My fiance Broke up with me after I did all she asked to fix our relationship.?

About three months ago I lied to my fiance about texting one of my friend’s friend. I wanted to find out where people were going out etc. she was a girl. I didn’t tell her because I was scared she would get mad. Now, she told me that i had to quit drinking, go to therapy, and take medication. I love this woman with all my heart. we been together for 1 1/2 years. I would do anything for her. I have gone to therapy, taken medication for adhd, quit drinking, quit going out. I don’t talk to the "friends" i had when I was going out anymore. We have had some money troubles so i went out and got a second job. She has no job. I take care of everything. She now says, after all this hard work that I have done that she doesn’t want to be with me. She wants to be friends, but she can not promise anything as to working it out. What sucks is I was making so much progress. She also said she doesn’t want to have kids with me because i have 2 from previous and that it wont b special. What do I do?
all I want to say is..Sunji H,,,you are so wrong to even be on yahoo answers…no are no help to anyone.

I also want to say that she says she can’t trust me. Which I accept and I am doing everything i can to rebuild that. She has all my passwords, access to every call on my cell (we are on a family plan), I know she loves me and that I have been good to her. and I also have hurt her..that is why i have done all this work. I just wish she would love me for who I have become…not my past…is there any way to fix it? I am in counseling, maybe if she came with, it would help.


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Going through a painful breakup and want someone to talk to…?

I’m about 5’6, female, blue-eyed, long blonde hair, slim, 16 and from England. A few days ago my boyfriend ended our relationship but he dragged it on and made it so painful by first using me, yelling at me, hitting me and finally blanking me until he ended it. Now I’d just like to meet some new people to talk to and take my mind off it. I LOVE to meet a guy from America but any person from anywhere will be so welcome. I don’t know how to send messages on yahoo answers so leave an answer or an email address or something if you want to talk.
Thank you so much =]


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how to save a dying relationship when you feel responsible!?

so it’s been forever since i referred to yahoo!answers for advice
i’m hoping for a great welcome back ^_^

anyway!! it’s about my friend and i
i think i made our relationship bad b/c my day got really really busy
and they thought i was ignorning them when really i just didn’t have time
well; they said i’ve been heartless and whatever but i don’t want to be! and i don’t think i’ve been! so i wrote a letter explaining everything but they got extremely mad at me! and idk y! and they tried to act like i was "playing" them or whatever which hurt my feelings because i was being honest! and we didn’t talk for 3 days then somehow we were working on something in class and i asked them something and that’s how we started talking again; but now they’re mad atme again! i don’t even know why! and they won’t reply my texts or even look at me in the hallway! what would YOU do?

thanks all!
im very loyal btw.


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What do you think of these two poems I wrote..?

These aren’t professional or anything so I’m sure the way they are written could be better but what do you get from them? The first one is called If tomorrow never came.

If Tomorrow Never Came

If tomorrow never came

Would you know how I feel

Would it even be a big deal

If tomorrow never came

And I wanted you to know

Would you come with me

Or would you go

If tomorrow never came

Would you hold me today

Would you try to make me think

Everything was okay

If tomorrow never came

Would you take a chance

Would I be your evening romance

If tomorrow never came

Would you love me forever

If asked when you’d stop

You’d always say never

If tomorrow never came

Would everything be exactly

What it seems

But what if it did come

Would it all stay this way

Or would you go back to

Not even knowing my name

This second one is called I Could Be

I could be your everything.

Your everything and more.

I could be the wine

that makes you pass out on the floor.

I could be your sunshine

on a cloudy day.

The person who tells you what

no one else will say.

I could be your angel

and make sure that your okay

fly above your head

each and everyday

I could be your air

you would need me to survive

I would smile just to know

that I’m the reason your alive.

I could be your lover

the reason that you grin.

Your desire, your one and only sin.

I could be your everything

the possibilities have no end

and it kills me, I could be so much

but I’m only your friend.
Sorry I didnt space those apart very well..
Well, I did not ask you your religious views or whether or not you thought that I needed GOD in my life. I simply asked if you liked my poetry. Please feel free to take your Bible Hugging self to the religious part of Yahoo Answers, maybe your input is welcomed there. K thanks.


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WHY don't straight girls understand this?

…Just answer me this.

Why is it that a large portion of straight girls looooove gay men, but then when it comes to lesbians, they’ll freak and begin to flatter themselves by saying, "What if she likes meeee?" Why are we seen as such threats?

And the same goes to straight men who freak out at gay men, though they seem to engage in a more physically violent or outward way, or even keep the "psst, psst, he likes me" talk to themselves.

Because, GOD FORBID a disgusting dyke chick find you attractive or admire you, and you feel the threatened need to shut them out of your life no matter what sort of pleasant experience you’ve had previously, and add to the gossip circle when one hasn’t even given you a second chance.

I can’t even talk to a straight girl without her snickering to another girl or starting sh*t about how she’s uncomfortable or feels that I’ve been checking her out, simply because I’d like to get closer or talk, or become friends. Since when can’t one talk to another without suspectability of attraction, if that?

I’ve never in my life met a straight girl that’s actually cool with bisexual girls or lesbians and doesn’t find them "creepy" or scare-mongers herself into thinking she’s somehow universally attractive to every chick with short hair and who likes to play sports. I know that the supportive straight chicks DO exist, but most of the time, they’ll go on a half-a$$ scale and only talk to gay men. And there are a very few that DO support bis and les chicks, but would someone on Yahoo! Answers please tell me; WHERE IN HELL ARE THEY ? :( -END RANT.- *sigh*

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I’m in an incredibly bad mood due to yet another failed attempt/ruined friendship upon a straight girl finding out that I’m gay, when I’ve held less than ten conversations with her, tops. Potential acquaintance rate is now down to zilch once again. These past 3 years have just not been my years, eh? (:

So, my real 2 questions here that I would like to ask you:

1. How do I advert stupid girls thinking I like them when I do not? And even if I happened to fancy them, how can I avoid being "outed" when I’ve displayed completely mellow behavior, only to be released by my sexuality?

2. How can I possibly engage myself, as a semi-open lesbian, into "normal" female activities (such as changing for gym class, participating in class plays that involve male-female romance, etc.) without experiencing said awkwardness or facing constant confrontation?

When will my reign of shame end?!

(inb4 "Why do you only try to make friends with straight girls?". Because trust me, I don’t.)

And if you want to know why I’m so upset at the moment: because a female acquaintance told me that she "could never be friends with" a gay girl because there was [REPORTEDLY] "always" a "chance" that the girl would "like her", and that "our friendship just wouldn’t work that way". And YES, this was in reference and response to ME, since a family member who goes to the same school made a certain commentary that outed me to her.
WOAH, I just realized how much I wrote. That was WAY more than 2-3 questions.

SORRY, GUYS.


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