My Sister-in-law called off the wedding 3 wks before the date. My whole family was supposed to be in the wedding. We had a lot of time, emotion & money invested in it. Anyway, I purchased a Mixer for 5 for her shower. She called off the wedding a week after the shower. THREE months later I asked for the gift back since my receipt was expiring. Her parents dropped off the gift. Over the next few parties, she gave my entire family the cold shoulder! I finally sent her an email to ask her if everything was ok? She said that I was being very insensitive to her situation & selfish for asking for the gift. She took a dig at my family & also said that I spread rumors about why the wedding was called off. I called her to see if we could straighten it all out & she did not respond. Finally sent her another email saying that I was sorry for asking for the gift back & that I was hurt by her accusations & comments about my family. Now she isn’t talking to us? Was I wrong?
Also, wanted to add that its 8 months after she called it off and she is dating someone new and STILL hasn’t returned the shower gifts to everyone. Besides my 5 mixer, I also pitched in 0 for a gift from the bridal party. Also what about our engagement party gifts as well??? Still haven’t been reimbursed for the 0 bridesmaid dress, my son’s tux (which I had to buy since he was so small) and my hub’s tux deposit. Besides the money, I don’t understand why she is ignoring my children (ages 5 & 2- one of which is her godson). She hasn’t come for his bday and now she isn’t coming for xmas as well. Besides wanting to know if I was in the wrong? What should I do to make this all go away?? I have already apologized for asking for the gift back… what more can I do??? I also asked her mother (my in-law) to talk to her and try to smooth it out – explain that its important for the kids. Still nothing.
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I had a relationship with a friend of mine who is married. For six months this went on, we broke up a cpl days before xmas. She wants her husband back. So i just wanted to tell her I’m fine with it. Because when it happened i acted desperate towards her. And on xmas day,too. So is it fine to let her know that its ok with me or just leave it alone and keep looking like a desperate fool? the idea i got from Magic of Making Up. (book)
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Hi, I was wondering if these were signs my ex wants me back. Me and my ex were not talking for a while after we broke up we were friends after but i later dropped all communication because i needed to heal. and now im talking to her and shes sending alot of mixed signals when we first started talking again one thing i noticed when i got off the phone was we talked for 6 hours and 20 minutes. catching up and other things. on top of that for my bday she sent me a card that inside had a 3 page letter that told me how she was what her plans were for the future and on top of that she put her perfume on it which she use to put on all her letters when we were dating and its the exact same perfume too. on top of that she also said she missed me and understands why i didnt want to talk to her. since we started talking she also told me that when we werent talking she would check up on my facebook to see how i was doing. she also wore my necklace that i gave her for xmas 08 more than when i gave it to her. and she said she stopped checking it when she found out i was dating someone else (im not dating that person anymore) and then the other day she also sent me a list of songs that she listened too when we werent talking that made her think of me./us. she also still has all of our pics from when we were dating on facebook and she never deleted any of them she also put our personal dating album for her view only. so can someone plz tell me these are signs, that she wants me back cuz i really want her back cuz i love her but im afraid that i maybe wrong and i may push her away or hurt myself or both. so w/e help will be appreciated. Oh and one more thing if these are signs how should i go about getting her back
thanx
P.s. she broke up with me cuz she said she wasnt in love with me anymore but it sounds like she still cares about me the same way and so far shes called me 3 times this week already
oh and also she doesnt fully trust me yet due to me stop talking to her for a while
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me and this girl i met at college had a thing for two months. but then we started fighting so she said we wouldnt talk the rest of the semester. so, to get over her i had sex with another girl when i was really drunk one night. the following weekend she came to me and told me im the last thing she thinks about before she sleeps and that she really likes me. she also told me that she was coming down the week before to tell me she wanted to be with me but didnt bc she heard me in the room with the other girl, but after what i did she doesnt trust me. she spent that night with me but we didnt have sex and we never have bc she’s not that kind of girl in my eyes.
to make it up to her i sent her flowers for xmas. before this we were talking on the phone for 2-3 hrs each night before sleeping. but after i sent the flowers i didnt get a thank you or anything. i had to see what was up. two days ago i called her and asked her what the deal was. she said that she told we were just friends and i didnt have to do that for her and she feels nervous talking to me because if she does she feels like i get the wrong impression. then i told her how i thought before that she didnt want to be with me bc she didnt trust me and she agreed.
did she not say thank you because she feels that if she does it will go further and into a possible relationship but she’s afraid or did she lose feelings for me?
we both live in states 900 miles away so i cant see her in person. we are on break for college. I’ll see her next weekend though. She also told me that she was never expecting me to send flowers and she was shocked when she got them.
after not talking to her for two nights, i called her at 1am and she sent the call to voicemail after the second ring. she’s never done that before.
im 19 and she is 18. both freshman in college and we live in the same dorm, so i see her just about everyday.
Just to clarify. We both go to the same university however we are on Xmas break and I’ll see her next week when school starts again. For now, we are back home in states that are 900 miles away.
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What is going through my EX’s head! what can i do? Why would my ex bf get off with his new partner in front of me in bar, when we bumped into each other? But couldn’t stop starring across in my direction all night, and giving evils to the person i was out with that night, who happened to be a friend. Really confusing behavior! They ended the relationship several months back.
They keep warming to me and running! they put update on facebook saying ‘hungover and disappointed in myself’ then deleted me from facebook a week later! no contact since..
This week my ex unblocked me from MSN, making excuse to get in touch for a dvd.. he will be online, but doesnt initiate conversation. He has just joined somewhere that i go to…
He got in touch again, hinting how he could get his DVD back.. saying post or would you like to meet in person? but won’t come flat out and ask to meet, he gives me the options… then asked ‘if im STILL single’ but nothing else!!!
He still keeps hinting about the DVD, so decided to leave it at the gym for him so he can pick up. Forcing him to stop hiding behind this reason any longer…
Bumped into him again last night, he asked if i wanted to go for coffee before xmas and said i was looking hot. He also came straight over and asked if the person paying me attention was my new partner (it wasn’t)
Keeps getting in touch in small ways since.. but is very proud and doesnt like to admit they are wrong
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