My ex and I had filed for a divorce back in June but it recently got dismissed because we didn’t submit our paperwork. We have talked almost the whole time about wanting to make our marriage work. We have a toddler and I would love to raise him together. Here is the problem…. He said that for us to be together I would have to swallow. This is something I hate doing, and he knows this. Would you do something that makes you unhappy to keep your marriage together?
Me and my ex-boyfriend were together for 5 months and we broke twice because he thought i wasn’t happy in the relationship and when he asked me back out he told me it was because he was afraid that i was getting so close to his heart. we were having a great time until the day b4 New years Eve 2008 i went skating with my friend and he husband and husband’s brother and we were hanging out. i put myself in a stupid situation because i went drinking with her and her husband’s brother kissed me. when i told my boyfriend i was still alittle drunk and he was angry but we just went to sleep when i came over to his house that night. then the next day on new years eve he came over 2 my house and broke up with me. he said it was the only rule he’s ever had was not cheating but honestly he’s a hypocrite because he used 2 cheat on his girlfriends, he just never cheated on me. so it was a terrible breakup because i was stunned, i was trying 2 explain and he was trying to leave my room and i kept trying to keep him there to listen 2 me. i m overly sensitive which he should know that and i understand that he’s been hurt before but i want him to know that i love only him and i just want to make him happy, i mean he has nothing and he said i was the best thing that happened to him and he’s the best thing that happend to me. so then a couple weeks ago i went to hangout at his house cuz his friends are mine and he told me it was hard to be around me cuz he kept looking at me and these guys had bet on me and to assure him that i wasn’t there to annoy him i told him i wasn’t looking at him or bothering him and he said he wasn’t mad at me he just wanted some time. then he left the house and i slept there. then last friday i went over his house to apologize and he said he didn’t want to talk and he ignored me and stayed in the kitchen the whole time. i told me friend there that i wasn’t gonna be back for a while maybe a month so that he can heal properly. i just figured if i came over he’d want me back like last time because when we broke up he said he would prefer me not coming over to the house as much because we’d end up back together like last time. but i do want him back. i’m just afraid that time will make him not love me or want me anymore. what should i do?
p.s. people have told me that he needs time and others say that i should move on because i deserve better and honestly i know i deserve better because i my ex is a hippy who’s life ambition is to smoke pot and chill but he does want to make something of himself one day he just doesn’t know how and i want to help him. I love him so much, i’ve been depressed and in my room the whole week.
btw, i also stopped the guy and told him i wanted to go home. My ex just wonders why i put myself in that situation when i should’ve just come home. i just wanted to have alittle fun with my friend that i hadn’t seen for a year and she was married now and all grown up. i told my ex that i pushed the guy away because i did, the guy just tried to take advantage of me.
hears what i mean! Last year i was dating my ex who i had been with since we were about 13yrs. old. i am now 27. but one day out of the blue she ups and leaves me for a man who doesn’t believe in God and also is a bum. While we were together i paid all of our bills, including her car, and gave her anything she asked for. all she ever had to do was ask me and i would give in to her. i just do’nt understand why women leave the good guys for the guys who are very wrong for them. Oh as well my ex is catholic and her old man now is athiest. what the heck. her family is having a field day with it and they wish she would come back to me but she wont. i really miss her and wish she would come back. what does everyone else think i should do? and why do women leave the good guys for the bad ones?HELP
i hear what everyone is saying but here is the facts: we had a good relationship. we only had 3 fights the whole time we were together we were perfect for each other and i wish she was on here because she would tell you that we really loved each other, but i don’t know now if she does. i see her still all the time because she lives in one of my dads houses. what do i do
ok I was with my ex when I was 19 for about 6 months maybe less, and then I broke up with him for no reason, (I think I’m afraid to be in relationships) but then a couple years later, I saw him at the mall and we stayed in contact with each other, went on dates thought we were gonna get back together, but then we stopped talking on the phone, which was weird…but after a while we’d talk again and meet up and stuff. Well this past weekend he surprised me at my 22nd birthday with his sister and such, and we were together tha whole time, he acted like he wanted to be with me, but this whole week we haven’t talked…but anyways he is a good christian guy, and I was just an idiot…just sum advice thanks 
So the thing is, me and my ex girlfriend broke up 2 years ago. We didn’t even break up because of her parents, actually. She was still living with them, and she cares very much what they think. They hated me and didn’t approve of me because our religious beliefs were different, our morals were different—plus their daughter "turned gay" for me, which she didn’t, of course. But it was easier for them to blame me than her, so they did. And she didn’t want to displease them, so we broke up. Now, a lot of time has passed and we’ve both grown and changed quite a bit, and I don’t know, but I always feel that energy with her that I used to feel–I always have, actually. And recently we just happened to be in the same place at the same time, and we ended up having this really long conversation. And it was weird, like, I kept realizing again and again how alike we are, and all these weird things kept happening like I would start to ask her a question, and at the same time I was changing the subject and asking her, she would start talking about what I was thinking about before I even said anything. And just little things like that kept happening. And that always happens every time we are together, we just kind of start to grow close again, and I always kind of push it away, because we have not been able to maintain a steady friendship without falling in love, and having it be this whole big thing. It’s just easier to push it away I guess, because last time there was a whole lot more hurt than happiness, and I’m afraid to hurt her again, and her family, and myself. I kinda started to realize that I’ve been hung up on her this whole time, but then I think–well, when we aren’t forced into the same situation, I hardly think about her, but then it’s like, she just comes on back in and reminds me about all that we lost, and all we had without even saying anything about it. And whenever I think about dating somebody else, the thought just doesn’t fit. And I’ve dated since, but it’s just kind of been uneventful. I’ve tried to talk to my friends about it, but they all kind of have their own sht going on, and they don’t really care. Plus, I feel weird bringing it up after 2 years. I’m just really confused! Any advice??
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