My fiance broke up with me and now has a new girlfriend….how do I cope?
My fiance of a year last week broke up with me through an email and the next day, he met someone new and is now "in love" in a relationship. We have been unhappy for a couple weeks now and ever since he had surgery, he’s been very weird and it doesn’t help that he drinks a lot too. Apparently, this new relationship is an online fling. Up until a couple weeks ago we never had trust issues and we were a great team. We were best friends before we started dating.
Now I feel lost and uncertain. I can’t help but wonder if he’ll return or not. How do I move on without thinking of him and her together? How can I move on without him? I feel like I’m dying inside 
btw, I never saw this chick show up until last week the day before we broke up and I have confirmation that it’s a brand new thing. He hasn’t started drinking heavily until after the surgery. Up until then, we never had trust/cheating issues.
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I know how it feels but you just have to move on. You DON’T want him back. He msut be a jerk to do this! Very stupid to have an online fling. And why were you engaged if you’d only been together for a year, or were you together before you got engaged and have just been engaged for a year?
Anyway I know it’s horribly hard to get over a break up because I’m doing it right now, but you just have to. You will feel like crap for a while but you just keep moving on with your life and do some new things to and eventually it will get better. That’s what they say, anyway, and it makes sense. I’m already better than I was and it’s only been a month and a bit.
I know you must be wondering why but basically the answer is he is an idiot and jumped ship and that’s all there is to it. At least you have a good reason for it ending (the other person), I think it’s harder without one.
Take care.
he is drinking to get away from you. maybe you are just ugly…and he wants some new pu ssy!
There are many other guys in the world that are better than he will every be…trust me.
This happened to me twice and I wish there was a way to say that the pain goes away. But in my experiences, it didn’t…
It did over time but I doubt that’s what you want to hear since it’s such a common answer. I suggest talking to family, a LOT to get your mind off him. But seriously if he met a new girl within days I highly doubt he’s ‘in love’ with her. I call that a ‘rebound’ relationship and I don’t want to sound like I’m talking trash but you can give it a week, month at most.
Talk to friends too, just try not to make every conversation end up being about him. I made that mistake many times.
He sounds like he was cheating on you. And he drinks too much. And on top of all of that he is the one who dumped you. Hmm. Not a great guy. Good riddance! My advice is to remember all of the above. Take care of yourself, get healthy, hang out with family and friends. And ‘make the most of all that comes and the least of all that goes’. If they leave, it wasn’t meant to be. My heart goes out to you, be strong
Awe darling, i’m so sorry that your heartbroken
think of it this way, Hes been cheating behind your back and talking to a girl online, He drinks too much.
You deserve better. i know its hard, ive been in your shoes. I found being with a bunch of mixed friends (boys and girls) going to a pub and just having a laugh with them will help you to remember who you were before he entered your life. be your old fun loving self and make yourself feel good, pamper yourself and stick with friends.
i know it hurts sweety, but if he has moved on so fast, best not give him the satisfaction that hes hurt you. he won’t come back, and if he does, its only to use you. Its happened to me. I thought they guy i was with was the kindest, most loving man ever….i was wrong, he used sweet talk to get what he wanted and when he was done, he moved on to the next girl. and when he wanted seconds he’d be all over me.
please sweety, learn from my mistake, and don’t think of him or take hi back if he ever tries to. you will only be hurt again.
Remember who you are, an independent, beautiful young lady with more charisma then that twat could ever have. do what i did, go on holiday then when you come back, find someone who deserve you. xx
move on babe. why re you wondering if he’s gonna return or not? you re seriously not considering getting back together with a guy who didn’t put you or your feelings into consideration? he dumped you for an online fling, broke up with you by email, and didnt care about your feelings, that shows how much he didn’t respect you. he took you for granted and you still wish to get back with him?
it will hurt, but id tell you the truth, you deserve better, trust me. dont ever consider giving him a chance if he comes back. it will get worse and you will be more hurt if you ever give him any more chance
MOVE ON. heal and grow from this
I just got over a year of emptyness from a serious relationship that ended badly. Stupidly, I though of everything under the sun to deal with the feelings. It took me one year to realize that I was never meant to stop the emotions and feelings of being lost and empty and hurt etc.. I feel it’s a necessary process and it WILL go away. You invested feelings and paid the price. I con only imagine that you feel a low now because you felt a high before. Don’t give up, don’t despair, the pain isn’t over yet. Keep an eye out for the day that you wake up not thinking about ti as much and maybe you’ll notice some stud muffin winking at you.