We have a small child together. My Ex told me that if he didn’t marry me, he would provide me with a car and a condo( My Ex makes about $ 200,000 a year.) When he decided he didn’t want to get married, he rescinded on his word and said all bets were off and I would have to fend for myself and our child. The engagement ring is worth about ,000.00 dollars. I have no money saved because my fiance didn’t want me to work in our eight years together. Yes, I didn’t have to listen to him and I could have planned better for my life and my childs life, but I didn’t and now I am in a hole. I offered to give him back the ring if he kept his word to me about getting me a car, he could forget about the Condo, just at least help me with a car, but he said that if he feels like it, maybe he will. So basically I can’t trust his word. Please help.
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I have been footing the bills for him while he finished school. He wants to stay engaged for an undisclosed amount of time, and called off the wedding after everyone was notified and the deposits were all paid and non-refundable. I do not just want to wait until he is ready [it has been three years already], and think we should go our seperate ways. I would be willing to give him the ring back if he pays me back everything he owes me for back bills and part of the wedding deposits. Is this unreasonable?
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My ex fiance was pissed I went to a stip club for my bachelor party.
I tried to talk things out but she says " she will never trust me again." she’s even gotten to the point where she demands that I "stop taking " to my friends who were with me at the club.
She called the wedding off, I know she is supposed to give back the ring but she says : " its the least I could do after ruining her life."
BS! that ring belonged to my great grandmother!
How do I get it back?!
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we picked it out together along with my wedding band. I let him have the wedding band since techinically it wasnt mine.
he all of a sudden called off the wedding and i had to move out…which is expensive in itself..plus i lost 00 in photographer (she only would give back 0) and i lost 0 in invitations, about 0 in our cake stuff (champagne glasses, engravings, napkins, cutters and plate)
my dress was 0 but i can still wear it if i ever get maried cause i only went to 2 fittings and didnt go to the last so it can still be altered.
anywas bottom line is MY FAMILY SPENT SOOO MUCH MONEY on this wedding, his family was able to cancel the honeymoon so they lost like the deposit…..
shouldnt i get to keep the engagement ring to help pay wedding debt? he gets to keep my wedding band………i should keep engagement ring.
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I live in NY state, just in case anyone knows the exact NY law on this type of issue. Also, if taking her to court is my option, what type of court would I go to, Small Claims or other? I know in small claims you can only sue for money and only up to ,000, the ring is worth about ,000. She is the one who called off the wedding and all she tells me is that’s it’s a gift and that I don’t have rights to it anymore. As far as I see it, shouldn’t it be considered a conditional gift, with the condition being marriage?
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