Hi this is probably one of those questions i need to figure out myself but all the same if i could have any advice at all itd be good thanks ![]()
Im 19 and my girlfriend is 18 and Iv been with her just over a year now, I love her and she loves me. But were both going to university in septemeber and so we wont see eachother unless. I want to be single for that part of my life. I dont plan on marrying my girlfriend and i guess its a different kind of love I have for her because while im in university I want to be able to just go out and be free without having to worry about commitments. if another girl dances with me i want it just to be fun and care free. Im not saying I want another girlfriend or would be looking for one because that would be completly against my point. I just want that part of my life to be my own.
I would never be unfaithful to my girlfriend and i always try to look after her because she is younger than me. But i admit when we spend to much time together or have arguments i do get bored and tiresom of our relationship. Apart from that its fine. We agreed before we went out with eachother that we would break up before university but now as things have gotten more serious she told me she wants to stay with me and started to cry when I reminded her of our agreement. To stop her crying I told her we could stay together if thats what she wanted… But its not I want. I dont want to upset her, it upsets me to see her upset so i just dont know how to do this..
if any 1 can help id be truly greatful thanks for your time
I do want to be with her now but not when we both go to university. Im not scared of talking to her about breaking up but if i were to tell her about it, I really hurt her feeling. She would be shattered and I feel to strongly for her to let her go through that. I suppose i should break up with her now to stop our bond becoming even stronger and harder to break when its time. Its just akward and hard
Couple nights ago my man ended our relationship. We have been together for over a year. He moved to Vegas for work and he asked me to move there with him. I am still here in arizona and he suppose to come and get me las weekend and drive back to vegas but his boss made him travel for work in kentucky. I got really frustrated and would call and call and text him over and over if he doesn’t answer it.
He told me not to worry because if I worry it will make his life harder becuse he is not here with me.
I would call him and he wouldn’t answer the phone and I start to get mad at him. The other night he told me that I am smothering him and he need space! I know this is all my fault for smothering him and being needy to him. I know he was busy with work and stuff and shoulda left him alone and now he’s gone.
I freaked out and was crushed when he broke up with me. He is the love of my life and I truly love him. What should I do to get him back?
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Can someone pls help me to find Intellectual and Emotinal imagery in "lying eyes" (The Eagles)??
City girls just seem to find out early
How to open doors with just a smile
A rich old man
And she won’t have to worry
She’ll dress up all in lace and go in style
Late at night a big old house gets lonely
I guess ev’ry form of refuge has its price
And it breaks her heart to think her love is
Only given to a man with hands as cold as ice
So she tells him she must go out for the evening
To comfort an old friend who’s feelin’ down
But he knows where she’s goin’ as she’s leavin’
She is headed for the cheatin’ side of town
You can’t hide your lyin’ eyes
And your smile is a thin disguise
I thought by now you’d realize
There ain’t no way to hide your lyin eyes
On the other side of town a boy is waiting
with fiery eyes and dreams no one could steal
She drives on through the nice anticipating
‘Cause he makes her feel the way she used to feel
She rushes to his arms,
They fall together
She whispers that it’s only for awhile
She swears that soon she’ll be comin’ back forever
She pulls away and leaves him with a smile
You can’t hid your lyin’ eyes
And your smile is a thin disguise
I thought by now you’d realize
There ain’t now way to hide you lyin’ eyes
She gets up and pours herself a strong one
And stares out at the stars up in the sky
Another night, it’s gonna be a long one
She draws the shade and hangs her head to cry
She wonders how it ever got this crazy
She thinks about a boy she knew in school
Did she get tired or did she just get lazy?
She’s so far gone she feels just like a fool
My, oh my, you sure know how to arrange things
You set it up so well, so carefully
Ain’t it funny how your new life didn’t change things
You’re still the same old girl you used to be
You can’t hide your lyin eyes
And your smile is a thin disguise
I thought by now you’d realize
There ain’t no way to hide your lyin’ eyes
There ain’t no way to hide your lyin’ eyes
Honey, you can’t hide your lyin’ eyes
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For the past year I have been fighting for my ex to get her back. We have had a great three year long distance relationship. When she was out with her friends she sometimes got hurt and caused me to worry, and I called her when she was out with her friends just to make sure that she was okay. Becuase of that I was labeled controlling/posessive by her mother and her friends. It was during that time when we split up, as it was her mothers idea to see other people and get together later on. It was one of her best friends who convinced her to dump me and go out with him. I have given her one month and two weeks of ”space’ by her request. Her mood changes to her own friendly peronsality to down right nasty. After six months, the guy dumps her. I have treated her with respect, honesty and love, and yet she treats me like I have done something worse. She has told me things like ‘be strong, And it’ll work out between us in the end.” Now she says it wont work out.What can I do to get her back



