Why do men cheat even yet they don't want to leave their wives?
I’m not saying all men cheat. And I know men and women cheat. But why? And if they do, why don’t they want to leave their wives. Lets say "he" has children. Is it because of the kids? The thrill? And the women he’s with has a family of her own. And the wife caught him cheating but gave him a second chance cause he was begging for it, but why is he cheating again with the same women?
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Because they’re cheaters. Period. It doesn’t matter what the wife looks like, or if she’s the best wife in the world. It doesn’t matter if the kids are bad or good kids. Money is not the concern. Property is not the concern. They cheat, that’s it. They cheat. A guy like this, will be remorseful to the wife, in order to get her to "calm down" and get over it. His words of sorrow are simply "pacifiers" to keep her calm. When the coast is clear, they’re out doing it again. If they really care for the other woman, they’ll keep returning to her. The wife at home represents bills, issues, commitment, schools, PTA, groceries, etc. The other woman represents "a breath of fresh air" in the cheater’s mind. Even if the wife were to become like the other woman, it wouldn’t work. Because she will always represent "wife" and the other woman will always represent "sex and fun". If she has children or bills to pay, that doesn’t matter, because the guy is not married to her and he can take off and go home if the other woman starts discussing serious subjects.
because their easy and weak and asses
Men and women cheat because they aren’t getting something from their spouse that they need and they are either too afraid to ask or don’t know HOW to ask. It doesn’t mean that they don’t love their spouse – it just means that there is a lack of communication in the relationship. If communication isn’t restored in the relationship and the deficit isn’t corrected the cheating will continue even after the cheater is given a second chance.
Girl, it could be a million reasons; fear, action, excitement, addicted to sex, addicted to lying, looking for more sex, not getting any at home, overwhelmed by stressed, etc, etc. etc.
it’s kinda like dithing. remember ditching ? you know you’re not supposed to do it, but you do it for the thrill. Kids play a big factor in not leaving. but the biggest factor of all, is a package of love, sex, peace, entertainiment and space. if anything is missing from the package, that’s when the infidelity comes
I could be because of the children or it could be he is hoping the wife will leave him.
Why the same woman? Because she’s there. And that’s why men cheat, because it’s right there in front of them and they have no will power. I’ve been told that a stiff d*** has no conscience.
If a woman knows a man is cheating and doesnt leave him, he will do it again. She is asking for it. They stay with their wives because they are connected through kids and bills and a life. The other woman is just a side piece.
We need variety.
Not an easy question to answer.
The roots might be in the fact that monogamy is a social custom—not something we are hard wired to.
I’ve known men who love their wives…cheat, and would never DREAM of leaving them, even when they have no real connection (different addresses suggests a lack of connection to me).
The best explanation I heard was a man who told me he couldn’t leave his wife because SHE hadn’t done anything to deserve being left. I didn’t agree with it…but I understood it.
Humans are curious critters indeed…
Because they can’t resist cake.
I think it’s a case of boredom and wanting to look for new excitement once in a while. But still wants to keep the wife though for emotional support, and love. Sounds complicated right?
Because people lack morals!!!! And they are cruel. I gave my partner sex, variety, love support and no nagging – he still cheated. Some people are just fucked up!!!!
How many bulls do you put in a field of cattle? A man can service many women and there is a genetic genetic propensity to widen the gene pool. Women consider this infidelity whilst men consider it an act of satisfaction
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