So basically after 6 weeks of not being together and me trying to get my ex back she’s now “given in” and says she wants me back but wants to “take things slow” … According to her this means that she does what she wants and i do what i want and not being together 24/7… this comes across to me that she just wants it casual as she doesn’t want to have me on her Facebook (apparently she doesn’t want to see what I’m up to even though i have nothing to hide) and she doesn’t want her friends or family to know until she’s ready to tell them.
This all comes across as a bit of a cop out to me and was wondering what everyone else thought? Every time I bring up something that I don’t like about the situation all I get is an arsey message saying “fine! let’s just leave it then” or something along those lines! I ended up buying her a present for Christmas back in august that cost me 300, I’m getting nothing because she “cant afford it”… i feel like I’m losing out!
