worth" so to speak. I love him, but we have a daughter that needs him too and he just is NOT available. Work takes priority over everything, then hobbies, then his personal time. We come last.
This has been going on for 3 years….we have little sex and it is always on his terms, i.e. very quick and unfulfilling and he gets up right away and runs back to his computer. NO romance, no real dialogue and he is always angry…not at me, just in general and he takes it out on me and our daughter. I’m at my wits end and have come to realise I am wasting my time, I can do better and he seems to need to be single so he isn’t pressured to spend time with any family. I guess I wonder if I moved out for a while, if he would even notice
Yes, we’ve talked repeatedly, yes, we’ve gone to counseling, I have tried everything.
I also work full time and am the sole caretaker for home and our child.
I also might add that he does not have a drivers license due to stupid things before I met him…so I have to drive evryone to/from where they need to go.
And the last time I talked to him about seperating he had no clue why, and asked me if I was interested in someone else!?! Completely clueless!
I don’t want to leave and this is upsetting, but i’m kindof freaking out. I can live like this, sure. But who would want to?
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THIS IS MY STORY.
SO MY NOW EX BOYFRIEND AND I ARE NOT COMMUNICATING.
WE DO USUALLY ON MYSPACE BUT I HAVEN’T TALKED TO HIM
SINCE FRIDAY. I FEEL VERY VERY SAD BECUZ THIS GUY IS THE ONE
FOR ME. I TRY TO TALK TO OTHER GUYS, BUT I JUST FEEL
ANNOYED BECAUSE IM WASTING MY TIME WHEN IN ALL REALITY
I JUST WANT TO BE WITH MY EX. SOOO I HAVENT SEEN HIM FOR A
MONTH AND I AM NOT PLANNING TO TXT HIM OR MESSAGE HIM
THROUGH MYSPACE FOR AT LEAST THIS WEEK TO SEE WHAT HAPPENS.
I WANT HIM TO FEEL LIKE I AM GIVING HIM SPACE
SINCE I USED TO MESSAGE HIM EVERYDAY ON MYSPACE.
WHAT DOES IT MEAN WHEN HE HAS HIS DEFAULT PICTURE
AS ON OF THE PICTURES I TOOK OF HIM?
WHAT SHOULD I DO TO HAVE HIM TXT ME AND WORRY
ABOUT ME? I REALLY NEED UR HELP
I MISS HIM SO MUCH AND HE LOVES ME ALOT
BUT ITS JUST HIS EGO IS NOT LETTING HIM BE
HAPPY. PLEASE HELP
Sorry my capz was on.
We broke up because he
thought i was talking to some other
gut but in all reality, I was not. I told him
time and time again that he was the only one
for me. Everything was perfect but all of a sudden everything changed.
so what does it mean when he puts my
picture, that I took of him as his default?
How long should I give him space?
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I gotta question…Im a soldier in the army at Ft.Drum NY. Im an infanrtyman here so I pretty much do most of the combat operations. Im leaving for Iraq soon for round 2 and Im trying to figure out if I should keep pursuing a girlfriend/wife or am I wasting my time. I came back to nobody last time and it was the most miserable Ive ever been and I promised myself I wouldnt come back to nobody again. Its hard enough trying to find a girl that wants something lasting in my profession and Ive never been a "wham bam thank ya mam" kinda guy. I want someone to grow old with and my training and this going to war constantly thing is killing any chance of romance as far as I can see. So someone tell me; am I wasting my time trying to be a soldier while looking for romance?
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You say u don’t but I they say you do
I don’t know who to believe
I don’t know what to do
I want to love you
But I want to hate you
I want to think they are all wrong
And that you are perfect
Your strong hot nice and fun to be with
But what I didn’t know is I got you all wrong
You’re strong but not strong enough
Your hot but not hot enough
You’re nice but only when you want something
And you’re fun but not fun enough for me
What I thought was the perfect guy is nothing more than your normal every day man whore
I hope I don’t feel for you any more
Your kisses are sweet
But never sweet enough
To cover
The pain you have caused me
You must not feel for me
Because you no longer adore me
It was a one day thing
I hope your girlfriend understands
I’m glad its over
Cuz you don’t deserve me
you don’t deserve some one who loved you so truly and pure
Now I have to find a cure to mend my broken heart
There are many fish in the sea
But you are no longer for me
So please let me be
We can still be friends
But I need some time to think
I need some time to know
If I should ever forgive you for making my heart shrink
I just need some time to grow
Maybe we can try it again
Like you said every one deserves a second chance
But I will never forget when
Our hearts connected our lips touched and I was in love
My heart did a dance
It was young romance
Now all I need is a little shove
To get back to the now
The present were you have a girlfriend
And I have no one
Now I will have to allow
The time for my heart to comprehend
The changes of everything to become undone
I’m crushed
But I don’t expect you to care
ummm well i didn’t finish it yet but i wanna know if its good or if im just wasting my time cuz it sucks
hey i just wanted to say im 13 soo yea this is what i wrote and how i felt or still feel about a guy i had a one day relationships with
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My Girlfriend & I have been together for almost a year now & things were (up until recently) going really great. Just yesterday when we had been spending some quality time together, she tells me that she loves me, but she does not want to get into a serious relationship anymore (I understand where she’s coming from because she’s a free-spirited, fun-loving person that can’t be tied down to commitments & I for one will never keep her like a prisoner or some sort of prize. I also know that she’s been through relationships before that really changed her mindset about taking that route or ever finding that perfect love – a guy who will appreciate her & love her for who she is – ever again).
She then says to me that she would only be wasting my time & end up hurting me, so it’s best that we remain good friends. I don’t know if she’s doing this just to protect me, but I don’t believe that she would be wasting my time (as she put it). I realize that maybe she just needed space to think for a while (especially with the stress she had during the past week), but I love her with all of my heart & soul. I have mentioned to her that if ever she needed anything, I will be there for her (& I have done so already, never expecting anything in return because just being able to be there for her makes me happy – she appreciates that & it only makes her love me even more).
I don’t know why she’s changed her mind about us (because I know I haven’t done anything wrong & I know she isn’t anyone else), but it’s not going to change the way I feel about her & it’s not going to stop me from caring. I love her, but I don’t want to lose her.
Is this all it’s ever going to be? Are we nothing more than friends?
I made that mistake once before (& I nearly lost her), I promise that I will do whatever it takes to make sure it doesn’t happen again.
Yes, I AM prepared to wait for her & I know that she needs a little space to breathe, especially after what she’s been through last week (I have thought about everything & I know what I want. I love & adore her & I will be here for her no matter what).
What can I do or say to reassure her of this?
I know that I shouldn’t be asking for too much & I don’t mind our relationship being open-ended with no pressure, no expectations & not being tied down or feeling like a prisoner. I just don’t want to lose her by messing up, that’s all.
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