I dated this girl for over a year. Found out she cheated on me so I broke up with her. She started dating another guy a week after we broke up; she cheated on me with him to. Right before we broke up, she would constantly berate me (she was setting me up for the break-up). Post break up she flaunted her new relationship in my face and treated me like s***. I was nothing but great to her and I was really messed up for months.
A year later I’ve seen moved cities, got an awesome job, met tons of new people, and a new girl who treats me great. I’m having the best time of my life and I couldn’t be happier.
But, I still think about how my ex treated me like s*** and it still angers me. I know she broke up with her boyfriend and her myspace says something about how all men are pigs. I want to send her an email telling her how great my life is without her. I want to make her feel like crap. I think it would make me feel a whole lot better. Should I do it?
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so me and my ex are really good friends still and i might like him a whole lot more then he knows and he said he likes me on and off and i need advice fairly quick on how to get him back for good.
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So the thing is, me and my ex girlfriend broke up 2 years ago. We didn’t even break up because of her parents, actually. She was still living with them, and she cares very much what they think. They hated me and didn’t approve of me because our religious beliefs were different, our morals were different—plus their daughter "turned gay" for me, which she didn’t, of course. But it was easier for them to blame me than her, so they did. And she didn’t want to displease them, so we broke up. Now, a lot of time has passed and we’ve both grown and changed quite a bit, and I don’t know, but I always feel that energy with her that I used to feel–I always have, actually. And recently we just happened to be in the same place at the same time, and we ended up having this really long conversation. And it was weird, like, I kept realizing again and again how alike we are, and all these weird things kept happening like I would start to ask her a question, and at the same time I was changing the subject and asking her, she would start talking about what I was thinking about before I even said anything. And just little things like that kept happening. And that always happens every time we are together, we just kind of start to grow close again, and I always kind of push it away, because we have not been able to maintain a steady friendship without falling in love, and having it be this whole big thing. It’s just easier to push it away I guess, because last time there was a whole lot more hurt than happiness, and I’m afraid to hurt her again, and her family, and myself. I kinda started to realize that I’ve been hung up on her this whole time, but then I think–well, when we aren’t forced into the same situation, I hardly think about her, but then it’s like, she just comes on back in and reminds me about all that we lost, and all we had without even saying anything about it. And whenever I think about dating somebody else, the thought just doesn’t fit. And I’ve dated since, but it’s just kind of been uneventful. I’ve tried to talk to my friends about it, but they all kind of have their own sht going on, and they don’t really care. Plus, I feel weird bringing it up after 2 years. I’m just really confused! Any advice??
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I am 26, American and lived in the UK for 3 years where i met my ex fiance, we dated for 2yrs but i left him 3wks ago as he has anger & jealousy issues. He always tells me i mesmerize him and how much he loves me etc, i love him too but im terrified of him. I was really good friends with his best pals girlfriend and when the whole lot of us were on a night out 2mths ago a guy came up to me and offered to by me a drink which i refused, he then started flirting with me and i just passed it off and casually flashed my engagement ring at him. The nest thing i know my ex came over to the guy & started squaring up to him and was going to punch him but i pushed him over to the corner and told him to cool down and then he started fighting/shouting with me, i pushed him out of my way so i could walk away from him but he grabbed my arm and pushed me into the wall, he just put his head against mine and was looking into my eyes then he kissed me & said we should leave but i was terrified so i went back over to my friends but he kept his eyes on me. The next day when we had sex he was hurting me and he didn’t stop when i asked him to so i pushed him off me and again we had a screaming match and he told me i knew how to make him thick, he loves me but hates that other guy try it on with me and i ended up calling him a headcase and he got really pissed and punched me in the face, I still have a slight black eye. When he was at work i left him and came home only to find out that i am 2months pregnant with his baby. He has tired to call me all the time but i cant talk to him. No one knows im pregnant and i want to tell someone. Im terrified to tell my ex im having his baby and i don’t know how to or if i should even tell him. Any advice ?
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Me and my ex were together for 9 and a half months. We broke up because of arguments that were my fault. We were planning on getting eloped in January. She told me she wanted me to find the person she fell in love with and to realize the real reasons that i got with her in the first place. I did that and a whole lot more. Then family problems and other stress drove her to become emotionless and she couldn’t love anybody. I tried to show her how much i cared and wanted to help ease her pain. Then i was laid off from my job (only place i could really see her in person) and now after a month since then and no contact what so ever. She has a new boyfriend that i know is a liar and all around bad guy. Shes a good person and i feel fully responsible for her fall from who she really is and i can see shes somewhat lost. I saw here at a party recently and her new boyfriend tried to start a fight with me when i was standing up for her because a friend of his called her a b****. I wouldn’t fight him because i promised her i wouldn’t fight any new guy unless she gave me the word. before i left the party i let her know that i love her through my friend delivering the message since i wasn’t able to see her after that. It made her smile and she said she was sorry. I’m not entirely sure whats she was sorry for but i let her know once everyday that i love her. Then one time i text her that i love her and using her phone he told me to leave his girlfriend (her) alone. I told him "I love her and i let her know that everyday. If she wanted me to stop she’d say so." and plus i told him that i don’t listen to him i listen to her and i got nothing back after that. Is there a chance at all i can get her back?
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