I married a really attractive, slender woman over 8 years ago. For the most part, she has always been an attentive and sweet woman…still is. Up until about 2 1/2 year ago, she was also athletic and HOT! I couldn’t keep my hands off her and the sex was great! She would often push me away because I could never get enough. I’d buy her cute clothes and lingerie and she really wans’t hard to look at. I got spoiled…
Since then, she has literally doubled in weight. I love her to death, but I just don’t have a physical attraction for her anymore. She always wants to have sex, but I’m not aroused due to the lack of physical attraction. So she feels rejected and is always upset because she feels I’m not showing her enough "affection."
When I try to get her to work out with me or even just play a game with me and the kids, she always says she is too tired. She is always telling me how sad and rejected she feels, but she never seems to have any regard for my feelings. What can I do?
