After almost tree years relationship ( including a year and four months of being engaged) my fiance has decided to take a break, bc hes been stressfull lately. I, gave him the time he wanted. i havent call him or write him, bc i understand he wants to think things, as he told me he wanted to do this. all his family are very united with me; his brother told me hes not like wanting to date girls or do crazy things overthere, he just shut down himself.
I was very confused at the beginning (its been a week it happened) bc i dont even live around him like for him to feel stress. I do believe he loves me alot and dont want to hurt me at all. i cant deny i had cried about this. I gotta say too i had let it gone the fact of being myself as i was when he used to come to visit me the very first times. now i am working into myself for when we get back he would be more than in love with me and we will gonna be ready for marriage (as long as i havent finish college, i asked him to wait till
i get my degree and i could move to the USA with him.
what should i do?
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i know that im young but i really think i fell in love- no i know that i have fallen in love with this girl. we broke up a few days ago after a relationship that lasted one year and four months and one day. we didn’t really have a reason, we never fought or had any major problems just a few petty things that are normal like politics and homosexuality…civil educated debates. but now that we have broken up the pair of us both feel like something is missing and i just would like to know how do i move on from this? what do i do now that i have loved and lost?
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okay, so i went out with this guy a couple of years ago. it wasn’t much. it was just a little childish thing. then after about 4 months we broke up. which was fine. neither of us were that bothered. then another 4 months or so passed, and during that time we became best friends. and i mean best friends. on the phone for hours each day, always together having a laugh. then he asked me out again, and i said yes. it was perfect. we were so close and we were always having a laugh when we were together. sounds cheesy, yes. but it’s true. it felt so great because he was my best friend and my boyfriend all in one. then it was coming up to six months, and a few days before our six months, i finished it. six months isn’t that long, i know. but bare in mind i’m only a teenager. don’t bother asking why i finished it. anyway, it’s been about a year and four months. we don’t really talk at all anymore. after we broke up, we spoke a few times and he mentioned how much he really cared about me and genuinely thought we’d be together for ages, even forever. (again, i know it’s cheesy, but don’t make fun) we occasionaly talk if i pass him, but it’s not the same. i’ll always have a sort of ‘soft spot’ for him, but i can’t say that i love him anymore. but i really miss him. because he was my best friend. and i really want him back in my life as a best friend, even a good friend. but we never talk much. not about anything relevant anyway. i just don’t know what to do. if you’re going to be horrible then don’t even bother commenting, i’ll just report you, okay? i can’t really talk to him on msn because neither of us are on there much. this is going to sound so lame, but when we were together, i was planning on making him a cd for our six months, but obviously i never got the chance to give it to him. i have no clue why, but i really want to give it to him. i don’t know if i should just forget about it all and just try and be happy with the way things are? any advice will be appreciated 
if you read all of that thankyou so much!!
p.s. on the new yahoo home page, where is the link to get onto yahoo! answers? i can’t find it anywhere!
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