My and my ex where together for like 3 years when we got together she had a 3 year old son and is 8 now. By the time of the break up he was calling me his step dad, and the kid really loves me. Well i cheated on my ex and we broke up, crushed his heart that i wasnt there all the time, but i still saw him not as much as i should but i was there. Well now that i have more free time i can see him more. I pick him up once a week from school and take him back to my house and we do his home work, cook dinner, watch tv, play games and talk. Normally its jus me and him, my new girlfriend usaully leaves wheile he is there and has never meet him out of respect, she never wanted him to feel weird. Well i talk to him about her, and she even bought him his own spider man plate for when he comes over, well he asked to meet her. So yesterday she stayed home with me and was there with him. He had a great time, she even went and bought monolpy for us all to play since i dont have any board games for him… They talked and he really liked her, when me and him were jus in the store he pointed to a chcocalte heart and said "why dont you buy this for your girlfriend i think she should will like it"…. So i’m driving him home like cool they both had a great time he was so happy he was like next week i’m beating both of you in monolpoy.. Well when i tell his mom that she was there she got MAD. She said that i disrespected her, she said i should of told her first and let her decide.. Like decide what?? You know i’m a good father figure( better that his real dad but thats another story) but she is second guessing my descion. I know the only reason she does not want her around is cause i cheated with her. They also got into a fight 3 years ago, my ex showed up at me and my girlfriends place and started a fight with her… I jus want peace is she wrong for not waitning her around isn’t this childish??? He loves me i love him, he has a good positive time with me and thats whats important right?? Shouldnt we do whats best for the kid not what makes her boar float??? Side note i don’t smoke in the house when he is there, i barley curse in front of him i dont drink beers in front of him, like some people(her) but yet she says she has to decide how she is gonna proceed with this, lol…. HELP
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I feel like is is honestly my first true love, we dated for about almost a year and her broke up with me cause i was doing drugs… then me and him and his sister(who is my best friend) went on a vacation(again i was there because of the sister) and he told me he was starting to have feelings for me again, and he says every time we hang out a lot he starts to like me, and like i hung out with his sister but he was there and his sister and her boyfriend basically kicked me out of the room so i went out into the front room to watch tv me and him were talking just friendly but we weren’t sitting close together he also has a girlfriend but we were kind of flirting joking around with each other and me and him had a messy break up and he used to be so mean to me then one day he was like hey im sorry for everything im going to be nice to you from now on and he actually has been but will we ever be more again me and him have had an on off thing for like 3 years. so help! be honest i don’t want to get my hopes up for nothing.
honestly why do you people even look at this question if you don’t believe in psychics you have obviously nothing better to do then make fun of peoples beliefs get a life.
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A very dear person. 72 yearsof age. He’s physically fit, atleast that’s what the doctor says. He doesn’t walk, watch TV, read or practically do anything except eating. He’s got a fear too deep seated that something will happen to him if he goes out of the house. His body is losing strength and he pants even when he walks a step. I’ve seen people of his age leading a normal life. I’m worried, what to do?
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A very dear person. 72 yearsof age. He’s physically fit, atleast that’s what the doctor says. He doesn’t walk, watch TV, read or practically do anything except eating. He’s got a fear too deep seated that something will happen to him if he goes out of the house. His body is losing strength and he pants even when he walks a step. I’ve seen people of his age leading a normal life. I’m worried, what to do?
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It is not that I want to leave him. But he’s hurt me – a lot. He’s also lied about so many little pointless things that I’ve lost trust. He is not a man of his word so it’s hard to find little reasons to gain back trust. I say I love him when he says it to me, but I don’t say it first usually.
He needs to learn to stop lying. He needs to find ways to gain my trust back. Four years of lying and doing horrible things really hurt. I can forgive him all I want, but he doesn’t understand that it doesn’t take pain away or put trust back.
I don’t know how to love him anymore. How do you fall in love again?
What would you tell him if you could?
He IS seeing someone, for about 2 months now. Although I don’t think he’s talking about the right things – he thinks he’s perfect it seems and that I am the problem.
I’m 20 he is 22.
Actually what’s funny is he only does things alone but in the same room as me. He doesn’t involve me with anything. He hardly talks to me, I understand some because he’s not a talkative guy – but he says nothing. He will not read with me, will not do anything unless it’s watch TV or play a video game with me. Which doesn’t make me feel better, I just feel like his brother or roommate.
Exactly what I told you/everyone (above) is what I’ve nicely said to him. He actually yelled at me for it. He thinks I’m holding a grudge and it’s all my fault. I’ve never hurt him, lied to him, never cheated on him or did anything wrong. Most I’ve ever done was call him a jerk or other small name because he name calls me ALL the time.
We have a 1 yr old btw. I’m the only one who takes care of her, even when I want a break, he doesn’t do anything to help me. 
I love our daughter but I need time to myself and it’s his child TOO.
At this point I don’t know what would put even a fraction of trust back. He’s done a lot wrong, I don’t want to list the horrible things. But he treats me wrong – that’s the point of this. He wants to work things out but doesn’t do anything.
My dad abandoned me and my husband’s new catchphrase is "I’m not your dad" because he thinks I’m mad at him because of him. Which IS wrong, I’m mad my husband spend the first year together, behind my back, trying to get someone else back. I’m pissed about other things he’s done, all the lying/cheating, him being stupid… I’m hurt about that. He knows this, and thinks I have a grudge. I don’t and even if I did, I am allowed to have lost love and trust in him from the things he’s done.
NO HE IS SEEING A DOCTOR that’s what I mean not another ‘person’
Well if anyone is willing to help 1-on-1 my yahoo IM is cizinsmistress
we have a little girl together. He doesn’t help me with her – ever. I’m the only one to take care of her. Even when I’m unwell. I never get a break. As much as I love her – it is his child TOO.
Okay — we’ve seen the movies. Didn’t change a thing.
If anyone wants to help 1-on-1 my yahoo IM is cizinsmistress
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